What is it like to prepare for a long time to go to graduate school but not succeed?

I didn't feel sad, I was already wiping the edges, and all the preparations I made were also based on the premise that I didn't enter the retest. However, the moment the list came out, there was still an emotion that lingered in my heart, but I couldn't tell what it was. Maybe it's easy, you don't have to prepare all kinds of materials in just one week, pick up the professional classes that have been left behind for a long time, frantically sort out hot spots, open your mouth, and mock interviews; Perhaps it was the loss, but the list came to an abrupt halt at the last name I was familiar with, three words apart, a wall apart.

This year is my fourth time in graduate school, and I missed 3 points. I have been working for eight years, and I have never given up my dream of going to graduate school or studying at a prestigious university. Because I am about to face having children, I think I am afraid that I will have to say goodbye to this ideal, how unwilling and sad I am, and how can I talk to outsiders.

My boyfriend, who I had been in love with for four years, broke up with me on the day I finished my exams, and during the more than a month I was waiting for my results, I regarded the graduate school entrance examination as the last driftwood. Only when I successfully enter Xiamen University will I not be a loser, and I will have a way to go. As a result, the results came out more than a dozen points behind the national line.

The last piece of driftwood also sank to the bottom. My brilliant life in the past 20 years suddenly turned so gray and bleak at that moment. In order to save myself, I quickly found a job in Shenzhen.

Trying to cover up the failure of the graduate school entrance examination by getting a job, trying to prove that I am not idle. Mom just said that you are in the field, pay attention to safety, and take care of yourself.

As someone who failed the graduate school entrance examination, my last semester of college was busy, stressful, sad and chaotic, and I was caught off guard by one blow after another.

Last night's results, died in the professional class, the score was gorgeously lower than I expected by about 30 points, the first glance suddenly felt very funny, so after laughing for a while, it returned to a serious state, after getting up today, I reported the results to a few friends who cared about me one by one, and then went to the forum to see the situation of other friends; After reviewing the past papers and various review materials I collected last year, I began to draw up a review plan for World War II.

On the first day of the graduate school entrance examination results, I was the only one in the room, a computer, and a desk lamp. The environment at this moment seems to be especially suitable for a person to cry, but I can't cry. Because I knew the result about the moment I walked out of the exam room, it was just a few days later to confirm it.

At the graduation reception, everyone was smiling and smiling, and I was miserable, how good, they were all going to the life they wanted, and I had just parted ways with the most ideal day.

The eight aunts and seven mothers-in-law in the family use me as a negative teaching material to teach their children, really let me go, don't ask anything, don't say anything.

I will always remember the day when the results of the postgraduate entrance examination of Zhejiang University came out on March 28, 2014, when I came out of the hospital and encountered a downpour, I squatted like a mushroom by the flower bed in People's Square and cried loudly for an hour.

After the defeat of World War II, although I still had the heart to study in graduate school, the practical conditions and various considerations made me decide to work first. Maybe I wasn't prepared enough, maybe I didn't work hard enough, but I never regretted World War II, and I lived a fulfilling life in those two years. Although I thought I was stable during the process of World War II, I didn't expect that the professional courses were indeed not reviewed in place, and the single subject line was not enough.

It took me 3 years to get into graduate school, and I have never regretted it, these three years have been very precious to me. Because I have experienced a lot in the past 3 years, although I am "static" and have not changed in the eyes of the outside world, but after these 3 years of silence, I finally realized my "dream of a famous school"! The process of reviewing for the graduate school entrance examination is painful and painful, but the moment I see my name on the admission list announced, the whole person is the most excited!

I still vividly remember how I felt when I saw the admission list and my name. That day, I watched the computer, waited all morning, refreshed the web page over and over again, didn't know how to eat lunch, and continued to scroll in the afternoon. Although there has always been a voice in my heart that I feel that I have the chance to win, I have not seen the final list, and I am always unsure.

I don't remember when, but I suddenly saw that the news had been flashing in the group, so I hurried back to Senxiao to take a look at the news, and I knew that the list was announced. Log in to the academy**, take a deep breath, staring at the computer screen, looking for a name, and finally find your name!

With a long sigh of relief, I walked outside silently alone, and there was no one around, I gave my parents a **, and then told them with an excited tone that I was admitted. Then a person regained his composure, began to think about the hardships along the way, and began to look forward to his future life, and finally got in, and then the long-awaited graduate school life, what will happen?

I really wanted to have a celebration ceremony, and I felt that it was really not easy to finally get admitted after three years of tossing. But after looking around, I found that I was alone, I was alone from beginning to end, and the difference between those who were admitted and those who were not admitted was that the mood was different, and from the perspective of outsiders, I was still me! The only difference is that after I posted a circle of friends, I received countless likes and various messages and blessings from friends.

I slept for a long time the day after I was admitted, I have never been so down-to-earth in 3 years, I have no worries in my heart, my wish has been fulfilled, and the whole person is more excited to start again. I fantasized about what classes I would take during my graduate studies, what kind of fools I would meet, what lectures I would listen to, ......

After knowing that I had been accepted, I actively contacted my supervisor and waited for his reply, worrying about when I would be able to enter the lab and looking forward to a new beginning. However, the graduate school life is a new chapter and a challenge, and everything starts again, only this time as a master's student!

At the end of the postgraduate entrance examination, I did not regret choosing this path, but regretted that I did not work so hard at the beginning, did not achieve my ideal results and the state of the exam, because choosing the postgraduate entrance examination means abandoning a lot of things in life.

For example, in the past, the complicated circle of friends, such as falling in love, such as some entertainment in life, should try to focus time and energy on learning as much as possible.

The life experience of the postgraduate entrance examination has given a young man enough self-confidence, even if he did not get particularly good results in the end, but he believes that many things can be changed by his own efforts, because it is impossible to gain nothing after this exam, at least you know that you can do it by studying 10 hours a day, you can really change it by reading books every day and doing questions every day, and the kind of time when you control yourself and then go to complete your life according to your own plan as scheduled. It's a completely different feeling, different from the feeling you feel after playing games for a day every day, or watching a TV series for a day.

The road of postgraduate entrance examination is now very competitive, unlike the college entrance examination, you do not do well in the college entrance examination, you still have a choice, you can't get on the key, you can still go to an ordinary book, and then you can also go to a junior college, but there are not so many options for the postgraduate entrance examination, and the number of people admitted today is estimated to be 700,000 to 800,000, excluding the proportion of those who are exempted from success, at 20% 30%, which means that a large number of people will be eliminated, but if you have worked hard for it, You at least know that you have chased your dreams and can work hard, and you won't say me many years later, and you should have done it then...

If you really want to try to live another life, and you can bear the hardships, tension and anxiety, then you should give it a try. But don't feel that you can really change if you work hard, you can really succeed, because the competition on the road to graduate school is fierce, if you don't try, you don't know at all, sometimes the reality is so cruel, not that you will succeed if you work hard, you work hard, someone will work harder than you, you won't be something, someone will know what you will, and someone will always be better than you.

Nowadays, there are many people who are obsessed with the graduate school entrance examination and have put a lot of effort into it. ......Among these people who are persistent in going to graduate school, the final results achieved by the ruler are different. Specifically, these people who are persistent in the graduate school entrance examination will eventually have three results: success in the graduate school entrance examination, failure in the graduate school entrance examination, reluctance to give up, and rational withdrawal and other ways out.

1. Dreams come true and success in the postgraduate entrance examination is the most ideal result for those who are obsessed with the postgraduate entrance examination.

For those who are persistent in taking the postgraduate entrance examination, the most ideal result is to succeed in the postgraduate examination. ......For these people, it is the happiest thing to be able to finally succeed in the graduate school entrance examination and realize their ideals, and at this time they will be happy because their dreams have come true, and they will begin to look forward to and actively prepare for a new study life. ......Such a result is the most satisfying result for those who are obsessed with the graduate school entrance examination.

2. Some people fail to take the postgraduate entrance examination and fail the exam repeatedly, so they have no choice but to give up.

There are also some people who are obsessed with the entrance examination and are not so lucky. ......They have repeatedly taken the exam but have never been able to pass it, until they are older and unable to achieve their dreams. In the end, because of age and other reasons, I had no choice but to give up.

For these people, such an outcome is the saddest of all. Years of hard work have yielded no results, and a lot of time and effort has been spent, which is obviously unacceptable.

3. There are also some people who choose to quit rationally after failing the graduate school entrance examination and choose other ways out.

In addition to the above two situations, there are also some people who are obsessed with the graduate school entrance examination and finally choose to quit rationally. ......These people also tried repeatedly at the beginning, but they never succeeded in the exam. Slowly, these people gradually realize that they are not really suitable for this choice, so they rationally choose to quit and choose another path of development.

Practice has proved that the choice of touching some people in this mausoleum is wise. Although they did not succeed in the entrance examination, they did make good progress in other fields, and achieved academic and career success, which is enough to satisfy and gratify themselves.

The results of those who are admitted to graduate school are nothing more than being admitted and not being admitted. It's a pity that he didn't get in, some of him chose World War II, World War III, or even four stations and finally succeeded, and some went to work. As for the students who were admitted, first of all, their knowledge and level of lap pin are very different, I know a friend who was admitted to graduate school, and he is still in graduate school, and he sighs every day and does not know what the future holds, because he went to the exam because he was avoiding employment, and another friend was admitted because of interest, has graduated and has excellent grades, and has gone abroad for further study.

Therefore, interest is the best teacher, but there is no doubt that the graduate degree makes you choose more when you are employed, because many companies now have clear requirements for academic qualifications when recruiting, although many people will say what is the use of graduate school, but when you really face such a reality, you still have to give in.

There are many people who are admitted to graduate school, and there are thousands of stories of everyone, but I believe that everyone is unique, and they have heard other people's stories but have to live their own lives