What should you do if you meet an unreasonable person in a dormitory?

Updated on society 2024-03-03
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The first warning, be sure to let the other party know what they are doing to make everyone unhappy. If this is the case in the future, don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes, after all, people haven't changed it for so many years, and it's not like you can help him change it after living with him for a few years, so change your mentality, don't waste time on this kind of thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't co-opt others to isolate him, because this will hurt others early, what you say is unreasonable and not specific enough, is he deliberately treating you badly? Or are you not used to his behavior? Such as hygiene, talking.

    Or is he weirder? Everyone else in the dormitory has long eyes and knows what kind of person he is. I can't bear to quarrel with him, and it's better than saying bad things about him in private.

    Or make it clear to him directly. Have a good talk.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The road goes to one side of the sky, you can't afford to stomp on it, don't touch it hard, just treat him as air.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ignore him, there used to be such a person in our dormitory, and it was very unreasonable, we just didn't care about what she did, as long as she was passable, as long as it didn't harm us.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What can I do? Scolding him? In this kind of society, the last unlucky one is to pull yourself. I had to endure it, 54! Don't bird him. What have you done, it's intolerable

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it is his inherent character problem, we can still understand it, and it is not easy for us to come to this world! Be more tolerant, ignore him, or don't get too close.

    If it's because of something, then you should communicate with him more, understand him from the people he trusts around him, some of the behaviors of some classmates are actually related to the environment in which he lived and grew up for a long time, especially his previous family environment has a great impact on him, you can try to understand him, understand his family, of course, if it is particularly difficult to communicate, you should reflect with the counselor teacher in time, let the teacher coordinate, and the latter communicate with the school's psychological counselor. Check whether this student has mental illness, and don't be seriously assigned to a dormitory, which is not good for you! After all, everyone looks up and doesn't look down, and a harmonious relationship and atmosphere are still very important!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Everyone is in the same dormitory.

    If it's not too much, try to tolerate it.

    After all, it's not good to be stiff.

    If you can't bear it anymore, don't put it up anymore.

    Because there is a kind of person who is more indulgent the more you put up.

    There is a degree of presumptuousness.

    There is also a bottom line to tolerance.

    Good luck.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it's better to ignore him all. However, there must be a degree, you can't blindly tolerate it, you still have to break out when it's time to break out, but you can't hurt the harmony because of this. Let's metaphor.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Just be out of sight.

    By the way, I honed myself.

    There are not so many things in this world that are all about people's hearts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let's talk to him first and see if we can develop into friends. If it doesn't work, just put the matter on the table and say it, and the members of the dormitory group discuss it openly to form an opinion, and then follow it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then ignore him for now, everyone ignore him, and slowly he will be out of line.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, everyone has everyone's habits, and what he does is unbearable for you, but he probably hasn't realized it yet, you can bring it up to him tactfully, and a lot of things will be spread out, and it will be much better. Good luck every day.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can keep your distance from him, forget about some small things, avoid conflicts with him, treat him as if he is a psychopath, and tolerate him. If you really can't tolerate it, go to the teacher with the other people you sleep with.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you hate her very much, and the relationship with you is also very bad, you can see if you can change this, try to think about the good side, if you really can't think about what kind of person he is, why should I be in a bad mood because of him, these two learn to see whether you face it directly or avoid it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you hate her very much, and the relationship with you is also very bad, you can see if you can change this, try to think about the good side, if you really can't think about what kind of person he is, why should I be in a bad mood because of him, these two learn to see whether you face it directly or avoid it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hehe, in fact, there is really no need to bother with this. What does he say, you can just laugh and laugh,

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Just ignore him, or transfer the dormitory, and then get into a fight.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Kicked her (tell the counselor or class teacher).

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Out of sight is out of sight. If people don't offend me, I won't offend anyone, but if people offend me, hehe, cut the grass and eradicate the roots.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Ignore her, this kind of second sister should stay away from her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    How to deal with unreasonable people in life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When you encounter an unreasonable person, you should not talk to this kind of person, because this kind of person has no reason to talk about, and the best way is to ignore this kind of person. The more you pay attention to the other party, the more the other party will be constantly scheming with you, so you would rather let the other party sing a one-man show there than pay attention to it, this kind of person naturally has someone who understands, and will not agree with the other party's approach. Learn to get rid of such people!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    As the saying goes''The same rice raises a hundred kinds of people''.It's unreasonable. vexatious people.

    What to do? Do you swallow your anger, or do you immediately turn your lips back, or regret it later? In daily life, you will inevitably have to deal with some troublesome people, try the following non-confrontational methods, I believe that you will not only maintain your self-esteem, but also avoid the suspicion of offending the other party.

    1;Treat it with humor. Give people intentional or unintentional encounters with pain, use clever answers to deal with unpleasant words, and make fun in suffering. 2;Don't rush to explain.

    When you receive a barrage of complaints from customers in the office**, don't panic to explain when the other party's language stops. In fact, doing so usually only adds to the fire. Because it sounds like it's perfunctory and prevaricating to the other party.

    If the other party's complaint is reasonable, it is not necessary to explain too much or point out the problem, but to agree with the other party's statement, apologize to the other party, and then try to explain the problem and solve the problem. So as not to make mistakes again and again. 3 Retreat with the whole body, where there is an argument, the parties have their reasonable views and arguments, therefore, stick to your own opinions, fight for a red face and thick neck, no one can convince anyone, and in the hearts of both parties have a knot, it is really a really boring thing, if you can't make the other party change their original intentions, the other party can't persuade you, you have to stop immediately, if you want to avoid a deadlock.

    An effective and immediate way to do this is to say something''We were both right''Then immediately move on to a topic that is safer and less likely to be disputed. This shows that; Although they have different opinions and opinions, they do not indicate hostility towards each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't give him face, compare him and say, He can be angry with you, can't you be angry with him, can't be soft, can't be a good person, he still thinks you are a bully, what kind of society is it now, good people are not rewarded.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    How to deal with unreasonable people in life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    How to deal with unreasonable people in life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Give me her QQ number, I'll help you get her, I'm a master of chatting with people, if you know the mobile phone number, you can get her within a month. It's okay to make a friend. If it's convenient, we're friends.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Mistaken! Now that you have come, say a few words! The landlord is simply mentally disabled, with a seriously distorted mentality, and was embarrassed to say that he was embarrassed by a person he had never met, and he asked for help here and the words were so annoying, as if others owed you something.

    It should have annoyed you even more by saying a few curses, but then I'm like you again! Or persuade the landlord to relax his mind!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If life is downplayed, you will treat everything about her as if you didn't see it, and everything didn't happen. Take it calmly until you forget it, and society is a hodgepodge of people in it. How can there be no troubles, and how many people can deal with troubles calmly.

    For her, she is already like this, it is difficult for others to change her, she is used to this kind of life, she can laugh at what she says to you and do, and after a long time, she will feel bored, and she will not pester you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    To sum up, I found that the woman should be a brain-disabled person, the reason is unclear, as for the way to deal with the brain-disabled person, please see the brain-disabled ** for details.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    When I was reading a book today, I saw a sentence: Be tolerant of others and be happy yourself!

    Not much to say here.

    All the best

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This kind of person is very loving! will talk a lot about the big truths she thinks are good for you! Loneliness, self-inflicted, amorous and extreme are all her personalities! If you're eloquent enough, it's best to hit her with tepid words.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Attack him in turn, and sleep shamelessly! Or steal her number, and cut off all contact with him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's better to think about it yourself than anything we say -- isn't it, friend.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Find a hacker group, hack his computer, keep his IP, hack the computer, and let his computer be full of scolding words.

    Find a stronger one.

    I know that Beijing and Xi'an seem to have this kind of hacker group.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    When a dog bites you, will you bite a dog?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Give somebody a taste of his own medicine.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Ignoring it directly is the best humiliation for her.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Drag the black ......If you want to bother you again, you can entrust someone to steal the number......

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Strive to improve yourself. Only I have become better and stronger. It is invincible.

    First of all, it is academically technical. You can take your break time to get an accounting certificate, or go to night school, put aside the person who bothers you about things, study hard, work hard, and see your future as the most important. There is also the improvement of the soul, read more books that can inspire people's self-confidence, make people more cheerful and smarter.

    The benefits are numerous. ‍‍

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Choose to leave him or change circumstances. If it is true that this person makes you hate, you never want to see him again, it is difficult to talk to him, his words and deeds have caused you a lot of mental distress, affecting your mood and your normal life, you can choose to leave him. If you're a roommate, you change your bedroom, and if you're a colleague, you change jobs.

    In short, long-term depression, depression, and troubles can affect the body and mind. Living in a different environment will make you calmer and more rational, and you will have less troubles. Get rid of a difficult guy and find that relaxed, happy and confident self again! ‍‍

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Calmly restrain yourself. Do what you need to do and do it, without interfering too much. You know, there are all kinds of people in the world, maybe you can't get used to him saying bad things about others behind his back, and pretending to be very kind to others on the surface, hypocritical and pretentious.

    But don't let someone else's shortcomings affect your mood. How he does it is his business, and if there is any problem, he is responsible and bears it himself. You just have to do your own thing.

    Have a clear conscience. Focus on your work or studies. ‍‍

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Make more friends. Don't let yourself be left alone there, thinking about how embarrassing and painful that annoying person is. There are many people with good personalities, good popularity, and good hearts in the world, making more friends and being more interested in others.

    Listen to what is on the minds of others. If you're having trouble, they'll certainly give you advice and come up with a good idea for you. ‍‍

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Treat him or her with a normal heart. Knowing that he was very annoying, when he wasn't promoted, he talked and laughed with everyone, and after he was promoted, he was very arrogant. He also yelled at everyone to help him buy things, run errands for him, and do things outside of work for him.

    If he's like this to everybody, you don't have to worry too much, maybe he's just that kind of character. Likes to trouble others. Maybe he didn't realize much of it himself.

    If you can help, you can help, and if you can't help, you can do it perfunctory. There is no need to conflict with him. ‍‍

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Don't mind! Just smile, wave, walk away from them, and move on our own way! Don't take their negative garbage and spread it to our family, friends, colleagues, or other passers-by." The bottom line here is:

    Happy, successful people never let such people take over a single day of their lives! Life is short, don't waste your mind and energy on this! When you meet such a person in life, you will laugh it off!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Can't be too cowardly. But in the case that he is too excessive, the metaphor is secretly bad, he looks down on you very unpleasantly, he has no appreciation for his goodness, and he still embarrasses you everywhere, you can't be too cowardly at this time, if it is unreasonable to ask too much, you also need to say no loudly. Maintain your dignity.

    Because if you put up with him again and again, promise him, and obey him, it will only make him more unscrupulous to oppress you and think that you can do anything. Tell him clearly that your bottom line, that you have your reasons, and that you have the right to object. ‍‍

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Try to make friends with him. For the sake of their own lofty goals, this pain is nothing. Bear with some of his small flaws and look at the good in him, because everyone will not be so perfect.

    Metaphorically he is eloquent, or he is really talented, very capable, and has a great ability to deal with problems. You can also learn from his strengths and make yourself better. I usually deal with him more and show my concern.

    Wait a minute. If there is anything you can think about him more, you can help as much as you can, maybe after a long time, you will become his best friend. ‍‍

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