Troubles, troubles, high reward about family affection

You have to talk to her about it, you hit your mother, it's very wrong, if you're really embarrassed to talk to her face to face, you can write a letter, don't be embarrassed about anything, otherwise you can't solve it, you have to have courage, no matter how you say this, you shouldn't beat your mother, it's not easy for your mother to be single, you have to apologize first After all, mother and daughter shouldn't care so much If you are sincere, she will forgive you Misunderstand her in the letter.

Take the initiative to admit your mistake with your mother and explain the reason for the misunderstanding. Regardless of whether it's right or wrong, it's not right to beat your mother, think about how difficult it is for your mother to raise you alone, raise you so big, you must know how to be grateful, take the initiative to be obedient, and ask your mother for forgiveness, she doesn't care, after all, it is her own child. Can't be so impulsive in the future.

It's not right for your mother to beat you, but it's even more wrong for you to beat your mother, when you meet such a violent mother, it's no wonder that you will fight violence with violence, it can be seen that your mother is an emotional person, irrational, like this person, you say something good, buy a bouquet of flowers for her, cook a meal for her, it's easy to move her. Usually understand my mother more and chat with her more, adolescence meets menopause is very tangled, let's work together.

First of all, parents love their children, and when you say that your dad treats you badly, it may be because he cares about you differently.

Secondly, you slapped your mother, she was not angry, she was disappointed, because of the divorce, it can be said that you are now all she is.

Again, without much explanation, it's okay to do something small for her, such as washing her feet once.

In the end, it is not easy for parents, maybe you will understand after you become parents, so please cherish your parents, because only their love is truly selfless.

Dear, say sorry to your mother first, and then have a good chat with her, a lot of things are just fine, don't do it, coax your mother more, don't say something unpleasant, relax your heart, your mother is not easy, you have to be more considerate! Good luck.

I think you should have a good talk.

You should tell your mother what is in your mind.

Everything should have a tolerator, why don't you take a step back and apologize and explain.

Maybe the ending is a happy one?

I can relate to your feelings.

I believe in your filial piety and actions, but when faced with this subtle thing, I will feel that my heart is very cold and sore.

Traditional old people are deep or shallow patriarchal thinking, when I was a child, I knew that my mother would be more distressed, and I was unwilling to be dissatisfied.

Later, when I grew up and graduated from college, I could gradually understand her mood and a kind of sustenance for her future life.

It is true that my mother loves GG very much, I am very filial to my parents, GG is happy and my mother will be happy, so I am also very good to GG (GG also loves me), I believe that my mother also loves me, but it hurts GG more, it doesn't matter if there is more or less, the important thing is that we are all together.

Parents began to slowly age, lost the ability to work, at this time, they will hesitate to worry, so, in their eyes the son is the only sustenance, young us, is not to experience their mood at this time, and they will not speak, will only behave more inappropriately in action, as children, we must give them confidence, in addition to you give material, but also talk to them more, you can let your son, take the initiative to generously give snacks and toys to your gg son, It's best to deliberately educate your child in front of everyone, saying that you want to play with xx, that you want to share something with everyone, that we are a family and so on. Then, you have to talk to your parents about everything and say that although you are married, your parents are forever parents, you will always be their children, and if something happens to them, you will also worry that you will help them. Slowly let them understand that everything will be fine.

Don't be discouraged and indifferent, it will only make you harder, family, behind closed doors, there is nothing that cannot be solved.

I believe that once your parents also loved you very much, don't veto them because of some small details, try to be real, give them confidence, and communicate with them more.

No,,, you misunderstood.

Chewing gum,, eat, some children will swallow it, in fact, your father is afraid that something will happen to the child... Look at you, think too much ... Family affection is always valuable... Don't think about it.

You know this time!! Go less in the future! Buy less! Even if it's a parent! Isn't it bad for you, too?

It's all caused by money, and family affection can't be compared to money.

Friends, in this society, every old man will love one of the children, this is not fair. It is the so-called love house and Wu. And the children I carry with me will still hurt a little.

But not all parents are like this, maybe parents are just afraid that the child will not give your son food, and it will make a fuss, it depends on what you think.

It's not a question of what you think, who do you want to talk to, you're 12 years old, be strong, whoever you're with is life, you have to learn to be self-reliant, what to do on your own, it will help you in the future!

Relax your mind Relatives are relatives after all If you can't help it, just empty yourself and think about it, alas, sympathize with you, child, if you really can't save your parents' marriage, just put it according to their intentions, you just need to grow up well Your father's affairs, you don't have to worry too much now, he will have his happiness.

How do I know what to do?

From what you said, it can be seen that you work in some factory or company owned by your relatives, but unfortunately you didn't go out to find a job by yourself! What is it like to try to find a job on your own? Try what it's like to work on your own without anyone's help!

How do grassroots employees treat you when they know that you have no relatives to rely on and are completely on your own? Do you know? You won't know in your current job!

You can't see it either! What is the meaning of life? Do you want to know?

What is the meaning of life is a big question in itself! I know how you feel! I've felt like you!

But here I am! Look back! What do you say??

I'm so proud! I don't have anything, but I have my experience! I know how to face difficulties!

You've already said the path you want to take on the sixth question! Why not go about it? That path is the right one!

Only by this path can you know yourself! to know your own worth! is the value of life!

There can be a lot of difficulties! Difficulties you can't imagine! But you have to be brave to face it!

You are the brave man in life!!

If you hate the environment, you'll get bored with the place.

A fixed environment is offensive. You can boldly try another environment, the current society is like this, you don't need to care who is who, just be yourself, and finally advise you: don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes!

I'm for you, but if you think like this, will you really do it?

If I told you that the outside world was more deceitful, more bitter, more ridiculed, more detached and less fun than your current environment, would you still choose to give up what you have now?

Please forgive me for scolding you: you can't even get an accounting certificate, and you're still talking about it there? You might as well rest at home as soon as possible!

You're just tired of the same layer, and you're destined to want to run away in a short time

Oh, I want to open a little! Now that the words have been spoken!

It's a long time and you'll forget it!

I don't think it's much courage to say it

In the eight years you've been apart, I guess all the news he got about you was negative. I think it has something to do with your parents.

After going through a few things, he'll understand.

You can try to influence him, the family will always be a family.

What your mother did not do is right, you have to be forgiving and forgiving, you can't be too careful, women are generally like this, you should be able to understand it, but it has been more than 10 years, so you shouldn't be thinking about it, persuade your mother, forgive them, after all, they are relatives, even if they hurt your mother at that time, it is a thing of the past, as a junior, you should do a good job of mediation and try to persuade as much as possible.

When is the time for retribution?

You just have to put yourself in your shoes. Can your mother and your uncle sever their kinship and blood relationship?

And even if your father and your uncle have a conflict, but if outsiders scold your father's father and your grandfather, will your uncle ignore it? Having a blood relationship can never be changed.

Looking at your words, it shows that your heart really wants to reconcile your second uncle and your mother, as a junior, you think about it so much, which means that you are very sensible. The contradiction between your mother and your second uncle's family is very deep, and your mother is a stubborn person, so if you want to resolve the contradiction between them, it is not possible to solve it overnight, since your second uncle is good to you, then don't think so much, you are good to his family, your second uncle sees it in his eyes, and you have to persuade your mother from time to time, no mother in the world will hate her child, I believe you are kind, you have your own thoughts in your heart, then do it according to the idea in your heart!

Since it's a grievance from an elder, let it pass. In fact, your mother is the only one who can't get by. First of all, since the people of your second uncle's family can ask you to go, it means that they do not look at you as outsiders, let alone look at you differently because of your mother's relationship.

Therefore, no matter what kind of attitude your mother has, she may also have her habits, and if she can't persuade her, forget it, but in a relationship like yours, there is still a long way to go in the future, and you can't keep the two families haunted because of the previous events. You can also try to persuade your mother. Besides, so many years have passed, no matter how much hatred or resentment, it should be passed.

What happened back then wasn't necessarily anyone's fault?

But your position must not change because of your mother, and you should get along with others, let alone your own relatives? People will see it, and they will say that you are sensible. As for my mother, it's my own mother, and I'm sure she'll be able to understand it eventually!

Friend, looking at your words, it shows that your heart really wants to reconcile your second uncle and your mother, as a junior, you think about it so much, it means that you are very sensible. The contradiction between your mother and your second uncle's family is very deep, and your mother is a stubborn person, so if you want to resolve the contradiction between them, it is not possible to solve it overnight, since your second uncle is good to you, then don't think so much, you are good to his family, your second uncle sees it in his eyes, and you have to persuade your mother from time to time, no mother in the world will hate her child, I believe you are kind, you have your own thoughts in your heart, then do it according to the idea in your heart!

You should go. Conflicts between adults should not involve children. The son of the second uncle is also your cousin, and you are also of the same origin, since there is no contradiction in yourself, you should not continue your mother's hatred.

I sympathize with your current situation. But after all, it's a family. Why should the relationship be so stiff?

Parents may also have their own difficulties. You have to learn to be considerate of them. Face these with a good attitude.

Everywhere, as long as you feel that you are doing something that satisfies your parents and does not embarrass your relatives and friends. After all, parents are the closest people to them.

Ask your mom to memorize the question for more than 10 years, isn't it tired? It's your second uncle's fault Compared to your two families, you can't prevent him from anything, and we are not very good-looking, in the eyes of outsiders, brothers and harmony are precious, unity is born and prosperous, and cohesion produces strength.

Don't go ... Listen to your mom.

Hehe, maybe she thinks you are a child, not rich in social experience, and your ideas are relatively naïve! This is also good for you, empathize, understand your mother, there is no mother in the world who does not love her child!

Maybe you need to communicate well with your mother, this is the reason for the poor communication, maybe she has a certain opinion about you, and I hope you can talk well.

Feelings are a matter of two people, and it's best not to let your family's thoughts sway your feelings.

I'm going to regret it later!

The current situation is not very good, and it can be changed in the future, and in the process of pursuing happiness, the two of them are in love with each other, and the life of supporting each other is very meaningful. 、

There are always a little ups and downs in life, and setbacks can realize where the true feelings are.

The main thing is to rely on your own affairs.

Family and affection have always been the most difficult thing in the world to deal with, this matter can not be paid attention to by others, only you can deal with it yourself, listening to other people's opinions will make you lose your assertiveness even more, or think about it yourself, you are reluctant to that party,

The family is definitely for your good.

There is a saying: If you don't know the price of firewood and rice, life is very realistic.

Love is romantic, life is cruel.