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Because they can't accept emotional betrayal, they feel that feelings are sacred and undefiled, and feelings should be single-minded and can't be half-hearted, so when they are emotionally betrayed, they will choose not to forgive.
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Because they should not be forgiven, their thoughts are that they cannot agree with the betrayal. The most important thing in feelings is loyalty, and there is no need to continue if loyalty is gone.
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Because for these people, emotional loyalty is very important, especially for emotional betrayal, which they cannot forgive in any way, so they can't pass this hurdle in their hearts, so they can't forgive.
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The person who betrays himself is not only unfaithful to himself, but also causes harm to himself, so the vast majority of people will not forgive the person who betrayed him, but the person who betrayed himself is not completely unforgivable, specifically whether a person who betrayed himself should be forgiven, it needs to be analyzed from his specific actions, the reasons for his betrayal of himself, and the specific thoughts in his heart. Those who betray themselves will take specific actions, and these actions will have a corresponding impact on themselves, some people who betray themselves leave themselves and live up to their expectations, for such a person, after a long time, they may forgive him, but for those who have caused serious harm to themselves after leaving themselves, their betrayal of themselves is absolutely unforgivable.
Second, according to the reason for his betrayal of himself, analyze whether he is worthy of forgiveness, what any person does cannot be for no reason, but has a cause, and the reason why those who betrayed themselves must have their related causes For those who betray themselves for objective reasons, after a long time, they may choose to forgive, but for those who betray themselves for subjective reasons and cause great harm to themselves, they cannot forgive him in any case.
Third, according to the specific ideas in the hearts of those who betrayed themselves, and finally judged whether they can be forgiven, everyone has their own unique ideas, and there will be clear goals and ideas when doing things, when a person betrays himself, there will be specific goals and ideas in his heart, which is the key to whether he can forgive the other party, if there is a reason for it, and if there are extenuating circumstances, then he will choose to forgive, and if the other party just wants to cause harm to himself, Then it is impossible for such a person who betrays himself to get his own forgiveness!
Your relationship is hard-won, and trust that the other person can change their ways. So choose to forgive such people.
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