How to guide children who don t want to go to kindergarten

What to do if your child is reluctant to go to kindergarten.

1. Toy coaxing.

For the first time to send the baby to kindergarten, we can buy some things that the baby likes to coax him, just say that when the baby goes to kindergarten, give him or buy a cute schoolbag, beautiful books, pencils, etc., we can use to coax the baby to go to kindergarten.

2. Companionship method.

If the community is relatively large, parents can contact the baby with other neighbors in the community to let them go to kindergarten together. Children have a gregarious effect, and seeing other children go will arouse the baby's interest.

3. Beautiful vision.

We can also tell the baby that there are a lot of early education toys in the kindergarten, and there are many children who play games with the baby, and can also learn interesting knowledge, and the kindergarten aunt is very beautiful and amiable In short, we must encourage the child to go to school.

4. Resolute attitude.

The vast majority of children will show reluctance to go when they first go to the toddler round, this is a process, parents should behave resolutely at this time, must send him to go, the most important thing is to insist, and encourage the child, let him have more contact with the child, and cooperate with the teacher, praise his performance in the toddler round, after a period of time he will be willing to go. Children's early education in kindergarten is certainly more systematic than our family early education, and more standardized, we must not let the baby at home because the child is unwilling to go, so that the gains outweigh the losses.

The above is some information about what to do if the child is unwilling to go to the kindergarten, it should be noted that the attitude of parents should not be too tough, so as not to cause the child's rebellious psychology, and it is necessary to guide. This is a long-term job, don't rush for a while, when the baby enters the kindergarten to contact more friends, it will be fine slowly.

What to do if your child refuses to go to kindergarten.

Many babies will have symptoms of boredom when they first contact school, children will always cry and be reluctant to go to school, no matter how parents coax or teachers how to coax have been crying, some children are willing to go to crying, but some children are not good at coaxing, and even have to run out of kindergarten.

1. After parents take their children home from kindergarten every day, they should chat with their children more, talk more about life in the kindergarten with their children, and let their children perform more dances or songs they have learned from kindergartens, so as to guide their children's good memories of kindergarten from a positive perspective.

2. For children who have just come into contact with kindergarten, kindergarten is an unfamiliar environment, which will bring insecurity and fear to children, so children will instinctively resist.

3. If the child has been in school in kindergarten for a period of time and is suddenly very reluctant to go to school, parents should understand the reasons for the child, such as being unwell or criticized by the teacher in school, or having a conflict with which child, may cause the child to not want to go to kindergarten for the reason, parents should communicate carefully with the child, actively listen to the child's ideas, only by understanding the reason for the matter, can fundamentally solve the problem of the child's reluctance to go to school.

4. Parents should give their children enough security, some children will miss their parents very much after going to school, feel that they have no sense of security in the kindergarten, and always want to go home, so parents and teachers must give their children enough security, so that they know that even if their parents are not around, they have the ability to protect their children.

It is a very common thing for children to be reluctant to go to kindergarten when they have a temper, parents should be ruthless at this time, do not let the child cry and have a fussy attitude, and must resolutely encourage the child to contact with other children, and cooperate with the teacher, give more praise to the child in the kindergarten, so that the child falls in love with the kindergarten.

The child should be guided to learn things only in kindergarten, and he can also play games in it.

Only let him know that the kindergarten is very happy and happy, and there are many children who can play games together, so that he can see the attraction of the kindergarten.

Guidance and education should be strengthened, parents should make children aware of the charm of kindergarten, can encourage children to communicate and play with children of the same age, and can bring children special favorite toys or snacks after school.

First understand the reasons why children don't want to go to kindergarten, and then enlighten children, share more interesting stories about kindergarten with children, say some good words about kindergarten children and teachers, so that children feel that going to kindergarten is a very interesting thing, and parents should insist on sending children to kindergarten, so that children can develop a good habit.

Parents can take time to accompany their children to the kindergarten to play with the children. Let the children feel the happy atmosphere of the kindergarten.

Children are reluctant to go to kindergarten, most likely because they cannot get rid of their dependence on their parents in a short period of time. Parents should counsel their children. Let the child adapt to the kindergarten environment as soon as possible.

The first method: the shift focus method.

The second method is to use some simple games to get to the kindergarten quickly with your child.

The third method is to guide children to make friends in kindergarten.

Positive guidance should be given and children should be told about the importance of kindergarten. Children should also be interested in going to kindergarten. You should also give your child some compliments so that you understand the necessity of going to kindergarten.

Communicate and guide patiently, encourage children to share snacks with the children around them, and pick up children as soon as they get out of school, bringing their favorite snacks and toys.

We should guide the child slowly, so that the child finds that going to kindergarten is a very happy thing, to arouse the child's interest, but also to slowly reason with the child.

Scientific and effective guidance should be carried out, and children should also be told about the benefits of kindergarten. Children should also learn to learn in the right way. Children should also understand the importance of learning. Girls should also be taught some basic ways to behave.

Parents should tell their children about the benefits of going to kindergarten, and at the same time should encourage their children more, and then they should also let their children slowly adapt to kindergarten life, praise their children more, and build their children's self-confidence.

Tell your child about kindergarten, tell your child that there are a lot of delicious and fun things in the kindergarten, and that there are many children, so that your child can go to kindergarten.

Children should be familiar with the environment of the kindergarten and understand what causes the children, so that the children can be restrained and let the children have children.

If your child has just started school and is reluctant to go to school, you can buy her a small gift as a reward when she leaves school.

Tell your child that children of the same age are already in kindergarten, so they should also go to kindergarten, and they can meet many new children in kindergarten.

You should tell your child that there are a lot of fun toys in kindergarten, and that you can make a lot of good friends when you go to kindergarten.

Children who don't want to go to kindergarten can be guided like this:

1. Be sure to have more verbal comfort, encourage children to go to kindergarten in time, when the child behaves better, such as actively going to kindergarten, there must be more encouragement, more verbal praise of the source of the manuscript. If the child is reluctant to go to kindergarten, such as crying, playing scoundrels, etc., it is also necessary to be appropriately tolerant, more patient, and more explained;

2. Be sure to analyze the reasons behind the baby's reluctance to go to kindergarten, such as some babies are more introverted, sensitive, afraid of teachers, afraid of classmates, at this time must be more tolerant, but also communicate and communicate with teachers;

3. If some babies have separation anxiety and are unwilling to leave their mothers or their own families, they should also be more cautious and patient, communicate more with their babies, and at the same time put the baby in kindergarten can not be repeatedly concerned or go and return, but learn to ignore the baby's crying behavior.

Guidance methods for children who do not want to go to kindergarten:

1. Exercise children's independence.

As a parent, before the child enters kindergarten, it is necessary to exercise the child's independence ability, such as taking the child to play in an unfamiliar environment, so that the child can exercise the ability to adapt to the new environment. Secondly, cultivate children to eat independently, go to the toilet independently, etc., and improve the children's independent ability, which is conducive to the child's adaptation in all aspects of the kindergarten.

2. Let children be familiar with the environment of the kindergarten.

Before the child wants to enter the kindergarten, parents should take the child to the kindergarten to familiarize themselves with the environment, and when they can exercise in the morning, take the child to the kindergarten to see the scene of the child doing exercises and playing games, so that the child wants to go to the kindergarten. Secondly, you can take your child to the kindergarten to play during the time you leave the kindergarten, such as sliding slides, shaking the wood, holding the manuscript horse, playing games, etc.! Children can feel the joy of kindergarten and accept kindergarten from the bottom of their hearts.

3. Do a good job of children's thinking and filial piety.

Parents can tell their children at home that you are now a big baby, you can go to kindergarten, and Mom and Dad have to go to work. There are a lot of fun toys in the kindergarten, cute children, and teachers who love you as much as your mother. Do a good job of ideological work at home, let the child be prepared, encourage the child, you are a good child, can bravely go to kindergarten.

4. Communicate with teachers.

Before parents send their children to kindergarten, they should communicate more with the teacher in the class, so that the teacher knows the child's living habits, what he likes to do, what he likes to eat, the teacher can start from the child's preferences, and the teacher can teach according to the baby's characteristics, so that the child can adapt to kindergarten life quickly.

5. Parents should have a firm attitude.

As a parent, when you see your child crying and making trouble, you must be reluctant to let your child go, and you will be soft-hearted by your child's crying. At this time, as a parent, you must have a firm attitude, think that this is the process of your child's growth, and you must let your child accept it, if you don't "ruthlessly", it will be more difficult to send your child to kindergarten in the future.

You can say to your child: "Mom goes to work, Zhengyou, you are in kindergarten and you are waiting to play with the children, Mom will come to pick you up after work, you have to be obedient, you can't cry, you are the best." "If the parents persevere, the children will persevere.

If the child does not want to go to kindergarten, parents can tell their children more interesting things about kindergarten, create a good parent-child relationship, and understand the reasons why children do not want to go to kindergarten.

Tell your child more interesting things about kindergarten to arouse your child's yearning for kindergarten. Take your child on a tour of the kindergarten and let them play with the slides and trampolines. Find out if there are other children who are bullied and afraid to go.

Encourage your child to communicate more, listen to your child's ideas, and guide them slowly. Be brave! Let your child understand the importance of learning.

Let the teacher praise the child more, and he may love to go to kindergarten!

Create a good parent-child relationship from an early age: Parents should focus on interacting with their children at home, playing games, traveling together, chatting, etc., once the child gains a sense of security in the family, his separation anxiety will be reduced, and he will be more able to adapt to the new environment; Establish a common topic with your child in kindergarten.

After school, you can guide your child to talk to you about what happened in kindergarten, and cultivate the habit of sharing life with his family through quick chatting, and let him gradually like group life. In addition, parents can also help their children to get to know their children in kindergarten in a timely manner, for example, ask them what good friends they have made and what their names are, and invite one or two friends to play together at home, so that children can integrate into school life faster.

If the baby does not want to go to kindergarten because he is bullied by other children, he needs to talk to the kindergarten teacher and ask the teacher to help guide the child on how to protect himself; Praise the independence of the child's split chain dust.

Children who are reluctant to go to kindergarten are guided by timely psychological comfort, establishing a relatively regular work and rest time, setting up a reward mechanism for children, eliminating fear of kindergarten through role-playing, and communicating with children.

1. Psychological comfort in a timely manner

When children feel afraid because of going to kindergarten, parents should also comfort their children in a timely manner, channel their negative emotions, do not let their children's negative emotions backlog, and guide children to talk about their fears and share their concerns with their parents.

If the child's negative emotions are not resolved in time, when the child feels fearful, these emotions will explode, causing the child to lose control of his emotions.

2. Establish a relatively regular work and rest time

In the process of taking care of their children, parents should also teach by word and deed, and the premise of guidance is to do it themselves, whether it is a holiday or a job, and establish a normal life and rest time. Go to bed early at night and try to take your child to bed before 10 o'clock.

Wake up early in the morning and take the children up for breakfast around 7 o'clock. Get 8-10 hours of sleep a day to help your child adapt to kindergarten as soon as possible.

3. Set up a reward mechanism for children

Set up a reward system for your child to encourage him to stick to kindergarten, for example, if he can go to school for a month without crying, buy him a toy or a favorite snack, etc.

Some reward mechanisms can mobilize children's enthusiasm for going to school and help children adapt to collective life, but such reward mechanisms cannot be used for a long time, otherwise children will develop the wrong perception that going to school is to achieve a certain purpose.

4. Eliminate the fear of omen in kindergarten through role-playing

Before the child enters the kindergarten, parents can simulate the kindergarten environment at home with their children, role-play, simulate the kindergarten environment at home, let the child play the teacher, play the student, and also take the child to watch the animation program about the kindergarten.

Whether it is scenario simulation, role-playing or through the relevant children's programs, it is to let children intuitively understand the environment they are about to face and eliminate children's fears about kindergarten.

5. Communicate with your child

Communicating with your child is an important way to guide your child to kindergarten. Parents can communicate with their children, understand their thoughts and feelings, and understand their needs. You can help your child reduce separation anxiety and the discomfort of adapting to the environment by asking questions and guiding him to express his or her emotions.