A relationship, why I haven t walked out for two years

Don't feel inferior or anything in front of love, because when you stand in front of it, you have to keep your posture very low.

Actually, the landlord doesn't have to take such a tough approach, you want him to say what he wants, otherwise he doesn't, this is not necessarily true, and I don't think he is cowardly.

If you really want something, and you're afraid of losing it, you're afraid of the outcome, and after two years, maybe he thinks you're feeling a lot less emotional, maybe he still can't give you what you want.

His friends know him well, or they want to test your tone, maybe you don't accept the relationship.

He's going to feel like he's going to be left with no place because he's letting you go and letting you find your own happiness, and he's going to get you back, and he's never been able to give you what you're asking for, so he won't reply.

Some people have delicate feelings, and it's not as straightforward as you want, and I think he's just that, so tough demands don't come.

If you still can't forget that feeling, in fact, I want you to say it yourself, hoping to get a love, regardless of the person who said it first, is inferior or loses, not whoever falls into it loses, I think he still loves you very much, but he is afraid that he can't give it, so he doesn't give it.

In the face of love, why not catch it yourself, if you want to get, you tell him that your happiness can only be given by him.

In addition, old feelings are not so easy to forget, and many people either do not love deeply or do not show their pain.

My situation is similar to yours. My first love and I have also been in love for more than two years and separated, and we never quarreled, and we separated when we quarreled. I'm sad and sad, but I try to make myself happy and not think about him, time will make everything blurry.

Now that I think about it, I quite understand his psychology at the time, because I also experienced what he went through, but now he will chat with me on QQ, but I still won't forgive him, and I will never forgive. Or maybe when you find the next person who catches your heart, it's when you start to slowly forget about him. You should feel happy when you leave someone who doesn't love you.

Make yourself happy, and you'll forget faster.

It's exactly the same question I have now! He felt that he couldn't give me happiness, and he broke up with me for fear of delaying me, and he was completely separated after a quarrel, but I was reluctant, and now I was worried about whether to block him, but ......Reluctantly ......I still love him, but ......He may be preparing to return to the arms of his first girlfriend, it's ridiculous to think about!! Sisters!!

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As your friend, although you scolded me, but I didn't take it to heart, the emotional ,,, is not so simple to forget, don't deliberately forget him, the more deliberate it will only go in the opposite direction, eh, what do you think, I have been hurt by so many women, and each one I treat with sincerity, why I have nothing to do now, in fact, it is also a problem in the depths of the soul, eh, I don't know what to say, my emotional intelligence is very poor, I can only say, let it go, this world is not alive without anyone,,, Be yourself.

First love, you're just reluctant, you didn't find it yourself! You just rely on him, you are nostalgic for him, you are used to him, you don't love him!

Person-! It can be seen in his glyphs.

Walk the world on two legs.

Do not rely on anyone's mercy.

For such a man.

I think you've worked so hard to get it.

It's just that he doesn't know how to cherish it.

No one else rotates the earth the same.

You've got to live your life right away.

Perk. I want us all to be someone who can afford to put it down.

Falling out of love, in fact, this may be a hurdle that most people must pass, or a kind of growth。In ancient times, poets were generally able to write poems that have been passed down through the ages after experiencing unsatisfactory life, because they have grown up and have a more thorough understanding of their own future and life. The same is true of falling out of love, which is a difficult hurdle for many people, but after the experience, they will often grow a lot, and they will deal with others and things more calmly when facing setbacks and difficulties.

1. After the breakup, I must be very uncomfortable in my heart, always uncontrollably recalling the bits and pieces with him, always thinking about his good, and even some living habits are difficult to recover after changing because of them.

Stuck all the time, caught in the fleeting pleasure of remembering the past, but after the happiness the thought of him being gone, he goes into even greater pain. So it's actually a kind of self-harm or "addiction" behavior, but it's very common, and for many people, including me, it has to go through a period of pain. During this period, I don't want to come out.

But life goes on, and there is not only love in life, but also other feelings to accompany us, so if you want to get out as soon as possible, you should look for other feelings to rely on: family, friendship and even find a tree hole. The main thing is to vent the emotions in my heart, to vent everything that has been suppressed during this time, and after that, even if there will be some sadness, it will be much easier than before.

Second, if you really want to get out of this shadow, time can be said to be the best way.

Let time dilute the pain, to dilute everything, in fact, I didn't particularly believe in the role of time before, but after experiencing it myself, I really know that time can really wash away all the pain.

Finally, you can also cultivate some hobbies in your life to keep yourself busy and make your life fulfilling, so that you can also reduce some of the time to remember the past.

Don't be immersed in this relationship all the time, you should make some new friends, travel to new places, do something you like, divert your attention, you can find someone who likes you to try to get along, so that you will gradually forget this relationship.

When encountering such a situation, you must adjust your mentality, you should look forward, don't always think back to the past, and then you should also put more time and energy on yourself to make your life more fulfilling.

At this time, you must adjust your mentality, you can go to parties with your friends, meet different people of the opposite sex, and slowly find someone who makes you excited.

Because she cares too much, and because she hasn't met the person who can replace her.

But anyone who can't get out of love must have a sad past, which is often vivid and unforgettable.

It's because he cares too much and never forgets the past, so he can't get out of the relationship.

No matter how long it has been, no matter how long the road in the future is, no matter how lonely she is, she will never forget her.

How distressed, how reluctant, and how heartbreaking.

And because he hasn't met the person who can replace her yet, that person can't appear for a long time, and he can only think of her. If he can't find someone who can forget her for him, he can't shift his goals.

It has always been "only seeing the new person laughing, not seeing the old person crying", and before meeting the "new person", you can only use nostalgia for the "old person" to pass away. Once a new goal appears, there will be no nostalgia for the past, and there will be no nostalgia for the past.

The reason why I can't get out of the relationship is because I care too much, or I haven't found the person who can replace me.

You can't get out of a relationship because you only see the past and the present, but you can't see the future, and you close yourself in memories. After experiencing a relationship, everyone has a time of confusion, at this time we need to enlighten ourselves, to open our own heart window, imagine that in the future we will meet better people and better love, the past can never come back, but we can meet more beautiful in the future.

Be sure to be optimistic, fill yourself with positive energy, and make yourself strong no matter how cruel the reality is. I believe that I will definitely meet better people and gain better feelings. In the end, I hope you can get out of this relationship and have a good future.

It's not called emotion when you come out.

It's been two years since you broke up, and you still think of him, and you can't get out of that relationship because you limit yourself to a small place, so that you can let yourself enter the next relationship, so you will quickly forget about him.

Of course not, although you have always been able to think of each other, this shows that you are also a very emotional person, and you can still get out of this relationship.

I think this is very normal, but the main thing is that you don't think about people often, it's okay to think about them occasionally. Take it up and put it down.

Of course yes, it means that you like him very much, even if you are separated for two years, you can't get out of this relationship.

It may be that you can't get out of that relationship, but as time goes by, one day you will forget him.

No, so at this time, you must adjust your mentality, and you must actively contact new people, and then you must start a new life, and you must enrich your daily life.

Actually, I think you can move on to the next relationship, so that you won't be clinging to the first relationship all the time.

No. After a long time, you will slowly forget about him, and you will let go of him.

Summary. If that's the case, you can say, "Truth be told, I'm still getting used to and overcoming the effects of that relationship."

But I've done a lot of work to process my feelings and move forward. If you think you've come out of it, you can: "I've been through that relationship and learned a lot from it, and I've learned how to take care of myself and be better for myself by growing myself."

So, I now feel like I can focus on new opportunities and challenges. ”

If you're still trying to get out of that relationship, you can say: I'm trying to let go of that relationship and get out of it, but it may take some time and a process of self-growth. If you've managed to come out of that relationship, you can say:

I've gotten past that phase of the relationship and now I've regained my self and feel stronger and more independent.

If that's the case, you can say, "Truth be told, I'm still getting used to and overcoming the effects of that relationship." But I've done a lot of work to process my feelings and move forward.

If you think you've come out of it, you can: "I've been through that relationship and learned a lot from it, and I've learned how to take care of myself and be better for myself by growing myself." So, I now feel like I can focus on new opportunities and challenges.

The teacher can't be sure if you've come out of that relationship, and I don't know your specific situation and feelings. However, I suggest you make a real deal about this issue. If you're still going through past relationships, be honest and ask for help.

If you've come out and are feeling better, be honest about the question as well. It is important to be honest with yourself and to look for the right way to deal with your feelings.