A relationship loses both ways Why are you still unwilling to face the reality and ruthlessly let go

Updated on history 2024-02-26
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Many people are asking, if they are heartbroken in the relationship, should this relationship be let go or continue?

    I think when you ask this question, the answer in your mind is already obvious. We always anesthetize ourselves again and again in our relationships. Again and again I fantasize about a bright future.

    Again and again I felt that he would change. But in the end, having to let go is something that most people go through. In fact, not all of us are lucky enough to meet someone who truly loves us.

    All we can do is not self-hypnosis. A lot of the time we're looking at how pathetic we are.

    As the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet. If we forcibly tie two people who are not suitable together. It is not destined to have a happy ending.

    When the end is in sight, no matter how much we ignore it, it will not help. Because barely looking at yourself really doesn't look decent at all. I want to stagnate in a relationship.

    It's like praying in the abyss for the sun to shine on the earth. The hope that has been rekindled again and again will be defeated by reality. A good relationship should be mutual respect and accommodation between two people, rather than one person pestering the other too much.

    The so-called end of the world, where there is no grass. Why bother to love a flower. If your sincerity is exchanged for apathy and endless disappointment. Then I don't think you need to go all the way to the dark. You've seen the scenery along the way, it's not you who should be sorry.

    Finally, I would like to say. The maintenance of a good relationship depends on the mutual rush of both parties. You'll eventually understand how to hold on to a relationship that is physically and mentally exhausting.

    It doesn't do much other than consume you. It's like a broken mirror. No matter how hard you try, you can't get back to the way it was.

    Those impulses that you know you can't do, it's enough to have them once.

    I don't think there are any miracles in this world. We will eventually be defeated by reality. But don't worry. Pack your bags and go again. Your tomorrow will always be more exciting.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you have been heartbroken by a person and don't know how to face it, then it's better to give up this relationship. Because from the situation you have personally described, there is nothing you can do about it, and no matter how many strategies you implement, you will not be able to save the other party, and if you don't let go in time, you will probably hurt yourself even more, so why bother!

    A good relationship can make a person full of vitality and warmth, but a bad relationship leaves us with more heartache and regret. If you loved someone very much before, but ended up being hurt deeply, even if you tried hard to keep the other person, but still couldn't impress this person, it is recommended that you can consider letting go at this time and don't have to be obsessed. Not all love in the world is beautiful, and some love may cause us to encounter unprecedented blows, but we must also learn to grow from such a painful experience.

    Don't feel that you have paid too much, and you are not willing to let go, if you are obsessed, in fact, you will suffer more in the end. Because that person no longer loves you, and will no longer pay attention to your inner feelings, let alone pity you or other emotions. He will probably see you as a stranger, and your sorrows and joys will not have much to do with him from now on.

    Therefore, even if you chase the other person hard, in the end, you are still the only one left to cling to this emotion. This ending must not be what you want.

    Loving someone to the point of irretrievable return, the best ending should be to let go, to fulfill each other, and no longer bind two people. Because if we can't get out of the love relationship, we will fall into a quagmire because of it, and neither of us can get better. I believe that no one expects to spend the rest of their lives in entanglement and resentment with each other, right?

    Therefore, even if you are injured now, you must stop the loss in time and wake up as soon as possible, so that you can better move on firmly. I hope that people in the world can maintain a sober posture when they fall in love, so that they can better let their feelings flow freely and not be hurt by love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    We want to be with a person, if we feel comfortable, then it is the premise of happiness, if we are with each other and break our hearts, let ourselves feel very tired, then there is no way to continue, don't embarrass yourself for the rest of your life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you should let go of this relationship, a relationship that has no results, and it is heartbroken in the relationship, there is no need to continue, it will hurt yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think there's any need to continue if your heart is broken, because it will be very bad for you, and you won't be happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Libra, Aries, etc. As long as Libra falls in love, they will never want to break up, but they can only choose the best distance, and as long as Aries falls in love with each other, they will always hope that there will be no unrequited love.

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