Was there a moment when you realized that you were different from each other s class?

When I was in middle school, I didn't have an obvious sense of "class", at most, I ate ice cream for five cents, and the other party could buy ice cream for two dollars and five; It may also be that I often wear school uniforms, and the other party wears all kinds of Yichun, Meibang or even famous brands that I don't recognize. But that's just a simple belief that the other party is just better than his own family, or his parents' company is more efficient and has a higher salary.

1. I seriously realized that there is a hierarchy between people when I was a freshman. On the first day of school, my parents took me to school. When I arrived at the dormitory, another roommate came when I made the bed, she was dressed like a "little princess", with all kinds of bows, and to be honest, she looked very beautiful, but she didn't like to take care of me.

My dad greeted her parents warmly and even offered what he thought was a good cigarette, but the uncle said, "I'm not used to smoking." Within minutes, her mother began complaining that the eight-person dormitory was too crowded and did not have a separate bathroom.

So her father also asked the principal if he could find a dormitory with better conditions. I don't know how the principal replied, so he told his daughter: Stay for a few days for the time being, and I'll rent a house for you.

This is the first time I have experienced the gap between people!

Second, if you have a direct understanding of the class, there will be a poverty subsidy during the college period, which is 750 yuan per semester. It wasn't much, but it was enough money for me to eat a good meal in the cafeteria for two months. At the meeting in my freshman year, the teacher said that the special hardship allowance would be given to the fixed personnel every year, and the other places could be taken by the whole class.

So in my junior year, I also submitted an application, and I had already told my mother that I didn't need to give me living expenses, because the school was going to pay money, but then the counselor called me to the office and told me: This place is for you in the class, because I have promised someone before, and the counselor also said: Without this 750 yuan, you will not be bad.

At that time, I really felt that this world was not fair at all, so-and-so obviously had such good family conditions, was she short of this money!

Third, after the work of the class is commonplace, my understanding of the class is more in-depth and specific, for example, the other party's performance is obviously not as good as mine, but the evaluation title can be given priority to me, or the person is late to the leader is also a blind eye, and I will be "advised" every day: two minutes earlier! Over time, I became numb to this phenomenon, and I didn't have the same imbalance as I had at the beginning, because I understood

Since ancient times, it has been "back to the big tree to enjoy the shade"!

When the consumption of the people around me is much higher than my own, it will make me realize that I am different from the other person's class, after all, income is also a reflection of the difference in class.

Usually we talk about different topics when we chat, and when we eat together, he always chooses high-end restaurants, while I prefer small restaurants.

I don't think anything needs to happen, as long as you talk to each other a little more. It can be found that in fact, the class of two people is still different, and a person's quality and cultivation can be reflected.

When I was in junior high school, I was a playful kid, I was very noisy, I did everything I could, and then I worked hard and got into our best high school.

But a few of my best friends went to vocational and technical schools.

And then, even though we've always been close, I went to college and I still felt like we were getting farther and farther apart, and as the title says, we weren't from one class.

Around New Year's Day this year, I played since I was a child, and that buddy called me **, there is really no way, lack of money, because he and others have taken out online loans on the online loan platform, and the loan money is really not available for the time being, there is no way, call me ** and borrow money from me, at this moment, I really feel that I and he are not people of the same world.

I know my own level of consumption, I know how to live within my means, I have a good sense of consumption, I know what my friends are like, I know that he is not bad, although sometimes he fights, but he is a good person.

But I didn't expect him to do this kind of online loan, even to the point where he couldn't afford it, and I thought it was too much, and then this year's New Year's party.

We were in a small group of five people, and we waited for him for a long time, and then we knew that he had gone to gamble with someone else.

I didn't know how much the environment affects people, until I watched my brother change and I almost didn't know him.

And it really made me think, maybe he and I are not on the same road for a long time, I don't mean that I went to college and he went to technical school, we are not people on the same road, I mean, maybe the worldview of the two of us has long been different, and the different environment has made us both have different changes.

We may really grow up in a completely different way, face the world, and the youth of real swords and guns will do it.

But I found that the person around me was no longer the one who was on the same front as me, when he borrowed money from me, he went to gamble, and we waited.

I really don't feel like I'm from the same class as him.

Right now, it's four or five years away from graduating from college.

I didn't really feel much when I was studying. At most, you can only judge whose family is richer and whose family is more difficult from the clothes you wear. But even if the family conditions are good, there will not be much gap, and the good clothes for ordinary students are Nike, Adi or something; And everyone eats in the cafeteria, or goes to buy some snacks or something after class.

When I first graduated, everyone was full of confidence and felt that they would definitely break through in the future. The so-called newborn calf is not afraid of tigers? At that time, some people had good family conditions, some went abroad to study after graduation, or directly squatted in the family company, and then directly installed a bank or some kind of unit.

Like us, we can find a job on our own, or help out if we have a job at home to help with.

But now that I have graduated for four or five years, I feel really different, and I find that people's classes are really different. For example, most families are average, and at most with the help of their parents, it is good to buy a car for 200,000 yuan; When I got married, I also took the affordable route, and some of the slightly worse ones really can't marry a wife until now, it's nothing more than that they can look up to him but can't look down on him, and he can't look down on him if they are willing to marry him. And some families have good conditions, and the cars they drive are BMWs and Land Rovers; Finely decorated homes, or villas and the like; Marriage is a big deal, from the master of ceremonies to luxury cars, wedding cars to high-end hotels; And the wives are all very beautiful.

It feels like sometimes, I have to admit that anyone's class is really different, and this society is really quite realistic.

I am in a small society, that is, a school, we come from all over the world, we have seen different worlds, and the concepts formed are also different, some people will feel that morality is the bottom line of being a person, some people think that morality is just a tool, some people feel that they have to make money out of society, and some people feel that they need to develop personal abilities, and all kinds of ideas have challenged our bottom line.

Not only did I realize that I was in a different class from him, I simply hated him, but I also really wanted to help him, this guy grew up with me, we went to school together in elementary school, we went home together, full buddies.

I sometimes want to ask, how did he say this, I think, no matter who it is, we have to respect them, don't say their words behind their backs, every time I ask him this, he says, why are you so naïve, what I am telling you now is more important than knowledge, learn a little brother.

I have to say that this guy is really better than me, just rush at his clothes, this guy can tell me all the rage, I sometimes think, do I still want to follow my old routine, should I learn something from him, the more I think about it, the more heartache I feel, or don't want it, and I also hope that he can get out of the way after the waves are enough.

The first student, a senior who was one year older than us, was about to leave school. He said that he had never liked our choreographer and director profession, but out of helplessness, he could only bite the bullet. I've never talked about this with anyone else, and when I'm leaving, I don't have anything to worry about, what to say.

As for what he will do after graduation, he said that he wants to return to his hometown of Zhejiang, and then inherit his parents' career and become a small factory director. Everyone was in an uproar, it turned out to be hidden, and he was a little rich second generation. The senior is not modest, saying that his parents are in the leather business, and he dare not say anything else, at least he has a car and a house in the local area, and he can also ensure that he has a car and a house when he gets married, which is enough, he only needs to go back to learn how to manage with his parents for two years, and he can spend the rest of his time comfortably.

After speaking, my heart trembled, and I instantly felt that I was completely different from him, maybe after graduation, I was forced to rent a house, squeeze the subway, and people have already driven luxury cars, managed a field, and become a leader.

The second classmate can be regarded as a showdown. His parents were both civil servants, and they were not ordinary civil servants. Speaking of which, I basically understand, at least a petty official.

Then, he went on to say that he would not engage in this industry, his hometown is in the Northeast, and he does not need these industries, so he will go home and wait for the arrangement. He also thought it was good, and he didn't plan to go out.

I was stunned, I didn't expect him to want to continue to work in this profession, and he was also the type who didn't have to worry about anything, and he had a bright future. This is the bureaucracy, and I, a commoner, are another class apart.

The third classmate, he likes this major, what shocked me was the next sentence, his father is a director, his mother works in a TV station, and she has a wide range of contacts, and she can go to their unit for an internship after graduation, and then find a relationship and slowly gain a firm foothold.

I decided not to say anything when I would speak on my own. Because I don't know what to say, I don't know where my future will be, and I don't even know where my internship unit will be in China next semester. But it's not bad to think about it, I'm the only one who has the opportunity to go out and wander, and there are no constraints.

I'm a native of the city and have a few rural colleagues. I hated my colleagues and the ideas and customs of the countryside, especially the human relations. What is simple and kind, attaches importance to family affection, what big and small things are invited to dinner, what neighbors can visit each other at any time to eat, what villagers want to use what they want to take without being polite, what a family to build a house and ten families to help only need to manage a lunch, what ten miles and eight towns are acquaintances everywhere have connections, what other people's vegetable gardens and fruit trees will be picked by hand.

I'm sorry, but in my eyes, none of these rural merits are not feudal dross. Go to the neighbor's house casually and eat casually? Go to someone else's vegetable garden and reach out to pick it?

Aren't the villagers outsiders? In the eyes of our urban people, this is called no personal space, this is called unclear boundaries, this is called infringement of rights, and this is called not knowing respect. However, in the eyes of rural people, this is called simple nostalgia.

Rural people will definitely tell me, how good our countryside is, neighbors know each other, there is no need to lock the door when entering and exiting, people are frequent, there are acquaintances everywhere, everyone does not distinguish between inside and outside, you and me, how simple, how comfortable. I'm sorry, that's all I hate in the countryside. Rather than going to each other's vegetable gardens to take other people's fruits, I prefer to pay for them, and no one takes advantage of anyone.

And go to someone to reach out and pick it? I'm sorry, but in my opinion, that's called stealing. Rather than helping each other build a house, I would rather spend money to hire a decorator, and I don't owe anyone anyone if you pay physical strength, so as not to owe some favors to others later.

I want to buy a bag. I took a fancy to a bag on the Internet,** I was talking about the foreign trade tail list or anything Xixi. All right.

Regardless of whether the bag is a real foreign single tail order, the real thing is fake. In fact, I am not a person who values the brand very much, the first thing I value is his style I like, it may be the difference in personal consumption concepts, colleagues think that since it cost six or seven hundred, why not buy a **. Said me for a while.

I know she has good intentions. She also said that even if it is genuine, it will only cost one or two thousand yuan, and you can't afford it. But no matter how much money I have, I always feel that it will hurt my heart to let me spend one or two thousand, or even more money to buy a bag like them.

I'm not a glass heart, and my colleague is not a bad colleague, and the relationship is quite good. But I just feel good.,I'm an affordable type.,Sometimes I feel different from their consumption view.。。 For example, the killer bag they said.,Or what's prada.。。

I have no idea ... And Kate Spade.,Whatever.,It's just a little depressing to be said by them.。。。

Colleagues said that our concept of poverty is different, we not only let the poor people have food and clothes to wear, but more importantly, let the children from poor families in school, not because of poverty to limit their interests and personal development. I will not let myself feel inferior and disappointed because of poverty. If she wants to learn a musical instrument like other students, she can do the same.

At that moment, I realized the gap between the rich and the poor, not just the poverty line and the money gap.