What is it like to talk with friends on the road and be embarrassed to have no topic?

It's very boring to talk hard without words, others won't listen to you seriously, and it's not interesting to talk by yourself. In this case, you have just met a friend, you are interested in making friends, and the other person's attitude towards you is dispensable. At this time, if you don't want to say it and feel that you are not very polite, and you are full of embarrassing cells, you really want to laugh but it is not funny.

If you don't have anything to talk about, then don't talk about it, the so-called being a person doesn't need to be complicated. Everything follows fate, does not climb, does not refuse to come, and does not stay. If you are not attached to a single thought, you are willing to let go.

If you have to make friends in business or in the workplace, then it is not the mentality of making friends, it is the attitude of the business towards customers. Ordinary colleagues and friends are really like this, others will have endless things to say if they want to chat.

In addition to the relationship is better, more familiar friends, girlfriends and family members, chatting with other people is basically chatting and chatting about nothing to talk about, every time this phenomenon is embarrassing, in front of family or more familiar friends is a little better, even if the two sides do not speak, it is not so embarrassing, but in the relationship in general or when chatting with a stranger this phenomenon is very embarrassing, although trying to resolve the embarrassment, but it is only a forced topic, relatively stiff, At this time, the other party doesn't want to listen to you very much, and listens absentmindedly, and it doesn't make sense to say it alone, so it's basically completely embarrassing.

There are two types of chatting, one that follows your train of thought and the other that allows the other person to speak. There is only one condition, either the other party will be fascinated by what you listen to, or the other party will make you fascinated by what you listen to. This situation will not be cold.

The topic of the chat is more complicated, and you generally have to take a lead in the conversation. When the other person is willing to engage in your topic, ask the other person to talk more. As for what to talk about, you can do anything, at that time, it depends on the preferences of the other party, people love sports, you chat with the text, naturally there is no chat.

People all have common hobbies, and it depends on whether you have the heart to observe them. Chat must not talk about the embarrassment of the other party, especially when there are many people, for example, if someone is single, you can't talk too much about couples, and if someone has no children, try to avoid discussing children. In short, this is a question of measuring a person's emotional intelligence.

For people who care about or need to be close to, take the initiative to find some hot topics and topics that both parties care about. It's best to find something that the other person is interested in, and try to follow the other person's meaning and make the other person happy. Or find some questions that the other party is good at, let the other party tell the story, and be a loyal listener yourself, which will leave a good impression on the other party.

Everyone has their own attitude to life, the way of making friends and talking, if the latter is the case, you can usually contact more in daily life, you can find topics, you can be patient, in other words, I still think that there is something to talk about simply, and there is no topic to talk about, unless the friend you say is your favorite object.

Because I have a small hair like this, basically when the three or five of us are really energetic together, he suddenly makes a big turn from this topic to other topics, and then we are still talking about it, he is talking to himself alone, and sometimes he has to change the topic with him, don't mention the discomfort.

I've also experienced awkward silence when walking with my colleagues. Here's how I do it:

First, talk about work-related topics, which can help break the ice. For example, ask colleagues what projects they have been working on recently, what kind of results they can expect to achieve, what kind of performance evaluations they can expect, and so on. Because work is ultimately our common topic, chatting about work topics can make the atmosphere less rusty.

Secondly, care about the current situation of colleagues, and ask about life and hobbies. I remember one time when I was on a business trip with a colleague, we arrived at the hotel a day early, so we can say that we spent a lot of time together. I took the initiative to ask my colleagues about their daily life, what they like to do on weekends, and what hobbies they have.

It turned out that we had a lot of common hobbies, which made us find the topic in an instant, and the atmosphere became lively. So if you care about the lives of your colleagues, you can find common topics.

Thirdly, share some interesting things about your daily life or your own hobbies. When people get along with others, in addition to asking, it is also important to share yourself. For example, share some interesting things about the weekend and your family, your own rhythm of life, your own views on a certain book and a certain movie, and so on.

Sharing can lead to empathy, and it's also a great way to get closer. When colleagues hear your sharing, they will also take the initiative to put forward their own experiences and opinions, and the atmosphere will naturally be lively.

Finally, learn to listen and express genuine interest during the chat. The reason why some people have difficulty chatting with others is because they talk too much and don't give the other person a chance to perform. So when chatting with colleagues, learn to listen to the other person's topic and express genuine interest, which can give the other person something to say and make the conversation smoother.

In short, in order to have a good chat with people, in addition to having common topics, it is more important to establish a good communication atmosphere. Caring for others, sharing yourself, and listening to others are communication skills that can make you talk to anyone. So when you go on a business trip or work overtime, if you and your colleagues fall into an awkward silence, you may want to try the above methods, which will definitely liven up the atmosphere and you will also find that your colleagues are actually interesting people.

Chatting is an essential part of interacting with people. Establish a good communication atmosphere and communication skills, which will allow you to talk to anyone. In getting along with colleagues, you must also develop such good habits.

Once you get acquainted with it, you'll find that everyone has their own interesting side, and communication outside of work can be a pleasant thing.

Just two words: embarrassing, not only the scene is embarrassing, but also extremely embarrassing in the heart.

In fact, it's nothing to talk about with friends without a topic, but it's embarrassing to just have nothing to talk about. There will also be times when there is no topic to talk about with friends who are often in contact, and at that time they simply don't talk about it, or there is no serious topic, just tease each other a few words or send some meaningless, just funny emojis are nothing. But I once chatted with a friend I hadn't seen for a long time and didn't have contact, and the scene was very cold for a while, and she asked me very unfamiliarly at the beginning how I was doing, and I said it was fine.

Then the two of us asked each other very stiffly about the current situation, and the sense of alienation became more and more obvious, and we didn't know where to start if we wanted to talk about anything, because not only did we not have contact for many years, but even the circle of friends and life circles were completely different, and we couldn't find a common topic as an entry point, and finally had to say goodbye strangely and politely, which was embarrassing and sad.

Yes, in addition to embarrassment, there is also an indescribable sentimentality. I used to have a very close relationship with that friend, I remember that when we were in high school, we often went to each other's houses for dinner, and sometimes we would sleep together, but I don't know why we began to drift apart after going to college, and finally there was no contact, I thought that I would always have a sense of intimacy with her, but that awkward conversation made me feel that we could only do this, going our separate ways, and this reality really made me feel sad and sentimental for a while. And we've been completely out of touch since that time, and I think maybe we'll never be in touch again, maybe even friends will be a thing of the past.

In short, I don't want to go through this embarrassing and sad experience again. Now I often take the initiative to contact my friends, even if there is really no topic, it is nothing to be embarrassed, after all, I am still in contact, and the love will always be there.

I felt that the two of them seemed to have nothing to talk about, and suddenly they fell into a kind of cold embarrassment.

I don't think there is anything in common between the two of them, as if all the questions have been asked, and I really don't know what to say.

I feel very unnatural, time flies very slowly, I don't know how to face it, I want to get up and say goodbye, and I am afraid that my friends will be angry and strange.

It shows that you are not particularly familiar, there is no topic for real friends to talk about, and you won't feel embarrassed to play your own for the time being, because there is a tacit understanding that has always existed, so embarrassing that there is no topic, and there is indeed a feeling of wanting to find a hole in the ground.

I felt that the two of them had nothing to say when they were together, and the atmosphere was particularly solemn, with big eyes and small eyes, full of weirdness.

Face to face, holding a mobile phone to swipe the ticket circle together, all kinds of brushes, and then thinking about what you want to say, the picture is too embarrassing.

When talking with friends, two people have different ways of thinking, different views, different interests and hobbies, and it is easy to not be able to talk together, which is the experience of my roommate and me.

It must be a particularly overwhelming experience, and it can feel particularly awkward. I want to desperately find a topic.

If you talk with friends, there is no topic, which is embarrassing, this experience should be more helpless, and it is also more embarrassing, after all, there is no topic together, in this case, you can find some other topics to alleviate this embarrassment.

Both parties in an awkward conversation may want to leave urgently, and some blind dates may be like this, but the better experience is to be able to have someone come forward to solve the situation.

Communicating with friends, no topic, very painful thing, I don't know what to say, the scene is very silent.

If you don't have a topic, don't talk, after all, not everyone can keep looking for topics, so it will be better to be alone for a while to find topics.