How did you get pregnant when you got married, and why do you get married now when you re pregnant?

Updated on healthy 2024-03-17
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Young people love first, and they don't care about being together.

    Nowadays, society is open, people's thinking is progressive, and many young people will live together before marriage. Therefore, even if there is no plan to get married, if young people are in love, they will ignore it after being together, and many do not pay attention to contraception, and it is inevitable that they will be "hit". After getting pregnant, because she loves each other very much, the child is the crystallization of love, so she is naturally willing to stay, and then she is ready to get married.

    For this reason, men are the most aware of this, because many women fail to use contraception, because men are not very cooperative. Now that he has a child, a man with a sense of responsibility is naturally willing to give the woman an explanation and take on this responsibility, so the two got married. Of course, if the girl is not pregnant, the two may not get married in the end, or they may marry a few years later.

    It can only be said that when the two parties are still in love, the woman's pregnancy is indeed the best time to get married.

    The woman's family objected, and the man came up with a "bad idea".

    In addition, there are also deliberate reasons for excluding the supremacy of love, getting carried away, and girls "getting pregnant first and then getting married". That is, when two people are together, the woman's family does not agree, in order to be able to be together smoothly, the man has a "bad idea" to cook the raw rice into rice, and the woman's family has no choice, so they agree to be together.

    Scenes like this are not only often staged in TV dramas, but also in real life. Because, the woman's parents generally hope that their daughter will marry well, not to mention having a car and a house, at least the man must have a good job and family conditions. However, there are many boys who are not in the eyes of the woman's family, so in order to be together, whether it is negotiated by two young people or unilaterally deliberate by the man, the girl becomes pregnant before marriage.

    However, the girl can think clearly, whether the man is worth entrusting, although the unmarried pregnancy is a little unsightly, but because of the so-called face, she is forced to marry, and the sacrifice is a lifetime of happiness.

    The man's family asked for fear that the woman would not have children.

    There is another reason, which is a bit "weird", that is, the man's family asks for it, because they are worried that the woman will not have children. Indeed, some families have a heavier concept of inheritance, and marrying a daughter-in-law is to have children, for fear that their son will marry someone who will not give birth. Therefore, before getting married, the woman will be required to "get pregnant first and then get married", and some more bizarre places will also require the woman to give birth to a boy before she can pass the door.

    Men are naturally well aware of this. Therefore, for the sake of their parents, they will persuade the woman to get pregnant first so that they can marry her. If this is the case, I advise the woman to consider it carefully, because no matter how good the man in front of him is, his family is a family that attaches great importance to inheritance.

    This is the case before marriage, and after marriage, it is more likely that various incidents will arise in order to have a boy. Therefore, women must think clearly about whether they can accept marrying into such a family.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    From the perspective of common sense, it should not be all, but only a part, which is a problem in the current social moral concept and other aspects.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Many women have been pregnant several times before marriage, and it is difficult to get pregnant when the uterus is thin.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now if you are pregnant and get married, because you are pregnant, you really know, two people go to be healthy, so as not to get married and have no children in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is normal for Fengzi to get married, in order to give the child a name, in order to fulfill the other party.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not all women will get married after they are pregnant, mainly because the times are different now, and there are generally a lot of pregnant people who have just got married, and some just don't want to drink so early, so now they are dating for a period of time before planning to get married, which still depends on the personal situation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think people nowadays get married when they're pregnant! It's because there's no way to go under the premise! Because men don't want to get married!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Now most people are in the trial marriage stage, accidentally pregnant, then at this time to make a decision whether to get married, whether it is suitable to be together, then most people's thoughts may be like this.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, they are already pregnant and have to be responsible, and secondly, many people need to find a child who will have children, which is the so-called inheritance

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At present, the society is more open, everyone is more tolerant, and after only getting pregnant, everyone is often forced to get married.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, most of the people who get pregnant and get married are because they want to get married in the first place, or they are hesitant to get married, or they don't get married now.

    Pregnancy just pushed them to make up their minds to get married.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's that many people are open, and after getting engaged, it's equivalent to getting married.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This should have multiple aspects:

    1. Because the two young people have already lived together, and then something may happen at night, and then the pregnancy is caused, some choose to beat it off, and some choose to give birth, which is all caused by doing something at night without preparation, thinking that it is safe, so I chose to get married.

    2. Some are because the man doesn't want to be in charge, but he is more attentive, and then he gets a woman pregnant, and he is forced to have a big belly, so he chooses to get married, and this kind of man generally has no sense of responsibility.

    3. Some because the bride price of the mother-in-law is too high, but the two people like each other, but they can't get so much bride price, so they take the method of Wang Bang to make the woman pregnant, so that the mother-in-law has no way to reduce the amount of the bride price, and then get pregnant and get married.

    So it depends on what kind of situation it is, mostly 2 and 3.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Now the concept is different, and this kind of situation is similar to a trial marriage.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because young people are more impulsive and quicker now, they have cohabited early, so they are all pregnant before getting married?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    None of them, right? It's just that there are a few people (I'm one of them).

    I got pregnant first and then got married, and my purpose at that time was: I felt that I had a bargaining chip, for example, when to get married, it was up to the man to decide, and there was a bride price and the like, so I could bargain, and so on.

    The purpose of getting pregnant first and then getting married is actually so many:

    1. Grasp the initiative and have the right to speak about marriage.

    2. The bride price can be bargained.

    3. Prevent divorce immediately after marriage.

    4. So as not to find a wife who can't have children.

    Of course, if two people have already talked about getting pregnant first and then getting married, it is best to do so on the premise that they have already decided to get married soon, for example, both parents have met and agreed to get married.

    If the man still says that he will get pregnant first and then get married only during the pursuit period, it will inevitably make people suspect that the motive does not exist.

    So you have the right time for him to be a man and to say this.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. Dear will be happy to answer for you. As long as the conditions required by the Marriage Law are met, you can get married, and it has nothing to do with whether you are pregnant or not.

    A marriage certificate is a legal document issued by the marriage registration authority to prove that the marriage relationship is validly established. The original marriage certificate shall be in duplicate, and its style shall be uniformly formulated by the Ministry of Civil Affairs, uniformly printed by the people of provinces, autonomous regions and municipalities directly under the Central Government, and stamped by the people of counties, municipal districts or cities not divided into districts, and the marriage certificate shall be affixed to both men and women, and shall be stamped with a special steel seal for marriage registration. As long as you meet the requirements for marriage, you can get a marriage certificate.

    Hello, dear ask users, your question has been received and the answer is being urgently sorted out for you, please don't worry.

    Dear will be happy to answer for you. As long as the conditions required by the Marriage Law are met, you can get married, and it has nothing to do with whether you are pregnant or not. A marriage certificate is a legal document issued by the marriage registration authority to prove that the marriage relationship is validly established.

    The original marriage certificate shall be in duplicate, and its style shall be uniformly formulated by the Ministry of Civil Affairs, and shall be uniformly printed by the people of provinces, autonomous regions and municipalities directly under the Central Government, and shall be stamped by the people of counties, municipal districts or cities not divided into districts, and the marriage certificate shall be affixed to both men and women, and shall be stamped with a special steel seal for marriage registration. As long as you meet the requirements for marriage, you can get a marriage certificate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Pregnancy can be married, the situation is as follows:

    1. The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women;

    2. Marriage must be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and neither party is allowed to force the other party or any third party to interfere;

    3. Eligible men and women shall go to the marriage registration authority in person to register their marriages and obtain marriage certificates, and if they have not completed the marriage registration, they shall apply for supplementary registration.

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