Poor fate, why is my fate so tragic

Destiny can be changed.

Bai's fate is divided into past lives, present lives, and future lives. The life of the zhi cannot be changed, and the luck of the dao can be changed. So people say, "Fortune telling."

Answer: fortune telling", did not say "count fate", luck is called luck when it comes to change later.

Therefore, this life has the karma caused by your previous life, the effect of your present life, and the cause that you have created again, so that it becomes a kind of karma, that is, it is constantly formed in the process of creating karma. ......For example, if you are reincarnated into a very poor family, and you have to reinvent yourself, that is, to use your fortune to change your current life; If you are born in a very wealthy family, it means that you have created a lot of good causes in your previous life, and you have already achieved good results in this life, and if you keep working hard, you will be able to succeed. Many people don't work hard in the homes of rich people, eat, drink and have fun in the world, and finally slowly use up all the blessings they have cultivated in their previous lives, and then they start to suffer, and his luck is bad again, so his fate is still not good in his old age.

What you have experienced is what you should experience, and after you have experienced it, you must have a long understanding and adjust your mentality, whether it is your fate is miserable, everyone's fate is tragic, but you don't see it.

You have to decide how to go on your own path.

It's like a piece of paper.

You can draw whatever you want. Destiny is in your own hands, and if you want to survive, you must struggle, and you must have lofty ideals and goals in life.

Don't think so, the more people who don't follow the usual path, often end up in the end

The more outstanding the ability will be, everyone's starting point is different, and everyone has different answers, but everyone has their own shortcomings, you listen to Qu Wanting's "We are not different" There are a few born with a golden spoon, we are all ordinary people, but we have different attitudes towards life.

Everyone has the right to change their own destiny.

If your fate is tragic.

The fault is not fate.

on your own.

According to your unilateral statement, there is really no reasonable standard to measure your situation at this time, so it can only be said that:

1. Your family is indeed like this, then, I believe, the formation of these attitudes is definitely not 1 or 2 days, there must be a process, but, in your description, it seems that there is no mention, just that you and your uncle fell out, and nothing else is known. So, there must be some reason why you don't or you don't find out. However, no matter what, as an elder and a relative, that description is definitely wrong.

2. In response to your insults to you (employees of your father's company), I believe that ordinary employees will not do anything out of the ordinary when they know your identity, unless, you have no status at home to the point where everyone knows, to say a not very nice analogy, even if you beat a dog, you have to look at the owner, after all, you are your father's biological daughter, and your father is a boss who is not criticized or disrespected, such a situation should not occur.

3. Talk about you and your uncle, first of all, I don't know how you cursed your uncle and his family when you sent a text message, and how your relatives all found out. However, what I understand is that as an elder, I used to care for you so much, and I was the leader of the elder in your heart, so I would not care too much about this matter. But I'm not saying he won't be sad.

Although I don't know why you cursed your uncle, it is not difficult to find that you have some emotional or personality deficiencies, such as sensitivity, vulnerability, lack of self-confidence, and especially lack of emotional self-control. Being young is a good reason, but it's not an explanation.

4. There is a saying, called: The poor must have something to hate. When I was young, I couldn't understand why this sentence was said like this, and when I understood, I saw many things relatively lightly.

To put it objectively, there is a cause and effect relationship between the occurrence of everything, and there must be an effect, so you can consider why this is the case from yourself.

5. In fact, the above conclusions sound like a big blow or pressure on you. Hopefully it doesn't hurt you too much. The last point, the fifth, may be a little milder.

To deal with your current predicament, you need to make yourself stronger. There are many definitions of strong, not only how sharp or successful you are called a strong person, as long as you find yourself, find out the positioning, who you are, believe in yourself, and affirm yourself, then you will not be afraid of being denied by others, and over time, no one will deny you. If a person doesn't even believe in himself, why do you make others believe in you?

No one's life is a failure. If you think you've failed, you've really failed! Have you ever heard a story about a particular person?

By age, you should be an older sister, live your own life, and impress everyone who thinks you are a failure! Watch out for you.

Change your mood, you will be more comfortable, life is so short, don't use it on resentment, create more beautiful things.

You're older than me, but I know that forgiveness and apology are the sharpest ** in the world, although it doesn't have a blade. Change yourself, learn to adapt and change people in order to protect and be accepted by others, after all, you are not living alone, there is always a reason for being disliked, maybe small things and small actions will also cause people to be disgusted, people are very sensitive and fragile animals....

Sister, I may say hello a little unpleasantly, but there is no malice, first of all, I think you should be a good person, but you know what? I searched Les Miserables and found you, miserable? You used this word too hastily, there are many people in the world who don't have food or clothing, it shouldn't be your turn to be miserable, people who can pursue emotions are much better than many people who don't even have the opportunity to pursue emotions, no matter what the outcome is.

Since you think that you can't stand it among your relatives at home, you can choose to be independent by yourself, go outside, independence will make you understand a lot, don't you still have an older brother, you can go to Beijing to work, it will be better to have a brother, and you can find friends. Believe in yourself, even if you don't have anything, at least believe in yourself, come on! I hope you're not afraid of suffering, and if so, then I've written these words in vain.

Hello: I checked the dictionary and learned: the past that cannot be changed and the future full of uncertainties is called fate!

Everyone's fate is inseparable from their efforts when they were young, and if you study and work hard now, your future destiny will definitely be very good.

But I also want to say that fate is in your own hands, and you can't trust or trust the gods in it.

A good life depends on one's own efforts to create wealth, and it is impossible to get wealth in real life by worshipping gods and bodhisattvas.

Using your own brain and hands is the only way to create real wealth, and it is also the only way to do it.

Right! I send you a word, live well today, and tomorrow will be even better.

I hope it can help you, and I wish you a fortune as soon as possible and a happy day.

Destiny is just a subjective concept of the individual. Tragedy is a work in which the irreconcilable conflict between the protagonist and reality and its tragic ending constitute the basic content. Most of its protagonists are representatives of people's ideals and aspirations.

In Lu Xun's words, tragedy is the destruction of valuable things in life to show people, so as to arouse the audience's grief and reverence, and achieve the purpose of improving ideological sentiment.

Take you to understand what tragedy is.

Life is an experience, every present constitutes life itself, not the past, not the future, so live in the present, do not regret the past, do not think about the future, just think about what you can do at the moment, just do it with peace of mind...