You can t let go of your ex after breaking up, you don t regret it, you are not unwilling, just beca

It's reluctant, because I already have feelings for my ex, I can't let go of it at all, and I feel that I still love him, but in fact, it's very painful for me.

is because of guilt, because in the process of getting along with the two people, I ignored her feelings and never treated her well, but after all, the relationship between the two people could not continue, so they could only break up.

It's just that I still love each other, so I still can't let go of it after a long time, but I will never go to him again, I won't bother him, I will only bless him silently.

It's just because I owe a goodbye, because the emotions of both people were very excited when they broke up, and they didn't sit down and communicate well after the breakup

What if you are unwilling, marriage is a matter of two people, it is your love and my willingness, since we can't be together, we must choose to let go at the right time. Don't make unnecessary sacrifices.

Because all the efforts in this relationship have come to naught, such an ending is the most tragic.

For the person you once loved, for the feelings you once gave sincerely, it is not so easy to forget, even if two people break up in the end, they will always remember their ex, many people break up, and they will always be angry with their ex in the future, why are some people always unconvinced after breaking up? <>

Some people feel that their efforts over the years are not worth it at all, and they feel that the other party is not worth their own efforts, so they always feel that their ex is sorry for them. Some people are deceived or betrayed by their ex when they break up, causing two people to part ways. <>

Some people always have a lot of regrets and regrets because of their last relationship, some people still have deep feelings for their ex when they break up, so they have a lot of can't let go of their ex, and some people have to separate from their other half because of various mistakes, no matter what the reasonFor people who have made a vow to themselves and want to spend their lives together, I don't think there are many people who can maintain a normal heart. <>

Ex is the most familiar stranger to many people, we have loved, hated, familiarized, and understood ex, but no matter what kind of story the two of you have, you will gradually become strangers in the end, many people say that a qualified ex should be like dead, and it seems to me that this is indeed the caseOnly when we completely let go of our ex and don't let it affect our mood and our life can we be regarded as giving ourselves a real new beginning, so that they can meet their new life and feelings in a better state.

I can't forget my ex after a breakup, most of them are due to these three reasons:

Rationality and psychology are out of sync.

After the two of us break up, rationally we can accept this fact instantly, but psychologically, subconsciously, we have to slowly adapt to this reality, and in this transition period, we will still subconsciously feel that the two people are still in a relationship. But the other party is not by our side, and there are various objective signals that have been separated from each other, this psychological gap will increase our miss for our ex, and at the same time amplify the importance of our ex to us, so we will feel that we can't do without our ex. If this is the case, we should not think about whether to redeem it for the time being, but give ourselves more time to distract ourselves with other things, and when we can really accept the fact that two people have broken up, we can objectively measure the relationship between two people.

Unwilling.

I was so good to him, why did he break up with me? It was obviously him who chased me at the beginning, and now he is the one who wants to break up? Why did he say that he would always love me, but now he has changed his mind?

These are often the subtexts that we often flash in our hearts, and being unwilling does not mean that we still need each other. It is precisely because we have this psychology that we care more about our grievances and not whether the two people can still be together. Prompted by unwilling emotions, it is really easy for us to make some redemption moves, but that does not mean that we still love each other, nor does it mean that we should save this relationship.

Only by truly understanding your needs can you make the right choice.

The psychological and emotional need for the ex remains.

In fact, most people want to redeem each other, in the final analysis, because they really can't do without each other, we are psychologically and emotionally, there is a dependence on each other, the sweetness of the past between two people, every day they get along day and night, each other's investment and dedication to the relationship, not can be easily erased by the word breakup. And there are many reasons why two people break up. It may be a fake breakup caused by a moment of emotion, or it may be a fake breakup caused by a misunderstanding between each other, even if they have different views with each other, or one party has made a mistake of principle.

In fact, there is still a chance for the prodigal son to turn back, so breaking up, everyone does not mean the end of a relationship.

I can't let go of my ex after a breakup, I personally think there are two reasons: one is that you have really loved someone with your heart, no matter what factors caused you to part ways, it is enough to show that you are a person who values affection; The second is that there is no better new love than your ex, which leads to a psychological gap between you. Life is short, cherish the right person, some people turn around is a lifetime, and once they turn around, they will never lose my love.

If you really can't let go of her, you really love her, if she is still the same as you, then be brave to find her, release your past suspicions, and join hands in the future. If either of you already has the next relationship, it means that the relationship is not worth nostalgia again, and you have to look forward because there will be better people waiting for you in front of you.

If you break up and still can't let go of your ex, it's because you still have feelings for each other. In your heart, you still love him very much. But you also have to admit that there are a lot of problems between you, which is why you broke up.

I can't let him go because of the existence of feelings. But people have to look forward, and the road has to go forward, so they still put it in a corner and try to move forward.

It must be because you have given too much affection, so it is also a normal reaction to not be able to let go of your ex, but it doesn't help, you have to clean up the pain as soon as possible and start a new life.

Maybe it's because I once loved deeply.

After a breakup, you can't completely let go of your ex all at once. It takes reason and time.

If you break up and can't let go, it shows that you are sincerely devoted to this relationship, and you still care about him (her) in your heart.

After all, people have feelings, and it is impossible to let go immediately after a breakup, and if they are broken up, it will be even more difficult for them to let go. If you get along for a few years and break up, is it really so easy to let go? Memories are indelible for a while, and after breaking up, you will always inadvertently think of each other's goodness, think of the wonderful times that once belonged to the two worlds, and may touch the scene, see things and think about people, this is the reason why it is difficult to let go.

If you want to let go of the other party as soon as possible, just hide or throw away those items, seal your own memories, and try not to think about the liquid; If you still have him (her) in your heart, but there is no possibility of recovery, hide him (her) in the bottom of your heart and silently wish the other party. Then let me be busy, use my busy work and handicraft and fulfilling life to divert my attention, and forget this memory over time.

We all have a habit of interdependence. After being together for a long time, it is what people call relatives who feel that because everyone has a ** worth remembering, but with the passage of time, the emotion gradually fades, and the fact of breaking up will gradually be recognized. will gradually let go.

That is to say, letting go is a process of demand.

I remember that there is a saying that is very true, the way to forget about your ex is new love and time. If you choose a new love, you may be able to let go of your ex in a relatively short period of time. But you don't forget your ex.

Suppose you don't choose a new love, but choose a time dust ingredient. That's really hard to put down. I was separated for three years and chose to take time to let go.

I haven't put it down yet, I just don't want to mention it anymore.

The essence of love is actually habits. No matter what stage of love you are in, you will have different habits. As long as you let go of this habit, or fill the void with other things, it's not that hard to let go.

It may be that you like him more, get used to him when he is around, get used to his company, and think that he will accompany you for a lifetime, and suddenly loses it, which will make you feel that there is a gap and you are not used to it.

This shows that you can't let go of your ex and still want to be with him. In this case, it is better to start a new relationship and forget about the past.

This is quite normal, after all, you have been together for so long, time will dilute everything and will make you forget about this person.

kiss and break up with your ex, but you can't let it go, which just shows that you are an emotional person. It shows that you are serious about this relationship, and this relationship must have left a deep impression on you. If you can easily forget this relationship, it means that this relationship is just a waste of time and energy for you, and it does not bring you any value to the rotten town.

So if you want to be starved and coarse, it should be worth it for you to get along in this relationship, and it will leave good memories for both of you, so you will miss it when you are separated, and you will miss it when you are alone. That's why I separated from my ex, but I still can't forget him. <>