Am I too possessive?

You grew up with your sister. Maybe it's because of her strong dependence. I don't want her to be as good to others in the future as she is to you.

So you don't want people to call her sister. You're still a kid. This doesn't count as possessiveness.

I guess it's also a kind of dependence. I think you'll be fine when you grow up. Your sister is so happy to have a brother who loves her like this, and I want to have a brother too

I don't think it's called possessiveness... I feel like you're a boy, it's called sibling love. . . And your thoughts are right.,What's wrong with calling my sister.。。。

It's normal, some people want to call it yet. Think about it from a different perspective, and you will find a lot of differences!

You can't control other people, you can think whatever you want, but other people will still do that, so keep feeling happy, don't think about what other people can't do, don't have the idea of controlling other people.

Maybe it's just that your sister is the closest person to you, maybe you just want to be taken care of by your sister, but only if you think of her as a sister.

You have a bit of a sister complex, so you show possessiveness and want to possess her. No matter what others call her, she will always be your sister, so you still don't think like this about a good person who possesses her, she will have her boyfriend and then husband, but your relationship will not change because of these.

Actually, I think it's quite normal. Because I used to have my parents and I was alone. It's very unpleasant to have a brother to share their love, such a similar feeling. Not anymore. You're probably young. It's good to grow up.

Yes, there is. You should be generous, no matter what, your sister will always be your sister, just a title, even if you have another brother or sister, the most painful will still be you, nothing.

Hehe, your cousin is also your sister's younger brother, it's a relative, of course, you can call it that.

Abnormal mentality, go to the doctor.

Forget it. You're afraid that your sister will care less about you because of him.

If you're sick, go see a psychiatrist.

It's not a bad thing not to be possessive, as long as you don't have the desire to possess things outside the body, to possess illegal wealth, to possess unrealistic things, to possess virtue, to possess conscience, to possess knowledge, to possess great love, to possess responsibility, to possess happiness, to possess health, to possess praise, etc., what's so bad?

This is a psychological problem, if the desire for possession is too strong, the desire to control will also be very strong, and this kind of person is sometimes difficult to control in society, because his selfishness is too heavy.

Don't count, since you like it, you will definitely be possessive.

1: There is actually a certain reason for making one's heart strong, because after men and women get along, they have feelings for each other, and it is inevitable that one party will have an inferiority complex in love. This feeling of inferiority is very common, and many couples feel this way, so it is also normal.

However, once one of the couples has an inferiority complex, then the relationship is likely to be estranged, so that the inferior party will strengthen his possessiveness. In this way, the other party is likely to feel depressed because of this. Therefore, when two people are together, they must make their hearts strong enough, read more books in their spare time, broaden their horizons, exercise more, and turn themselves into a bodybuilder, so that they can enhance their self-confidence and become strong in their hearts, so that they will not be troubled by excessive possessiveness.

Two: Enhance your own charm A person's charm is particularly important, people like beautiful things, and people basically have no resistance to those beautiful and beautiful things, let alone a couple after being together. Freshness is important, so it requires you to improve your charisma, and if your charisma is enhanced, then you will have a strong confidence to get along with the other person.

This way, you don't have to think about the effects of being too possessive on you.

Three: Make your life full, life is indispensable for love between men and women, but love is not the whole of life. Life is really difficult, and each of us has to bear the pressure from society and family, and these pressures are likely to be a little unbearable.

Love is an essential part of life, and at the same time, it serves as the spice of life, so it must not make people feel uncomfortable. Independence is the only way for each of us to grow up, and the scope of independence is really wide, not only self-independence, but also requires both parties in love to be independent of each other. Why?

Because the love period between two people will inevitably stick together all day long, and no one can do without each other, and the two parties at that time are like the relationship between fish and water, people and oxygen. But over time, super possessiveness will grow in the heart, and when it explodes, maybe both of them will be hurt. Therefore, you must learn to be independent, although you care about each other, and try not to rely too much on each other.

Five: Don't be suspicious, the biggest problem between couples may be suspicion! This is also a well-known truth, in TV dramas, we often see examples of mutual suspicion in life that lead to a split in two shots.

Therefore, couples must not be suspicious, trust is the bridge between each other, if once each other even has the initial trust, what is the future! Suspicion can also breed possessiveness, and being too possessive is also one of the important reasons for breaking up. When getting along, a little more trust, a little more communication, when encountering problems, empathize with your heart and mind, and be a little less suspicious, so that couples can withstand the test of time.

Summary. Very possessive may be due to the following reasons:1

Insecurity: Some people may lack confidence in their sense of security due to past experiences or personality traits, so they will try to gain security by controlling and possessing the other person. 2.

High self-esteem: Some people may have high self-esteem and think that they should have all the attention and time of the other person, so they will try to satisfy their needs by possessing the other person. 3.

Distrust: Some people may lack trust in the other person because of their past experiences or lack of understanding of the other person, so they will try to control the other person's behavior by possessing the other person to reduce their own insecurity. 4.

Overly controlling: Some people may have a strong need for control due to personality traits or past experiences, so they will try to satisfy their desire to control by possessing the other person. Whatever the reason, being very possessive can have a negative impact on relationships.

So, if you find that you have a very possessive tendency, you can try to improve it by:1Boosts self-confidence and security:

Enhance your self-confidence and sense of security through studying, exercising, making friends, etc., and reduce your control and possessiveness over each other. 2.Building a relationship of trust:

Through communication and getting along with each other, gradually establish a relationship of trust and reduce the distrust and desire to control the other party. 3.Respect each other's personal space:

Respect each other's personal space and habits, and don't try to satisfy your own needs by possessing them.

Very possessive may be due to the following reasons:1Lack of security:

Some people may lack confidence in their sense of security because of past experiences or personality traits, so they will try to gain security by controlling and possessing the other person. 2.The self-travel burns too high a sense of respect:

Some people may have high self-esteem and think that they should have all the attention and time of the other person, so they will try to satisfy their own needs by possessing the other person. 3.Don't trust each other:

Some people may lack trust in the other person because of their past experiences or lack of understanding of the other person, so they will try to control the other person's behavior by possessing the other person, so as to reduce their own insecurity. 4.Overly controlling:

Some people may have a strong need for control because of their personality traits or past experiences, so they will try to satisfy their desire for control by possessing the other person. Whatever the reason, being very possessive can have a negative impact on relationships. Therefore, if you find that you have a very possessive tendency, you can try to improve by:

1.Enhance self-confidence and sense of security: Enhance your self-confidence and sense of security through studying, exercising, making friends, etc., and reduce your control and possessiveness of the other party.

2.Establish a trusting relationship: Through communication and getting along with the other party, gradually build a trusting relationship and reduce the distrust and desire to control the other party.

3.Respect each other's personal space: Respect each other's personal space and habits, and don't try to satisfy your own needs by possessing each other.

You can talk to the teacher, and the teacher will help you analyze and answer.

Summary. Dear answer for you: too possessive, not love.

The reason why I say this is because of the following points. 01 If you love someone, you have you in your eyes, and all you think about in your heart is you, but if you really love someone, you will not be difficult to force others, and you will not know how to respect you. In the face of love, when you see your beloved happy, you will be happy, and when you see your beloved sad, you will feel uncomfortable.

It is often said that in the face of feelings, there is no room for a third person. It's a fact. When you see someone you like, when you get along with other members of the opposite sex, you will be more or less jealous.

Dear answer for you: too possessive, not love. The reason why I say this is because of the following points.

01 If you love someone, you have you in your eyes, and all you think about in your heart is you, but if you really love someone, you will not be difficult to force others, and you will not know how to respect you. In the face of love, when you see your beloved happy, you will be happy, and when you see your beloved sad, you will feel uncomfortable. It is often said that in the face of feelings, there is no room for a third person.

It's a fact. When you see someone you like, when you get along with other members of the opposite sex, you will be more or less jealous.

02 Men who are particularly possessive are, in the final analysis, a psychological problem. The more I don't feel at ease with you, the less I believe you, the more I don't want you to go out, and when I see you talking to other people of the opposite sex, I will hit people indiscriminately. He always cares about himself, not you.

03 In the face of a relationship, the more people who want to control the overall situation, the more they are not confident in this relationship. Because of low self-esteem, I am very sensitive, so sensitive that I am very concerned about seeing any wind and grass in you, thinking that this is a manifestation of my love for you, but in fact it is not, but a kind of possessiveness in my heart. The more possessive a man is, the more he will be self-centered, which is a deformed love and a kind of harm.

You can describe your situation in detail, and the teacher can better answer for you.

Dear Are you satisfied with me? Do you still have any doubts?

Personal opinion: The "I" in the text is more selfish and too possessive. It's not love for kittens, it's just a pity. Let the kitten starve to death, there is an element of anger. What you think belongs to you, others are not qualified to touch.

Possessiveness, which is a neutral word, is a psychological phenomenon.

1. When you like something, you will find a way to get it, even if it is useless or you don't like it after you get it.

2. You must have a lot of useful things, no matter what it is or a certain category of goods.

3. Selfishly want to monopolize any person and thing you like, and do not allow others to touch it.

Then you yourself feel that the possessiveness is particularly strong, that is particularly strong.

It's important to ignite your friends, but you can't take possession of them, they are your friends, you can like them very much, but you can't let your possessiveness interfere with the feeling between you and them.

It means that you are very reckless and despise your friends, but you can't take them for you, they are your friends, you can like them very much, but you can't let your possessiveness interfere with the relationship between you and them.

It's not a good thing please, including your object, they will also have their own good friends to play, and friends will have friends, so it is recommended not to be too extreme.