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"If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher. Choose those who are good and follow them, and change those who are not good. ”

Meaning: Three people together, and among them there must be my teacher. I choose the good aspects of him to learn from him, and when I see the bad aspects of him, I correct my own shortcomings against myself.

This sentence shows Confucius's self-cultivation, open-minded and studious spirit. It contains two aspects: on the one hand, it is the spirit of humility and studiousness to choose those who are good and follow them, and learn from the good of others; On the other hand, it is the spirit of self-cultivation to change those who are not good, and to take them as a warning when they see the unkindness of others, and to reflect on themselves.

In this way, no matter whether the people with whom you get along are good or not, you can be a teacher. There is a record in the "Analects" that once the Gongsun Dynasty of the Patriotic Emperor asked Zigong, Confucius's knowledge was learned from **? Zigong said that the sermons preached by the ancient sages remained among the people, and the virtuous people knew its great place, and the unvirtuous people knew its small place; They all have the ways of the ancient sages.

The master does not learn, but how can he always have a teacher? He learns from everyone anytime and anywhere, and anyone can be his teacher, so there is no fixed teacher. There are many records in the Analects, such as Confucius's entry into the Taimiao Temple, "asking everything about everything" ("The Analects of the Eight Hundred"); Zai Yu sleeps during the day, Confucius said:

I began with others, listened to their words and believed in their deeds; Now I am also in the people, listening to their words and watching their deeds. Yu Yu and change is. Zigong said to Confucius that Zigong himself could only "smell one and know two", but Yan Hui could "smell one and know ten".

Confucius said, "Fu Ruye." I am as good as you are.

The Analects of Gongyechang") embodies this spirit. Such a spirit and attitude is worth learning from.

The attitude and spirit of "choosing those who are good and following them, and changing those who are not good" also embodies an important principle of getting along with others. Pay attention to learning the strengths of others at any time, and take the shortcomings of others as a warning at any time, so you will naturally look at the strengths of others, be kind to others, treat others leniently and be strict with yourself. This is not only the best way to cultivate and improve yourself, but also an important condition for promoting harmonious interpersonal relationships.

Although "threesome, there must be my teacher." "It's a household name, but people don't always do it. A common problem that people often make is that they tend to look at their own advantages and the shortcomings of others, and look at their own shortcomings and the advantages of others less; Or just look at your own merits and retreat Say that Na Barium is paradoxical and say that the bed is bad and the bed is bad, and the school is in trouble, and the school is in the middle of the day, and the school is in a bad place, and the school is in a bad place, and the school is in a bad place, and the school is in a bad place.

Therefore, revisit "Threesome, there must be my teacher." Choose those who are good and follow them, and change those who are not good. "It makes sense to take a deep sense of it and work hard to do it.

See the virtuous and think together, see the unvirtuous and introspect.

When we see good people, we have to absorb their strengths, even if they are flawed, we can get something from them - we are always self-reflective.

The Analects are short but have great truth, which has already been appreciated.