Life is a mess right now and it s really confusing,

It's been a long time, so let go of what should be let go. All good things are in the past. Studying is not a matter of determination, maybe the failure of the college entrance examination is due to the mentality has not been adjusted, but the university does not know how to work hard, you can't complain, if you study well, show everyone to see.

If you decide to go to graduate school, you should have a state of going to graduate school!

Emotional problems, just follow the fate, the forced will never be happy, and the ones that don't look at them just let you study hard! If you're really good, are you still worried that there are no boys around?

Don't be in a hurry to find a man, there are many good men, and of course don't look good.

I also have a shadow, I studied very well back then, but I went to secondary school, and now I work in general, not much money, and there is no way out, but people, always living in the past is not good, the sun rises every day, breaking up, unemployed, every day, everyone is growing up in pain, you also have to be strong, fate is changed by yourself, your efforts may not be effective now, but all kinds of efforts will not be in vain, there will be a harvest time.

**When I donated, I donated 200, others only 50, but I took 200 times 10 for the bonus that month, that is, 2000, everyone else is 50 times 10,500, no one knew about this in advance, I took out 200 when I was still saying that I was stupid, the result. This thing just wants to tell you that be yourself and that rewards will always come to you.

I'm also a three-book.,It's true that this is a bad fact.,And there are more unsatisfactory in life.,But life doesn't have to go on.,You are sure to take the postgraduate examination.,Just insist.,Don't think about anything else.,When you get in, you'll feel confident back.,Everything is good.,In fact, there are still a lot of cattle in the three books.,You come on to become a master in the three books.。

In this fast-paced social life, many people run around for work, suffer from mental stress, and over time, they become physically and mentally exhausted, and even cause diseases. Therefore, it is recommended to exercise for 3-4 hours a week to speed up your body's metabolism and have a full mental state. So I basically go to the gym, sometimes it's annoying, so I work out to eliminate the mental fatigue.

When you encounter something very annoying, you must be calm, calm down and think about how to solve things, don't think about it, the more you think about it, the more chaotic your mood is, if you can't calm down, go out for a walk and visit the park. Chat in the supermarket or in a crowded place, relax, slow down your pressure, if it still doesn't work, just take a trip to go, adapt to a different environment, and make yourself cheerful is also a good choice.

I think I can learn to make trade-offs. A lot of people's troubles come from their own excessive greed, and if they want to use more, they need to pay more effort, but a person's energy is very limited, and when they can't meet their expectations, they will produce frustration and cause irritability. I used to think that everything was more annoying, but then I adjusted myself, learned to make trade-offs, and slowly got better.

There are not too many troubles in this world, and the root of it lies in how you see it, and you have to learn to be happy in suffering. You can choose to listen to some light **, close your eyes, and imagine some beautiful natural scenery in your mind to calm down your mood quickly.

Psychological suggestion should be learned. Don't underestimate this method, some people think it's just a kind of self-comfort, but if you let yourself subconsciously accept it through constant hints, it can be very effective in relieving stress.

I have always felt that no matter how big the troubles are, if you can calm down, your brain will come out of a lot of inspiration, all the problems will be solved naturally, people's life, in fact, is very fast, even if you live to be a hundred years old, a few years later, when you think back to the events of decades ago, isn't it like yesterday? Therefore, we must treat ourselves well and live every day, so that people's lives can be valuable and meaningful.

Heavily in debt and in a mess of life, what should I do?

First of all, severe procrastination, no matter what you do, you have to put it off until the last minute, and then you start to blame yourself after procrastination; secondly, intermittent efforts, continuous lying flat, and a heart that wants to work hard, but the mobile phone in his hand has never been put down; Third, they are sensitive and their emotions are easily influenced by others; Finally, there is a bit of perfectionism, and the mind has an image of a perfect self, but the actual self is far from the self in the heart, and often does not like the real self.

How to save yourself from mental exhaustion? To accept your imperfect self, you can only look at yourself reasonably, accept your own shortcomings, and pay more attention to your own advantages; Change your undisciplined lifestyle, internal friction is to think too much, too little in a sense, so keep your life busy, and naturally there will be no internal friction; Finally, you have to allow others to hate themselves, what others think of you really doesn't matter, they don't see all about you, so their comments don't matter at all, even if they hate you, what does it have to do with you.

Ordinary people's lives are a mess, good, smooth sailing is there, relatively few, not so smooth, as the saying goes, life is a fly in the ointment, good things are more than magic, so the life of ordinary people is almost the same, don't always think that you are the worst, and everyone else, especially the current epidemic, are almost the same!

There can be many reasons why your life is a mess, and here are some of the possible reasons:

1.Lack of good time management and organizational skills: Failure to organize time reasonably and lack the ability to organize and plan can lead to a chaotic and disorderly life.

2.Lack of self-discipline and rules: Without establishing one's own rules and habits of self-discipline, it is easy to fall into a disorderly and chaotic state of life.

3.Lack of purpose and motivation: Without a clear purpose and motivation in life, it is easy to lose direction and self-control, leading to chaos in life.

4.Emotional problems: Mood swings, emotional instability, and being easily disturbed and influenced by the outside world can also lead to chaos in life.

5.Environmental problems: A bad living environment, such as a noisy living environment, a chaotic working environment, etc., can also cause chaos in life.

In short, filial piety and a messy life may be caused by a variety of factors, and it is necessary to improve the living state through good time management and organizational skills, self-discipline and rules, clear life goals and motivation, emotional regulation ability, and improvement of the living environment, so as to make life more orderly and regular.

Sometimes we get caught in a situation where we put off important things and prioritize urgent things in this fast-paced era where things can't be done or don't work out. This may be because we are not allocating time and priorities correctly.

At the same time, we often encounter some problems that we feel we cannot solve, and think that they are caused by insufficient ability. In fact, the problem itself is not unsolvable, but because our capabilities are not enough. When we continue to improve our abilities, the problem of burying the clan that originally bothered us will gradually be solved.

Think about a question that was very difficult for you five or ten years ago, is it a problem for you now? Many problems become easier to solve as the ability increases.

In addition, our perception of things and our response to stress can also lead to problems. In fact, it's not the things themselves that make us feel insecure, it's our reactions to things that make us feel insecure. Therefore, this is the pressure and liquid brightness problem that plague us with the mold width.