First love, crush, a girl for 10 years, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-04
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    These ten years are the most precious years of life, and it is really a big regret in life if the most innocent ten years are wasted!

    My advice: never give up unless she is married, unless your heart is also dead.

    She is now an adult, and you have to do everything you can to achieve your goal, although the theme of life is not love. Think about how important these ten years have been to you and the impact you will have on your life in the future!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In my words, let's do it hard! There is 200% effort to pursue her, caring, loving, romantic, selfless, brave,,, you will work hard! Suddenly, when you chase her down, you find that you have changed many, many bad things from before.

    I've been chasing for four years, and we're together now. Hee-hee.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1 Continue to chase --- rejection--- chase --- rejection again--- last time you, I love you --- refuse. --I'm not alive anymore...

    2. Develop yourself well, and you will have a strong charm in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Oh, I personally think you should let go, the twisted melon is not sweet, rather than painfully follow, it is better to keep this beauty in the bottom of your heart, find someone to love, live your life in peace, this is the happiest thing in the world...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you should ask yourself first, have you been in love with her for so long or are you in a spiritual relationship with yourself, some people say that the crush in first love is actually a love affair between yourself and yourself. The two relationships you had during your period were looking for the shadow of this woman in other girls, maybe because you liked her very much, or because "it's best if you can't get it".

    If it's the first type, the woman doesn't like you, and it's good for you and her to let go of this feeling, if it's the second type.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't worry about it, I have a crush on a female classmate for 15 years, and I haven't been in a relationship for 15 years, until we got in touch 3 days ago, and he's still in school, has a boyfriend, and lives together, but I still think about him, and said that at the end of this year, she came back from vacation and we'll meet She happily agreed, I don't know what to do now, but I'm willing to tolerate everything about her, it depends on what she thinks, and I don't know how to impress her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's the same as the end of the world! The difference is that our high school is still in the same school.

    The person I like is now ready to get married, I don't know who the man is, I only know that I know, I didn't inquire, and then I guessed a person, I think this person is quite honest, and I feel very relieved. A friend once said to me: If you are destined not to fall in love, either unrequited love or let go, don't entangle.

    They are our angels! I thought, since it is destined that angels and ants cannot fall in love with each other, then leave her stage and watch her performance silently. Hope she is happy!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't force it...

    It is advisable to give up, and giving up is also a kind of happiness.

    There are some things that you have to experience before you understand, sometimes it is easy to get, but it is too difficult to stay together, so I advise you to let go, sometimes you can't let go because you don't get it, if you get it and don't know how to cherish it, then it's hateful.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Try to put it down. Maybe you just like the feeling of first love, or maybe you just want to get and fulfill a wish? Find someone who likes you or you like it a little, and fall in love for once. Come on.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Actually, you can let go, even if you can't let go, you can continue to take care of her as a friend, so that you will be happy and open up to other girls, you can try it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, it's very simple, if you really like it, go for it, two times not three times, three times not four times. Very few people can still say no in the end, if you don't give up, of course. Bless you all

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Confess it again, give up if it's still like that, go to a place where you don't have her, cut off all contact, and time will change your mind.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That is, there is no feeling for you, nothing can not be let go, time can dilute everything! I'm sure you'll find the right person for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After all these years, I think she really doesn't have feelings for you, brother, don't hang yourself from a tree.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Say it out loud, because you never know, tomorrow or the unexpected, which will come first!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Keep chasing and see her attitude, but it looks like it's out of play.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Giving up on putting time can dilute everything.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Impress her with your sincerity.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's best to come out slowly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think if you have a crush on someone for ten years and the other party doesn't accept it, let alone the other party doesn't know about it. It's time to give up, it's really time to give up.

    First, as the saying goes, time can dilute everything, and it can be done, but it should be combined with the second point. After a long time, it will naturally fade away.

    Second, find a girlfriend, because the space in everyone's heart is limited. Before, your space was occupied by her, and you try to find a girl to replace her. When you are with this new girl, your heart will gradually fill up with this new girl.

    Third, shift your focus and devote your energy to your career. A person's energy is also limited, when you are busy with work, you will have no time to think about her, and sometimes it will naturally fade over time.

    Fourth, don't let yourself have too much lonely time and talk to your friends.

    Brother, just try it. I used to be very obsessed with a girl, in a word, it is very reasonable, there is no grass at the end of the world, in fact, there are many better and more suitable girls out there. This is true, as long as you have a sincere heart, you will meet better girls.

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Your supplement is completely unnecessary, it's easy to get rid of that girl, just ignore everything about her. If the other party continues to pester, you can call the police (definitely not a joke).