Love on one side, career on the other! What should I choose?

This is really difficult to choose, if you love her more than your own career, then give up your career and choose to be with her, two people can work together, if it doesn't get to that point, choose your career, but now true love in this society is rare, maybe when your career is successful, it will be difficult to find the kind of pure love you used to have, so you should think clearly when you make a choice...

If there is a conflict between career and love, you have to analyze which is your favorite, love or career, and sometimes they will also wear a disguise. If you can cut through the fog, you can decide where you want to go. If you can't see clearly, choose a career.

Choose love. Don't be fooled by money, people who live with money will be very hard, people who live for love will be very sweet, even if it is bitter, life must be conscious, to yourself.

career, can you still enjoy such a luxury as love???

If the love is strong, the other party will understand your career and everything else, but if you choose, I hope you choose your career first.

As long as you handle it well, love and career can also be a double harvest, the key depends on which side the balance in your heart tilts a little more.

Or the career is more real, it won't betray you!

Men count careers, women love.

It seems that for this feeling, I have lost a lot, lost the college entrance examination, missed my ideal university, lost my best job, and lost my ......

That's it, five years are coming, and I don't know what to do.

I suddenly found out that he was not what I imagined, he was very picky, very fine, and he didn't agree to anything as long as it came to money.

When he was in love, he said that the two of us are not legally married yet, what I have has nothing to do with you, and my money has nothing to do with you. After falling in love, he said that my money has nothing to do with you before marriage, and after marriage, I can give you flowers if I want to, and I don't want to give you flowers, this is my right.

In fact, for a person who regards love as everything, all that is needed is your attitude towards me, not your drawing a line with me.

Five years of long-distance military love, who doesn't want the two to be in the same city five years later, like other couples, talking about sweet love.

However, I am now suddenly afraid of the day coming, for me, who quit my job and came back to wait for you to be discharged from the army, I have simply lived my married life in these two months, you have become the iron rooster who does not pull out a hair, and I have become the resentful woman who is dissatisfied with your everything, I want to escape from this life, I don't want tragedy to happen.

There is a rule between us that whoever once their lies are exposed will be fined 100 dollars, as was promised.

But once his lying was exposed by me, he denied it in every possible way, no matter what I did, he just refused to fine the hundred dollars, sometimes I wonder if Zhaolu, a boyfriend who values money more than me, is there any point in continuing?

I have a job now, but I need to make a decision this week, but he will be back at the end of this month, and if I continue to stay and wait for him to retire from the army, I can imagine what will happen in the future, and then I will not only lose love, but also lose the job of making myself eat.

If you were faced with this situation, what choices would you make?

The average human mind is:

As a man. Career-oriented. Love wants to put aside. "It's a fish and a bear's paw".

But there is no love on the way to pursue a career? What kind of life and situation would that ?.. be

But once you have love, you can't devote yourself wholeheartedly to the cause. At this point, the two contradict each other.

Can't you have it together?

But what has been mentioned above is only a one-sided factor for the man himself. I often don't think about my other half.

On the road of career and love. It can be very smooth. It's the best of both worlds.

But the key is whether you are willing to give yourself a complete and relaxed mind with your lover.

That is, to be able to devote yourself wholeheartedly to your career. It is not difficult for both parties to feel the beauty of love again.

The main thing is how two people should approach life.!

I think career is just as important as love. First of all, any family must have material conditions, although I don't attach much importance to material conditions, but many families will divorce and other things because of economic conditions! So two people working will not quarrel over the matter of conditions.

Secondly, one person will think about a lot of things when they are at home, including many things they shouldn't think about, while the other person will feel very tired and stressed. Finally, I want to talk about a family, I think it is necessary for two people to work together, whether it is at home or in other aspects, to work together, explain the reason to him, I think if he really loves you, he should respect your choice! So if you don't have a career, for love, it's equivalent to going to the grave quickly, even if a woman likes a man who doesn't have a career!

Parents, relatives and friends will not agree! And you have to live, you don't have a certain career, do you talk about love? Are you happy with each other?

If we can all endure hardships, then we can create a career together. This society is becoming more and more realistic, love and bread, I chose bread, with bread, you can enjoy love. And without love, you will feel lonely for no matter how successful your career is, and the two go hand in hand, which is the most perfect life.

Reality is reality after all, and any relationship needs money to sustain it... If you are rich enough, you can love it! If I don't have money now, I think it's better to fight for my career and survival!

Give up love first! Don't waste time, if you really love, if you do it well in the future, come and find love again, tell him, and compensate him for the share of heart that he lost before in the best way. I don't think any relationship can be fruitless, it's just a question of whether that result is what you want, I don't think you really love someone and don't care about that, right?

But everything has to be prioritized, right? What to do first! What to do again, the way that ends well, isn't it?

Maybe you may be bitter for a short time, but for the sake of sweetness in the future, what is bitterness? What's more, there is only one point of youth, and the most important thing is to shrink 60 years of suffering into 6 years! Isn't it?

Whether a man or a woman I don't have the conditions to be in love, or bear with it and tell him, I'm trying to fight for our future, can you share the weal and woe with me? If you can, it means that she is the person you are looking for, and if you can't, you can only say that you are still there.

Didn't find which one you were looking for ... Stick to your career choice! May everyone in the world find the ideal one, and may friends and lovers eventually become dependents...

For those who have a good harvest in love and career, it should be especially enviable. But in real life, most of the time, you can't have it both ways, just like love and career. If I had to make a choice, I would choose a career.

Although many people say that as a girl, you don't need to work so hard to find a good partner in the future, so that you will be very happy in your life in the future. Being a housewife at home, husband and children, is what a girl should pursue in her life. But that kind of rotten thinking no longer works in modern times, and equality between men and women is the mainstream, so don't think that girls should stay at home and be virtuous wives.

But I always think that as a woman, we have the right to pursue our dreams, and we should not give up the life we want to pursue for love, so that we will regret it in the future. A girl can also be very successful and attract the attention of thousands of people. A woman should not focus all her life on her family, so that life feels meaningless.

Since I was a child, I have been particularly envious of those strong women who have been successful in their careers, and I want to be a successful lady like them.

And love is not long-lasting, all love will eventually evolve into family affection in the end, and love is not the whole of life, you can imagine, love can feed you, it is just an emotion, it is an ethereal thing, you can't grasp it, maybe one day it will cease to exist in your life, but the career is different, it can bring you honor, bring security, and can also make you good enough.

Love or career, which will you choose?

I'm a typical person who gives up my career because of love, no matter what my life is like now, if I had to go back and make a choice at that time, I think I would definitely still choose love. Because I'm not very ambitious. People who are not very ambitious are easily affected by love and family at work, and sometimes it can have serious consequences, although I have been very serious at work, but I think that it is because love and family are more wishful, and nothing big happens, not that I will not be disturbed.

If you can have both, it's best not to make a choice, it's not easy for everyone to run a career and a love, and it is a cruel thing to let them make a choice in it, I don't think people who choose a career to give up love are more realistic and utilitarian, I think the reason why they choose it is because they have poured too much effort and sweat into it, compared with the heart, it may be more difficult to give up than love, love is not everyone will be like me, The more accomplished people who live and understand their own value may not be biased towards love when choosing, but those who have nothing to do and do not achieve well at work will often choose love, because it is necessary to rely on the loyalty of love to fill the regret and paleness of the unsuccessful career in their hearts.

When I had to make a choice, it seemed to others that the position and salary might be okay, but in my heart, it wasn't the company I always wanted to stay in, and it didn't have enough strength and charm to keep my heart, so I didn't have a real sense of accomplishment in the workplace. It is easier for some to give up. Sometimes career and love don't really need to give up anything, follow your inner voice, as long as you don't regret it.

I am a person who believes in love, but I am a person who believes in myself more. Love is two people, and career is one person. I have always felt that good love is based on bread and career as accumulation.

The beautiful stories of princesses and princes in the world also need to be fulfilled by abundant living conditions. Everyone has their own things to accomplish, and if I had to choose, I would choose my career.

Career will bring more and more beauty to a person, you will realize self-worth, will enhance self-worth, and will win your unexpected care, respect and admiration in your career. We are one person first, and then two people. In fact, there is no comparison between love and career, and there is no choice between the two.

Another reason why I chose my career is that I don't think two people who are in love alone will last long. Love requires mutual forbearance, understanding and love. But often once there is no economic foundation, we can't do anything, there will be more and more contradictions, complaints will become more and more frequent, and love can't go far without the support of a career.

I'm such a person, I look forward to both of them having their own careers, being able to let go of their dreams, and living as they like. In this way, I can be regarded as making people's lives wonderful. I don't want two people to complain about each other in love, and I don't want to understand nothing.

I won't do anything, and I don't want people to dislike me all over my face. Only a career can make you energetic, make you positive, and make you still have a vision and momentum despite everything. These are the reasons why I chose my career.

As a girl, I must make a choice in career and love, I will choose career, this is just my own personal opinion, and it is not excluded that there are many girls who choose love, because she feels that love has it, bread or anything doesn't matter, isn't it often that people compare love and bread, do you choose bread or love.

As with this question, work and love are really just your own choices. My point of view is very clear, for love and work, I will choose work without any worries, only by doing your job well first, can you decide what kind of love you choose, at this time it belongs to you to choose love, not love to choose you.

Love is something that can't be touched and invisible, and there are too many uncertain factors, you don't know if this person is the person you will be with for a lifetime in the future, even if you arbitrarily decide now that he is the person you will be the one in the future, so what about so many people who will divorce after getting married, aren't they married because of love at that time?

Love and work are like a big investment in yourself, love really can't make you sure that your investment is a sure deal, you don't know what unforeseen factors will happen in front of you. But work is different, work is always a dead thing, no matter how you treat it, it is like that, if you work hard, then it will give you a reward, if you don't work hard, then there is no return, then this depends on yourself, what kind of life you want, what kind of effort you need to put in on you, how much to invest in.

A strong woman she will not choose love and then give up her career, everyone is an individual, everyone is independent, you can't say that you have been relying on the person who gives you love, the contradiction will come out after a long time, instead of wasting time on love, it is better to put time on work, improve yourself more, and earn more money yourself.