The marriage rate is getting lower and lower, why are boys reluctant to get married now?

Some are personal reasons, the current society is too realistic, men don't want to have too much pressure, women don't want to have too many constraints, so for marriage, everyone chooses to escape, can escape for a while is a moment, can be chic day is a day mentality, and another reason is that the Internet era is too developed, young men and women spend most of their time playing mobile phones and surfing the Internet, in addition to work is to play mobile phones, resulting in less and less time for them, completely insufficient, so their lives are very fulfilling, When there is little emptiness in the heart, so you don't want to be accompanied by others, and at the same time, you can't squeeze out much time to meet, which leads to the possibility of men and women falling in love is much lower than before, so many men and women are always single, and part of it is because the ratio of men and women is serious now, a large part of the girls are anchors, Internet celebrities or self-a**, and rarely enter the factory to work, and this kind of occupation, in real life, the contact with the public is relatively small, the social circle is not large, and many men enter the factory to work, I was going to bubble my sister, but I could only tease the old aunt in the factory, which reduced the possibility of men and women falling in love, and the other part was in love, but because I didn't have any savings in my hand, there was no mine at home, and the wedding bride price was high, and the price of marriage was too great, so I used it""Drag"Word decision, with the mentality that it can be delayed for a year is a year, you have to get by.

In fact, the serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women is not the main reason for the direct cause of the singleness of men and women now, most of the singles of men may have something to do with this, but now women are also single, and it has nothing to do with this, as for why, women's minds, I can't speculate, after all, I am only a single man born in the 90s.

I think there are two important reasons. First, most of today's women want to be in the wrong, pursue enjoyment, have advanced consumption intentions, derail from the actual standard of living, and set the threshold for marriage too high, thinking that marriage must lead a healthy life. But on the contrary, most people just make a living.

If you want to meet the marriage requirements, you have to be in debt, which is what you call a low marriage rate. The second is that it is difficult to make money in society, and it is very small to make a lot of money, and it is good to be self-sufficient. It is all self-aware people who have difficulty coping with high consumption, which is an important reason why they have a headache in order to get married.

There are many reasons why boys are reluctant to get married, many boys are due to too much economic pressure, and their jobs are not stable, so they have no sense of security at first, and if there is no help from their parents, the mortgage and car loan cannot be solved, so they are afraid that they will be difficult to protect, and if they have children, they will not be able to give their children more advantageous conditions, so they will give up marriage.

The cost of living has increased by 600% and people's happiness has dropped by 30%. What's more, more and more young people think that being single will not make their cost of living go down, but that they will after getting married. This has led to an increasing number of young people who are afraid of marriage and pregnancy, most notably in economically developed cities and young people with higher educational qualifications.

The result will be a series of national-level problems such as China's aging before it gets rich, and its population is plummeting.

Not to mention that men don't want to get married, more and more women don't want to get married either. The pressure is high, the ratio of men and women is out of balance, and the marriage customs that are becoming more and more tasteful, such as bride price, house, etc., are overwhelming, and there are also problems of raising children, education, and providing for the elderly after marriage. These are all problems that must be faced.

When you're on the verge of collapse, you really don't understand why you're getting married, you're so tired of yourself, you don't know what fun and interest are? Isn't it fragrant to be alone, have a job, love yourself, be self-sufficient, travel occasionally, improve yourself, learn a musical instrument, and take a certificate? If you make money and enjoy it, why not?

Why do you put yourself in a besieged city?

Married life is stressful, and there is no one to live on their own, which is the main reason why boys are reluctant to get married. It's okay if the person you're looking for is satisfied, but it's better to live on your own if the object you're looking for is not good.

The main reason is that the pressure on men is increasing, and the ratio of men and women is unbalanced, which has led to changes in the mentality of women now, and the requirements for men are getting higher and higher.

used to be married for a lifetime, but now the divorce rate is so high, ordinary families have to toss more than half of the family when they get married, and the parents are saved between their teeth.

Life is stressful. It's hard to find a job. Low wages.

It's hard to get along after getting married.

And the cost is high.

Boys are stressed.

I don't want to get married.

Lack of responsibility, lack of national righteousness, just for personal pleasure!

I don't know if the subject's ** on this question is out of gossip or out of the premise of wanting to understand it deeply.

If it's gossip, then ask a question first:

How do you come to the conclusion that "boys nowadays don't want to get married"?

Why am I reluctant to get married, this is my situation.

One, there are many failures, and there is no enthusiasm.

To say that you don't want to get married is false. Seeing others in pairs, I still have some envy, and I also hope that there will be someone together.

Every time I put a lot of time and effort into it, I failed, and now I start to doubt that I can still get married.

Second, the inferiority complex in the heart.

When I just graduated, with a salary of 2,000, I always felt that 18,000 yuan was a small amount of money.

Now that I'm older, I'm no longer tempered by reality, I've lost my ambitions, and there's no light in my eyes. Looking at such a pitiful salary every day, I feel that it is difficult to support myself, and I have the courage to get married.

Now even if you meet a girl you like, you don't dare to pursue it boldly, for fear of rejection, and for fear that you are not able to take on family responsibilities.

It's still single to save money, nibble on steamed buns, eat a bowl of instant noodles, and the day can pass.

I feel that I have achieved nothing, my income is not high, I have no house or car, not only do I hate it by others, but I hate it.

Third, get used to being single and ascend to this life.

After so many years of being single, I have long been accustomed to living alone. In addition to going to work every day, I basically stay at home, and I usually don't like to talk or communicate with others. It's nice to be alone and quiet.

Once you get married, what you face every day is the woman's chattering and non-stop, and sometimes it's terrible to think about this kind of noisy and unbridled life.

I'm used to being single, it's hard to get along with others, and I don't know how to get along with girls. It's difficult to even communicate, let alone coax girls to be happy.

For my introverted personality. Chasing girls is much more difficult than taking exams.

There is a high probability that no one will want this kind of honest person, this kind of person is very boring, not the type that girls like, so it's good to be alone.

It's not surprising that you change the male character to the female character, and the question is also valid.

I believe that there are many boys around us, who have never been in love or married. Actually, many people know about it.

As boys, they are very eager for love. Because love is happy, it is very beautiful, especially when we meet someone we like, then many boys will be very positive, and they will be very active. They will care for each other with their hearts and love each other.

Because they hope that through their care and love, they can be with the person they like, and they will also be able to have happiness and sweet love.

But we see that there are a lot of boys now. None of them are in love. I don't want to get married. So some people just wonder why there are so many boys now, they don't fall in love and they don't get married.

First of all, because there are many girls now, they are very argumentative of reality, especially in love. They always have all kinds of very high demands on boys, and they demand good families and good jobs. Even when boys and girls are together, they also require boys to be very attentive to the girls.

If the boy can't do this or doesn't treat the girl very well, then the girl definitely doesn't want to be with the boy. So we see that although there are a lot of them. Boys want to be with girls, but because they can't meet or can't meet the girl's requirements and conditions.

So they can only choose to be single.

Of course, we also see that there are some defeated boys because they don't have a good job yet, they know that they are not so good, so they hope that they can put more time and energy into trying to improve themselves, so we see that they are very serious about studying and working hard. Because they hope that through this, they can make themselves better, and ultimately they will be able to have a better future.

So we do see a lot of guys around us who don't fall in love and don't get married. But in fact, for these boys, they also know that love is happy, and it is very beautiful.

So for these boys, if they want to have love, then they themselves have to work very hard first, because only if they work harder. In this way, they will be more excellent, and only when they are more excellent, so that they can find the right girl for themselves, so that the two can get along better together, and finally let the boy have a happy and beautiful love suitable for himself.

There are many reasons why modern young people are reluctant to get married, such as work pressure, housing pressure, life pressure, loan pressure, and support for the elderly.

With the development of the economy, although the standard of living is much higher, modern young people are facing unprecedented pressure, they dare not fall in love, and even their own survival is a problem, let alone dare to think about starting a family. If you have money, no one wants to be single, which is caused by many pressures.

In the past, the carriage and horses were very slow, the mail was very slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime. However, modern love comes and goes quickly!

The kinder party paid money and time, but in the end ended up with a "no people and money", the risk cost of marriage has increased, and Qi Kuan has been consumed. Modern young people really don't dare to get married casually, unless they are really very rich and have always had the ability to support their families, otherwise they just raised their husbands (daughters-in-law) for others, and in the end, Gao Yunliang outweighed the loss, there are too many people who are spare tires!

Even if a person finds a second marriage, it is raising children for others, not biological children, no matter what, people will still find their biological parents when they grow up.

The previous marriage was very simple, a cow, a sheep, or even a dustpan of soybeans or a sack of sweet potatoes. Today's love, the three major pieces (house, car, ticket) are all indispensable. In the past, it was all about feelings, but now it's all about silver.

If you have less silver, you don't dare to get married, and if you have more silver, you will have confidence, which can be described as "drought and waterlogging".

Young people, without capital, really dare not step into marriage, just like some girls say: "Your little silver is not as expensive as my box of cosmetics!" ”

Although the young boy has a smile on his face, only he knows the pain and pain in his heart. Others are persuading you to get married, but in fact they can't help.

The garage bride price is introverted.

For most men, the economy must be a prerequisite for a young person to enter a marriage and the basis for building a new family.

Therefore, they hope to work hard for their careers when they are young, and only when they have a certain economic foundation will they dare to propose to the woman they love.

Of course, in addition to this reason, many men need to have a house of their own and a car, and if they do not have these material conditions, they do not have enough confidence to propose to the woman they love, so it is very financially stressful for young men.

Especially in some places where the bride price is more important, many men often worry about the bride price money, and even after marriage, they will continue to worry about the family's livelihood.

Putting aside the cost of the wedding for the time being, after marriage, not only will they worry about the miscellaneous trivialities of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but also after they have children, milk powder money and various expenses of early education classes will also follow.

If you can't prepare for all the unknowns in the future before marriage, then you will feel a headache for the word "money" after marriage, so this pressure will make men keep retreating, not daring to talk about "love" easily, let alone easily entering marriage.

Modern women are independent-minded.

Today's women are becoming more and more independent-minded, completely different from the young girls of the previous era, when women wanted to change their lives by marrying a good man and starting a good marriage.

And today's women choose to become the person they want to be in this era, and begin to work hard for their careers and dreams, they no longer "love brains", and no longer rely on marriage to spend their lives.

In other words, women nowadays are very "Buddhist", and even in the face of constant urging from their parents and relatives to marry, they still maintain their persistence.