What does it take to be successful? Give what you want first

Hard sweat, and hard work.

Hello, the meaning of pay, is to deliver and take out. Give your own things (including money, energy, favors, time, etc.) to others, or use them on others.

Often people who give want to be rewarded, and some people don't think about getting a return when they give. For example, love donations, anonymous donations, such as Comrade Lei Feng's good deeds and good deeds. In real life, there is often an inequality between giving and returning.

Some pay more and get less in return; Some pay less, but get a lot in return. After a lot of experience, people's hearts are often prone to imbalance. At this time, psychological adjustment is quite important.

Answer: Pay: Hand over (money or consideration). Such as: pay hard work.

Hello dear! Endless giving means giving all the time [smile].

Hello dear! A detailed explanation of the hentai that has been sorted out for you, oh kiss! Hentai stands for 1

There is no end; There is no end. 2.Buddhist.

It refers to non-action or non-phase. 3.Buddhist.

The explanation of paying without boundaries is to hand over, to pay the price to hand over (money or price): to pay cash and to pay for hard work. The explanation of the payment is to hand over, give:

Hello dear! So it's endless handing over [smile] is a very noble virtue, dear!

So what's the real effort? It is a giving that does not reciprocate. What is the real return?

It's an endless payoff. It is not something that is sought, it is something that is cultivated. Each of us can make merits, we can cultivate good fortune, and if we can achieve perfection, we can all become Buddhas.

We're always used to taking and forgetting to give first, you know? If you want to get something, you have to give it first.

One: Lighting the way for others is also for yourself.

There is an old story about a blind man walking in the dark of night with a lamp. A monk saw it and asked, "Why are you lighting the lamp?"

The blind man said, "If I don't light the lamp, the whole world will be blind." The monk said:

It turns out that you are lighting the lamp for someone else. The blind man said: No, I am for myself, so that others will not bump into me.

Two: If you want to get something, you should pay first.

There are always some people in this world who will blame children, why don't you like to read, how inconsiderate your lover is. But he doesn't like to read, and he scolds and only complains about his lover every day. If you want your child to read a book, parents must read the book first, and if you want to get praise, you must first pay praise, and if you want to get money, you must first pay money.

Three: To change oneself is to change others.

In the past, I was also an impatient person with children, and I often beat and scolded children because of homework, eating and other problems. Through reading, I began to learn to reflect on myself. Since the second half of 2019, I have been more patient with my children, listening, encouraging and trusting.

I didn't lose my temper with my child in 2020. The child's magical self is becoming less and less angry with me, and I am more and more relieved in my studies, and I know that all this is because of my own changes.

There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of those who have a heart. If you want to take it, you must give it first.