Should I share it with others, should I share it? Or should it not be shared?

In small talk, you can share your own happy experiences with others, and you can also get other people's happy experiences

In the same way, your experience can be exchanged for the lessons of others

When you tell others about shortcuts, they will also tell you how to avoid detours and don't look at the world too darkly

The world needs to communicate

I wonder if you have a bosom friend?

Are you and those around you always on the lookout?

The questions you ask show that you are quite dark

Reflect on this

Here I can tell you: there is no harm in sharing

It's harmless, I don't think you can necessarily learn from the experience shared by others!

We have heard so many successful experiences, and none of them have become Li Ka-shing!

Should! It should be!

It's the same with couples, but since I met a netizen online, I've felt a lot happier.

I recommend it to you, many students in the puppet class like her very much, and it is said that she has more than 1,000 friends!

Some things are more and more divided. There are some things that should never be shared!!

sophia8758 has a point!

There are many experiences, there are methods and skills for dealing with problems, and there are also know-how of how to gain experience, that is, "experience of gaining experience", the former is easy to describe and easy to imitate, but the latter is more difficult.

It seems that since I was very young, I have a problem of being a good teacher, and when I see a little good thing that makes sense, I want to share it with others, and I remember that when I was in primary and secondary school, I began to lie on the haystack at the edge of the village and tell other children the stories I saw in the book. When I grew up, I didn't see how to change this problem, sometimes it does make others gain, but more often the response is equivalent to no response.

Now I am gradually beginning to understand, think about it carefully, using my own not rich language to tell a truth summarized by others is destined to have no power, and it is already very face-saving for others not to give you white eyes.

In a previous lesson, the instructor also used another point of view to explain this problem, when a person has inner motivation but can't rush left and right, it is easy to appear on the outside: to guide others.

When the two aspects are combined, the answer naturally emerges: when you are not strong enough to influence others, suppress the urge to direct the country and focus on your own growth and action.

After a long time, the inner motivation will naturally have an external manifestation, and the people around you should also be imperceptibly affected, and there will no longer be a sense of powerlessness to communicate by language alone.

Of course, I don't think that loving to share is a bad thing, the right occasion, the right time, or to actively share, in the case of both parties are happy, maybe that sentence or that message can trigger others, so why not?

There are a lot of factors that can cause a person to be reluctant to share with others, and here are some possible reasons:

Social anxiety: Social anxiety is a common psychological disorder in which patients feel very uncomfortable and nervous in social situations and are afraid of being judged or rejected by others. In this case, people may avoid sharing their thoughts and feelings with others.

Low self-esteem: Low self-esteem is a common emotional problem in which patients feel that they are not good enough to be liked or accepted by others. In this case, people may avoid sharing their thoughts and feelings with others for fear of being ridiculed or denied by others.

Trust issues: Some people may distrust others because of their past experiences or personality traits, in which case they may avoid sharing their thoughts and feelings with others for fear of being betrayed or betrayed by others.

Privacy issues: Some people may consider their thoughts and feelings to be very private and reluctant to share them with others. In this case, they may choose to remain silent or only share with people who are very close to them.

Cultural differences: In some cultures, sharing one's thoughts and feelings is considered inappropriate or impolite. In such cases, people may avoid sharing their thoughts and experiences with others to avoid offending others.

As far as the observation of life is concerned, there are many people who like to share, many people love to share by nature, what they see and hear, what they like and what they don't like, they all love to post a circle of friends, everyone likes or leaves a message, exchanges feelings, and expresses opinions.

As for people who don't want to share, there are many such people around me, and there are probably several reasons for this.

2. Originally outgoing and love to share, but the feedback and interaction received after sharing is not what I want, and over time, sharing becomes meaningless, so I don't want to continue.

3. The mutation of the act of "sharing" itself. In the past, when online social networking was not as developed as it is now, people did not have much right to speak about people or things they didn't know much about, and most of the things they could share were more real. Now that the Internet has risen to the top and shared more, some performative personality people have created various "personalities" through the act of "sharing", and have gained a lot of social support or resource convenience.

But for things that are not real, there will always be a day when the paper will be pierced, and the paper will be torn too much, and some people who pursue the truth will no longer want to believe in "sharing".

The Chinese are very reserved and generous, they all follow Confucianism to make noisy friends and academics, and do not do to others what they do not want to do to others. Sharing more of oneself can leave a good impression, and letting others share more will leave a handle, which is not conducive to social life.