My boyfriend only comments on me in the circle of friends and doesn t take the initiative to send me

Updated on technology 2024-03-06
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you need to send him a message right away, don't you know it yourself? Could it be that the relationship between your boyfriend and girlfriend is all fake?

    Since they are already boyfriend and girlfriend, it is necessary to do something like the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, a normal boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, that is, you can send messages to each other anytime and anywhere, even if the other party is sleeping, or the other party is at work, or the other party is going to the toilet, you can send him a message at any time. The most important thing is that the other person may not get back to you right away, but he will get back to you eventually.

    Because the relationship between you is already boyfriend and girlfriend, that is to say, you are still one step away from getting married, and if you get married, the two of us will already have nothing to talk about, not to mention that you are in a state now. If you think or do this, I feel like you're still having a crush on each other, or two people don't seem to have the kind of relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend at all.

    Sometimes men also like some machismo.

    The so-called machismo is to hope that girls rely on each other more. You can be coquettish with him and ask him for help. I think even if he can't help you, he's very happy.

    Help you find a way to help you solve your problem. Although it may turn out to be a failure, at least there is such a process.

    Let's talk about me, even if I am not boyfriend and girlfriend with a friend of the opposite sex, someone else has sent a very interesting dynamic grasp, and I may immediately wait to reply to him, even if the other party replies to me, I will not necessarily reply to the other party, this is an ordinary friend relationship. But the circle of friends.

    I don't think I'm very presumptuous, because we've reached a very harmonious state of getting along, you can not reply to me, I can not reply to you, but sometimes I can reply to you, you can reply to me. This is a kind of balance between two people together, you are already boyfriend and girlfriend, is there no such tacit understanding, there is no such balance?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's also okay to take the initiative to message him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First, he probably likes itSome people do this not because of their attitude towards you, or because he is used to this, maybe he is not usually a person who doesn't like to talk, but there may really not be so many topics to talk about between two people, so he interacts with you in your circle of friends.

    It's also a way to communicate, at least to let you know that there is such a person, so some people may really have no purpose in doing this, just because of their habits, they are not only to you, but also to others.

    Second, the net salvage type. This kind of man is very dangerous, they generally have a purpose for you like this, of course, he is not only like this to you, but also to other people, this kind of man only needs to see who has published a circle of friends who can make himself play, and then he will give you a comment below, if who replies first, then they may not just comment as simple, and slowly chat with each other.

    The purpose of these men is generally not very simple, most of them belong to the kind of people with ulterior motives, if you reply in time, maybe you will also fall for their tricks, so this kind of man is actually very dangerous.

    Third, the secret crush type. There are many men who are actually very shy, and may not be very good at expressing their emotions, although they like you in their hearts, they may not even have the courage to take the initiative to chat with you, let alone confess.

    So these men can only use their own way to show you their favor, that is, to like or comment on you in your circle of friends to deepen your impression of them, maybe your simple reply can make them happy for a long time. It's better to encourage such boys more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This situation means that this boy does not have you in his heart, and he must have received news from you, but he just doesn't reply to this proves that he doesn't like you.

    He may also be tactful to tell you that it is almost an impossible situation between you, so I advise you to give up this person, girl.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The boy you like doesn't reply to your message and sends it to Moments, which means that he has read your message, but he forgets that he didn't reply to you, and then he forgets the message, and then he will post it on Moments at will when he wants to post on Moments, which shows that he doesn't take you to heart at all, so he won't care about your messages, whether he has replied to such a boy, or give up, because he doesn't like you at all.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The first is that he doesn't want to reply to your message at all, and the second situation is that he didn't see your message, he didn't know that you had a message to him, and then he deliberately did it, that is, he saw your message, but he deliberately didn't reply to you, and then went to the circle of friends, he wanted to give you a hint, or the possibility of being angry.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, it should be that he doesn't like you. You messaged him, so he posted on Moments to show it off. It's just his capital to show off, he doesn't like you and doesn't care about you, so don't message anymore.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe you are currently in a state of unrequited love, and the other party's attitude towards you is still an ordinary friend, or it may be a coincidence that he happened to collide with your message in the circle of friends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If he doesn't reply to your message and send it to Moments. Then he must know the circle of friends you can see. What he probably means is that he doesn't want to pay attention to you. He didn't want to pretend that he didn't see it. He saw it, but he simply didn't want to reply to your message.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It shows that he doesn't care about you very much and doesn't really want to reply to you, and he thinks it's better to post a circle of friends when he has time to reply to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He doesn't reply to this, you go to the circle of friends to prove that he doesn't like you, that is to say, if this is the case, you don't look for him, he just ignores your existence, he can send a circle of friends, but he doesn't have time to reply to your messages, what are you looking for him to do with such a boyfriend?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, if that's the case, think more about the guy doesn't like you, so he doesn't want to reply to your messages.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, he may not really want to deal with you. Second, he may have clicked on your chat box but was thinking about how to reply to you, and then forgot that he didn't reply to you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It shows that he doesn't like you, thinks you're pestering, wants you to retreat, don't keep pestering him, and just treats you as someone he knows, just an ordinary friend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It shows that he is now insensitive to you, and he is also blind to the messages you send, because you are not the person he wants to reply, or he really didn't see it, or he wanted to wait for a reply but forgot it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think this guy has any interest in you at all, if the guy who really has a good impression of you, he won't send a circle of friends, he should take the initiative to contact you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He must have seen the message you sent, and if he doesn't reply, it may be that your question makes him unable to do so, and it is more likely that he doesn't want to deal with you, and it seems that your liking has not been responded to by the other party.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He may not be interesting to you, and then he doesn't want to go and delay you, so he simply ignores you and expresses it in a way that makes you feel that he doesn't like you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That proves that he didn't see your message, or that he just blocked you and didn't receive your message at all.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's a personal habit, some people don't send a circle of friends even if they are sure of the relationship, and if you send him a message, he will send a circle of friends may be a little interesting to you, and share it with others and your daily life.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This shows that this guy may not have the idea of falling in love with you, and it is not important to treat you as an ordinary friend.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    That's enough to show that this person doesn't want to talk to you and doesn't like you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A private message sent on your behalf that is difficult for him to accept. Because he has a girlfriend, he doesn't want his girlfriend to misunderstand, so he is public, and some show off how good he is, and there are girls who pursue him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It can only mean that the guy you like is not interested in you, so he doesn't reply to your message in time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think this guy is interested in you, if the boy has feelings for you, he will contact you first, and he won't post on Moments.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think if you don't reply to a message to a guy you like, you don't want to reply to you, or you may not see it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think it's because he thinks it's too boring, or because he doesn't know how to reply to you, after all, you like people.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think if he likes you, he will definitely get you back, or he just doesn't see it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You send a message to a boy you like, and he doesn't reply but posts it on Moments, I personally think it's a bit infuriating, and sometimes maybe you should ask what the situation is.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Recently, I've been getting some requests for help from fans, asking me, "What should I do if the guy I like doesn't reply to my messages?" My male god hasn't contacted me in days, what should I do?

    The boy had a hot chat with me two days ago, why did he ignore me in the past two days? Did I meet a scumbag again?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I don't think he responds to you, which means he doesn't like you at all, so I don't think you need to message him anymore.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    But if you don't take the initiative to chat with you, it means that this guy doesn't mean much to you, he just wants to be your ordinary friend, if this guy comments carefully on each of your circle of friends, and only comments on your circle of friends, it may indicate that he is interested in you, but if he doesn't take the initiative to chat with you, it means that he is not ready, afraid that after chatting with you, your friendship will be broken, and the relationship will not develop.

    It's a relatively good thing. If you have some interest in this guy, you may wish to boldly take a step forward so that the relationship between the two of you may go further, pay attention to the way you speak, and don't be too generous.

    Of course, there are also some boys, his character is naturally more cowardly and timid, he hopes to contact a girl, especially when he likes the object, from the circle of friends, maybe it will be better, slowly pay attention to what kind of character the other party is? What do you like? Eating, drinking, and having fun, etc., he will comment, understand, and then try to see if the two of you can play together, and then he will slowly make some moves.

    When you meet a guy like this, if you're interested in her, it's good to wait slowly.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    He may just think what you're posting is interesting and doesn't mean anything else.

    Tip: As long as the other person doesn't make it clear, don't pay too much attention to it. Don't fall in love with the brain, the wise don't fall in love, enjoy life like crazy, and focus on yourself is the password of life!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    That shows that this boy just treats girls as ordinary friends and doesn't have the idea of getting closer, so he keeps a certain distance.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    He's afraid to disturb you, and he doesn't know what to talk to you about. Some boys only dare to comment on your circle of friends and do not take the initiative to chat with you, it may be because he is more introverted and doesn't know what to talk to you about. So he didn't dare to speak casually, for fear of disturbing you, or for fear that you would leave a bad impression on him.

    Guys like your performance.

    In daily life, refresh to your circle of friends, and you will like or comment for the first time, silently telling you: he has always been, past, present and future. Care and affection are not in a separate chat dialog, but are presented elsewhere, because the deliberate chat is slightly awkward and abrupt, time-limited, and emotionally leaking, and it is difficult to maintain a perfect sweetness.

    A man does not take the initiative to contact you, but maintains close contact with you in another way, which can show his good intentions. The man who has you in his heart, although he is not entangled in WeChat chats, constantly brushes his presence in your circle of friends, in order to win a little chance of being twilighted.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    A guy only comments on your circle of friends, and doesn't take the initiative to chat with you, it's he who also pays attention to you all the time, but he doesn't know what to talk to you. In his heart, he still has some feelings for you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Maybe this guy is more shy, or maybe this guy is shy, so he doesn't know how to chat with you, so it's a relatively normal reaction.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    He may just be more concerned about other people's circle of friends.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It may be a deliberate attempt to make you angry.

    When it comes to the best way for lovers to get along, the most popular phrase recently is "comfortable together", which is not unreasonable, but how to get along will make each other feel comfortable, and this side seems to be a little wider.

    Moreover, this comfortable atmosphere may also be temporary, or even deliberately created as an illusion. For example, the feeling of mutual appreciation and love between lovers in the fresh period is temporary and does not retain value.

    In addition, one party is trying to please the other party for personal gain, or is unwilling to lose the other party, and deliberately pretends to be comfortable with the other party. In fact, I suppressed my grievances and dissatisfaction in my heart.

    This kind of seemingly comfortable relationship is actually with some utilitarian colors in it. This kind of comfort may be due to the fact that one party wants to achieve its own goals, and gives up and sacrifices itself, and the comfortable atmosphere created will disappear sooner or later.

    I think that the best way for lovers to get along with each other is "I am at ease with you". A "rest assured" includes a lot of "trust" and "recognition" in it, in fact, it is the greatest reward and affirmation for lovers, and only the feelings that reassure each other will really last for a long time.

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