If I don t change jobs, I m going to be broken up, am I irresponsible?

After breaking up, I found that I was reluctant to save the other party, and I still wanted to save the other party, but I didn't know how to save it?

I believe many people don't understand what kind of mentality is needed in the recovery process. Because most people's first reaction after a breakup is to be restless, and then they will be cranky, and some even can't control their emotions, and will be angry or weak and kneel and lick. Such a mentality is quite unfavorable for recovery.

In the process of redemption, you have to have a strong belief that the separation between you is only temporary, and that she is not the best in your heart. You must understand that men and women are equal, although you are at fault, but it does not mean that all the faults are on you, you can admit and correct your own mistakes, but it does not mean that you can take all the faults on yourself.

Many students will have a question when they see this: Obviously, I love her very much, and I will only redeem her if I regard her as a true daughter, why do I want to treat her as not the best in my heart now? Well, if you take her too seriously, will you constantly expose your sense of need in the process of recovery, and it is easy to have emotional fluctuations because of her, thereby lowering your own value, which is very detrimental to your recovery.

Then, be sure to figure out the reasons for the breakup, not only to understand the fuse of the breakup, but also to know what the fundamental problem is between you. In this way, we can know ourselves and our opponents in the follow-up recovery, so as to win all battles. In the process of redemption, know that you are equal to each other, so that you can avoid too many inappropriate behaviors in the process of redemption.

The process of adjusting the mindset is very hard, but it is also very necessary and the most important thing, since you have decided to redeem it, then you need to pay 200% determination and perseverance, so that is the first step to success.

The mentor wrote some experiences and experiences in redeeming love in ***wanhuimiji. If you want to save true love, you can ***** the book "Saving the Standardized Process". There are many ways to redeem (the freezing rule, the three-three-three chat method, the puzzle theory), and how to get along with the object more harmoniously.

Why do you have to change jobs?

Of course not, but why should you do that?

Can't say that.

The main customer is not the original customer, even if it is worthy of the previous company.

Everyone has a dream of starting a business.

There is no doubt about moving forward for your dreams.

However, if you terminate the employment contract due to your own reasons, you need to notify the company in advance.

Usually such parents are either very selfish or not biological.

Try to endure it before the age of 18, but if you can't bear it, it's okay to go out and work quickly, have an income first, and at the same time find a righteous faith. Confess your mistakes and give them a piece of jade at will. Don't hate, take notes and collect all kinds of bad things for you, record good sounds, grasp good evidence, and be more sensible and choose the opportunity to rely on the law afterwards.

Such parents are rare, I don't know why?

Very insecure, chicken ribs, it is a pity to abandon it and eat tasteless. So it's better to be brave enough to give up and not let yourself be led by the nose all the time. After separation, it may be possible to reply to the situation of no sound again.

Think clearly, women always need a safe animal. A man who claims to be irresponsible wants you to be mentally prepared in advance, and it depends on whether you can bear it.

If you don't give up, if you give up, it's over on the spot; Don't cry, if you cry, you will only provoke others to sympathize with you, and when you want to cry, laugh; Don't resent, don't compare yourself with others, it doesn't matter how young you are, you have to pursue your ideal happiness; Don't get angry, you can't be angry with others, now my life is all my own responsibility.

Love is tired, you need to calm down, but this degree depends on how you grasp it, as long as you both really love each other, he will use his actions to make you understand in a short time, remember: it is yours will definitely give you, not yours you want and no. I wish you a speedy union with the person you love!

Feelings are all about oneself and oneself, and no one else gives you responsibility! If you don't see it clearly, it's called voluntary, and you can't blame others! Originally, feelings are selfless dedication, but in reality, they come together when they have a purpose for each other to get something, which is an exchange or deception!

When you try your best to be nice to you, you should put on your attitude, you just because your heart is too soft.

Leave him, let him go as far as he wants, don't let yourself be hurt.

Divide and waste, drag and waste your youth,

He can do this to you, and you can do this to him.

It's good to book a spare tire.

What to do if you meet an irresponsible man in your love life? Did you choose to give up in the first place?

I have been on this planet for more than 20 years, I have a home, but there is no love at home, I have parents, but my parents have no affection. Sometimes it's really scary, if even my parents don't care about me, then sooner or later the world will devour itself like a demon. Ever since I was a child, my father has never served me a dish, not even a wisp of sauerkraut overnight, or even a humble potato strip.

When I went to school thousands of miles away from home, my mother never called me once, sad or happy, saved or forgotten, and never asked. Once, I couldn't bear the doubts in my heart, and I hit the family once, and my father roared like thunder. Later, I told me that he was in a hurry, and I would hit this ** in half a year, are you in a hurry to live, or are you in a hurry to die?

When I was a child, I got into trouble with my playmates, watching other people's parents defend themselves, and all I could hear was the sound of pots and bowls breaking. watched other classmates chatting with my parents, and my parents didn't even bother to know my mobile phone number. No matter how well I studied in school, my parents always told me in every way, constantly reminding me that learning is my own business, and no matter what the end result, it is my own happiness or sin.

Later, I had inspirational teeth, the pain was unbearable, the doctor said that the gums were swollen and could not be extracted, and finally the gums did not hurt, and my father told me seriously, why do you have to extract teeth if the teeth don't hurt? Explained to me what is the perfect quality of not going to the hospital as long as people don't die. In fact, I also admire him very much, his inspirational tooth has been painful for more than 40 years, and he was willing to pull it out later.

When I was a child, I had a cold and phlegm in my mouth, so I covered the quilt and didn't dare to cough, because my father was upset, he said that it was not caused by a cold, and coughing was a bad habit learned from other people's children. He didn't want to admit that he had a cold, and if he had a cold, he had to take medicine, and if he took medicine, he had to spend money, so he deprived me of the right to cough. The reason for living is to cheer up, and sooner or later, there will be a world of your own.

They gave me life, they raised me, they sent me to school, and I had to pay it all off. From ancient times to the present, human feelings, which have lasted for thousands of years, have become a transaction to me, a trade in which one loses and who earns. My heart is as cold as this world, there is no love, no hate, but it is cold and white, cold to the bones, cold to the depths of my soul.

Giving birth to a child without the child's consent.

The material security of this life cannot be satisfied.

Why let children come into this world to suffer.

Everyone said that parents were selfless.

Having a child is a sign of selfishness.

The most selfish thing you can do in the world.

It is to know that this world is full of pain.

He only cares about his own child.

90% of the children of the poor are born poor for the rest of their lives.

What can be given to the child.

Why raw.

Even children of ordinary economic conditions.

It's not better to be born.

When it's time to graduate, you'll be urged to work.

to feed your parents.

Take care of them when you are old.

Only wealthy people are eligible to have children.

Only the children of the poor were wiped out.

Only the children of the rich could come down from the top floor of the pagoda.

Because no one is going to work at the bottom of society anymore.

The children of the rich have to do this.

In this way, society can become more and more balanced.

But at the end of the day.

Parents are irresponsible guys.

Know that the world is full of pain and deception.

It is also necessary to let children come to the world to suffer.

Even if it's good for the child.

All the pain you have brought to your child in this life is much more than your little love.

【r】Parents can assert their obligations through the law. A typical example is the maintenance of minors.

What responsibilities do parents have for their children? How old are your children?

You honor your parents and cultivate your own good fortune.

First of all, define what exactly is the explanation of irresponsibility that you are asking? Is it discarded and not nurtured, or is it not cared for and not cared for? There's a big difference here.

If it is not clear, any measure is ineffective, because the problem itself is not understood. It is advisable to further concretize the question before looking for the answer.

There is a bottom line on how to deal with it, at least you can't break the law and fail to fulfill your maintenance obligations as a child, and you have to provide for living expenses, birth, old age, sickness and death. The rest is up to you.

It is possible to sue for the performance of obligations.

Article 21 of the Marriage Law: Parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children; Children have an obligation to support their parents.

If the parents fail to fulfill the obligation to support them, the child who is a minor or who is unable to live independently has the right to demand maintenance from the parents.

In the event that a child fails to fulfill his or her maintenance obligations, the parent who is unable to work or who is in difficulty in living has the right to demand maintenance from the child.

Article 23: Parents have the right and duty to protect and educate their minor children. Parents are obliged to bear civil liability when their minor children cause damage to the state, the collective, or others.

Hello, not all parents are responsible, there are some irresponsible parents in this society. Therefore, if the children do not wake up, they will be harmed by these irresponsible people. First of all, you are lucky to see this side of your parents.

Since you know that they are such people, you are responsible for yourself. If students study hard, make a feasible plan for themselves, find a way to learn what they can't know, have time to read more useful books, exercise more, learn some beneficial life skills, and constantly enrich themselves. If you're already working, work hard to earn money, take the time to learn developmental skills, and connect with responsible, successful people.

Try to be self-reliant. Don't let your parents' irresponsibility stop you from your studies and future. As long as you work hard and have a sense of responsibility, your future will still be bright.

When your parents are old, no matter who they are, you still have to be a filial and responsible child, and you can do it to the best of your ability. Personal advice, thank you!

I can't answer this question, and I don't know how old the Ask Lord is this year, and I don't know how strong you are.

If you are still young, it is better to rely on their strength at home to study hard, and when you are older, you can rely on your own strength to go as far as possible, and it is better to settle abroad.

If they are not that strong or they are older now, then I would recommend treating them well, after all, your children will treat you the same way you treat your elders. The child will not know what happened to you before, but he will learn, and if you are not filial, he will never be filial to you.

First of all, what you said makes sense, but it's a bit one-sided, in fact, the poor have to have children, why? Because the rich need to exploit the poor in order to achieve the goal of getting rich, there is no rich man without the poor. You say that parents have children is irresponsible, this recognition, Chinese children are generally for their own old age has no support, this is definitely a very selfish performance.

In China's more traditional society, parents are generally conscientious, but less responsible.

If you really meet such parents, I hope you will communicate with your parents more, find out what the problem is, and then understand and tolerate it.

Think about being a parent, how can anyone be so ruthless.

Investigation and evidence collection, divorce, if necessary, please be private!

Let's see if he can turn back.

First of all, negotiate a solution.

Negotiation does not lead to litigation settlement.

Divorce procedures are sufficient.

Too lazy, irresponsible, and up to you.

You can communicate directly with him and make him understand his responsibilities as a man, and if that doesn't work, you can consider breaking up if you're not married.

You can sue for compensation and, if you give birth to a child, you can also ask the other party to pay for child support.

If the man is not responsible. It can only be negotiated and processed. For example, if the two of you are not married and you get pregnant without getting a marriage certificate.

Words like this. If you want to give birth to a child, the other party needs to take child support. Even if he doesn't want to be responsible.

It is also not possible, because the child is related to him by blood. So you can apply. If he still doesn't agree, you can too.

Enforce it, let him give you a certain amount of maintenance every month. And this cost must be covered. But if you want a different estimate, you can't.