How to correct your child s carelessness

The child is careless, you are guiding in the wrong way!

Careless children are always throwing things off the side when doing homework and homework, and they are also throwing things away in their daily lives, and they will inevitably make mistakes in exams and important things. So how should parents help their children get rid of careless habits and make them serious in life and learning?

1) Start by correcting bad habits.

Children who are careless in exams tend to be children who live informally and do not have good habits. Parents should start from the small things in life, pay attention to cultivating children's good habits, and even the placement of an item, the sorting of learning items, and the washing of hands before meals should be strict. Only by developing good living habits can we develop a rigorous academic attitude and good study habits.

Usually do homework, a data calculation, each step of the writing, must be careful and standardized; When organizing notes, every symbol should be standardized, and any words that are not sure of writing should be checked in the dictionary, and even the strokes should be standardized. Only in this way can you develop the habit of being careful.

2) Enhance the sense of responsibility.

There is often such a phenomenon in learning, some problems are very easy, according to Yu Ye's theory, there should never be mistakes, but careless people still make mistakes. On the contrary, some things are more difficult, and it stands to reason that there is a greater possibility of mistakes, but careless people do not make mistakes at this time. Why this anomaly?

Psychologists believe that people pay more attention to difficult problems psychologically, and the excitatory foci formed in the cerebral cortex are stronger, and they are less likely to be disturbed by other excitatory foci, so they are not prone to errors; On the contrary, the psychological attention to the easier problems is not paid much attention, and the excitatory foci formed in the cerebral cortex are relatively weak, and they are easily disturbed by other excitatory foci, so they are more prone to errors. Because of this, it is important to strengthen children's awareness of the importance of learning and increase their sense of responsibility. By doing this, children will not be careless about learning, which will help them overcome carelessness.

3) It is also important to maintain a moderate level of tension during the exam.

According to psychologist Tang Sen's research, the relationship between intellectual operation efficiency and emotional tension is an inverted "U" curve relationship, when the emotion is too nervous or not at all, the intellectual operation efficiency is the lowest; The efficiency of intellectual operations is highest when emotions are moderately intense.

Therefore, maintaining a moderate level of tension during study activities and exams is also an effective way to prevent carelessness from occurring. It can be seen that it is beneficial to keep children moderately nervous whenever they are studying or taking exams.

The methods of correcting careless problems include: developing good work and rest habits, reducing interference as much as possible, insisting on exercise, learning to self-examine, and strengthening sensory memory and detailed training.

1. Develop good habits of work and rest.

Developing a good routine is very helpful to improve the situation of carelessness, if a person continues to maintain a state of study and work, the quality of study and work will decline, and the thinking ability will also be weakened, resulting in reduced efficiency and a great increase in error rate.

Therefore, we must develop good work and rest habits, whether it is studying or working, we must give ourselves a certain amount of rest time to keep our minds clear.

2. Reduce the interference of large shelter belts as much as possible.

Many people are careless when studying and working because there are too many distractions around them, and in this case, we should try to minimize distractions. For example, parents should not talk to their children while they are doing their homework, let alone watching TV, and do not let their children do their homework while fiddling with things on the table. Only by reducing these distractions as much as possible can we concentrate more on things.

3. Keep exercising.

Consistent exercise is a great help to adjust your mindset and get rid of carelessness, and consistent exercise can make people feel calm. You can usually practice yoga or tai chi more, and then you can go for a jog outdoors, and try to find time to do these exercises every day, so that your mind will become more and more peaceful, and the careless situation will gradually improve.

4. Learn to self-examine.

Learning to self-check is also conducive to getting rid of carelessness and strengthening rigorous work habits. Any good habit of rolling reeds cannot be formed in a day or two, and it must be insisted on, so careless people must learn to self-examine, constantly supervise and encourage themselves, and slowly become more and more careful.

5. Strengthen the detailed training of sensory memory.

Some people's sensory memories are thick and do not like to pay attention to details, and when they are converted into short-term memories, they are prone to various disturbances, which can lead to carelessness. At this time, we must find ways to strengthen the training of sensory memory, such as looking at a figure first, and then trying to recall all the details of the figure.

The problem of carelessness in children should start from cultivating good living habits.

We found that if a child's room is a mess and his shoes are one in the west, his homework is often sloppy, the pages are untidy, and his work is lost.

Fourth, with interest, there is no order in observation, and there is no organization in thinking, showing the typical characteristics of sloppiness and carelessness. Therefore, starting from the small things in life, cultivating children's good living habits, and respecting the hall can reduce children's carelessness.

Common methods are: let children organize their wardrobes, drawers and rooms, and cultivate the habit of careful and organized; Let children arrange their spare time and review the manuscript table, and cultivate children's habits of planning and order; Change your child's personality by changing his behavioural habits. Over time, the child's sloppiness and carelessness will gradually decrease.

Cultivating a sense of responsibility:

The most fundamental reason for the child's carelessness is the lack of responsibility. A person with a strong sense of responsibility (including children) cannot be sloppy or careless in doing anything. Therefore, to correct the child's sloppy and careless habits, we must start from the cultivation of a sense of responsibility.

Because of his sense of responsibility, he is naturally able to treat everything carefully and cautiously and avoid sloppiness. Therefore, parents should be less arranged, less cared, and less reminded, so that children can handle their own affairs; Let children take on more housework and do more things within their ability to cultivate children's sense of responsibility.

Ways to get rid of your child's carelessness:

1. Develop the habit of keeping a diary: Careless children often don't like to record things. Parents can ask their children to write down what they want to do in a day, write down important and trivial things, so that children will subconsciously sort things out in their own minds, which will reduce carelessness.

2. Enhance the sense of responsibility: Parents should enhance their children's sense of responsibility through effective measures, and give their children more sense of responsibility. With a sense of responsibility, children will do things carefully and carefully.

3. Concentration: Parents can help their children develop a good habit of concentration in normal times. You can reward your child with items of interest to help develop concentration. When your child's attention starts to focus, it can be transferred to study and life.

4.Learn to check for yourself. Some parents are always afraid that their children will make mistakes and will not get high scores, so they check their children's homework every day. This makes the child develop a dependency mentality, and the wrong mother can check it out anyway, so the question is so-so.

Parents should not check their children's homework and let them develop the habit of self-examination. If he was wrong and didn't check it out, he failed. In this way, he can recognize the dangers of sloppiness. With the ability to self-test, sloppy problems can be overcome.

5.Let the child test the parents. Let the children test the parents, the children are very interested, and they will come up with some questions that are easy to make mistakes and test the parents. Parents are sloppy and let their children criticize, which is also a kind of education for children, and they will also prevent sloppiness when they do questions in the future.

Here's how to get your child off carelessness:

1.Let children make a plan before doing things, learn to prioritize before and then light, and make overall arrangements to help children get rid of carelessness.

2.Preparing a memo for your child and writing down important things that he may forget in a cheat book can help him get rid of carelessness.

3.Prepare a mistake book for your child, and write the mistakes in the mistake book to help the child get rid of carelessness.

4.Don't criticize your child's carelessness too much, but strengthen and encourage your child's carefulness to help your child get rid of carelessness.

5.Let children learn to check by themselves, do not need parents to do it on their behalf, and let children concentrate on doing one thing by themselves, which will help children get rid of carelessness.

6.Improve children's interest in learning, let children clarify the purpose of learning, strengthen learning responsibilities, and formulate learning systems for children, such as writing neatly, watching TV only after writing homework, don't let children learn tiredly, let children rest for half an hour, find careless points for children, let children explain by themselves, help deepen his memory, and help children get rid of carelessness.

7.The most fundamental reason for the child's carelessness is the lack of responsibility. With a sense of responsibility, he is naturally able to treat everything carefully and avoid sloppiness.