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Be gentle. It is often said that women are made of water, which means that women should be gentle. "Home and everything is prosperous", only a gentle woman can coordinate the whole family and make the life of the family better and better.
Therefore, as a woman, you must know how to be gentle, speak well when you encounter problems, don't be too impatient, express yourself objectively when you are wronged, and don't fight for it; When you encounter something that makes people dissatisfied, don't scold the street like a shrew, which also reflects the lack of quality in some aspects on the other hand.
Understand it. Be understanding when dealing with your boyfriend or husband. If there is any misunderstanding, communicate in time, don't get angry when you encounter a little thing, such as a man returning late for a party, don't scold too much, just remind appropriately, after all, it is not easy for a man to run around for his home outside.
Always smile. People who often smile on their lips are relatively young and often lucky. So, as a woman, you have to smile on your face often, smile at your husband often, smile at your children often, and you will find that they will smile at you as well; When you encounter difficulties, face them with a smile, solve them as soon as possible, and face them bravely if they are very difficult, and you can also ask for help to tide over them together.
Be patient. Patience can tell a person's concentration. As a woman, be patient.
In ordinary life, we must be patient to deal with the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea of life, to be patient to treat the naughtiness of children, and to be patient to deal with the husband's incomprehension, etc., patience will make a family more harmonious.
Know how to teach each other husband and children. In ordinary life, we should strive to maintain a close relationship with our husband, hold the hand of our son, grow old with our son, comfort my husband when he is in trouble, and do my best to reduce the burden of my husband, at least encourage my husband to bear it together. It is also necessary to educate children in appropriate ways, so that children can learn to be people, learn to do things, know how to respect others, get along with others, and help others.
Through husband and children, the whole family is happy.
Love to work. A good woman generally loves to work. It doesn't matter if you don't understand anything, it's important to be willing to learn.
Generally, men are running around for the family outside and are under great pressure, so women have to solve the trivial things of family life, such as cooking, sweeping the floor, sweeping clothes, etc., of course, not women should take care of everything, men also have to help when they are free, and the whole family is more prosperous because of mutual understanding.
Do not love vanity. Many men don't like vain women very much, and they like down-to-earth women. Therefore, as a good woman, you must live a down-to-earth life, don't compare clothes, jewelry, etc., you can consume appropriately if you have the conditions at home, if you don't do something that you regret in order to be in the limelight, there is no need, life is lived by yourself, not for others to see.
Having a happy family is more important than anything else.
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Text: Dawn, Emotion, Heart, Quotations.
If you are careful, there are complaints everywhereIf the heart is relaxed, it will always be springIf you want to care, no one person or one thing can satisfy you.
The most important thing for a person to live is the stability and peace of mind, why bother with yourself.
The heart is one inch wide, and the road is one foot wide. If it weren't for the heart as wide as the sea, how could there be a peaceful life?
Some things, whether we like it or not, have to happen.
Some townspeople, whether they like it or not, have to face it.
Everything we encounter in life, all people, is not subject to our will.
Whether you want it or not, what should come will come, what should come will come, there is no choice, there is no escape.
All we can do isFace, accept, process, let go,Adjust your heartInfect life with kindness and love, and infect life. The biggest pain in life is that the soul does not belong, whether you know it or not, whether you admit it or not.
If you have a good heart, you will have nothing to worry about; If you are kind, you have nothing to hate; If the heart is simple, the chaos of the world will be empty. Be a good person, be upright and have a stable soul;
Do good deeds, God knows the ghosts and gods.
If you don't doubt it, the world will not chill.
If you are not far away, the world is not far away.
If you don't hate, the sky will be warm.
If you don't speak, the four seas will be leveled.
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People should live for themselves, because when you are capable enough to cope with everything, all the light is yours.
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Give him more from life.
For example, making him breakfast in the morning, kissing him when he goes out, buying groceries and cooking together when he comes back from work, taking care of him when he is sick (if both of them go to work), asking him how he feels, etc.
It's all small things, but he'll feel warm.
Pay more attention to his affairs, observe the things around him carefully, think about him from his perspective in everything, and most importantly, you can give him ideas when he is helpless.
This is related to your own literacy, usually read more useful books, do not stop the spirit of learning will make him admire you, and continue to improve their life in order to get better and better.
The above is my personal impression of life, I hope it can help you.
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The wife should know: Don't put on a face to show the other party, an angry woman is very ugly.
He has a lot of pressure at work, and he has no obligation to go home and look at your face to make you happy. The other party will have shortcomings in his personality, and the details of his life will be different from yours, which will make you dissatisfied, but how can he be perfect, in front of you, he has to put down the mask, be himself, and be an ordinary person. Tolerance is the attitude that should be taken towards marriage as a person.
Be tolerant and considerate of each other. The wife should know that a man values his dignity more than anything else, no matter how much he loves you in private and how afraid he is of you.
In front of people, you must give the right person a face, let him be a man who is not afraid of the sky and the earth, not afraid of his wife, and even more fearless, he should not like his friends to joke and make fun of him for being afraid of his wife. Unless he has enough strong backing and lofty status, but most of us are ordinary people. Wife should know:
My husband's parents are my own parents, I compare my heart to my heart, love the house and Wu, the old and the old, as long as I really feel that this is my own parents in the depths of my heart, psychologically attached to the elderly, the old man feels this sincerity. What's more, people are very much like children when they are old, as long as they coax the old people to be happy like children. We ourselves have our own old days.
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Do things to do, don't do what you shouldn't do, poor nervousness is not as good as being poor and open a heart. If you have a boyfriend, don't spend too much time pestering him, but know how to indulge in wants, know how to regulate your mood, don't be depressed, but face life with a smile every day.
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Once upon a time, women were virtuous without talent; Secondly, we should respect our husbands and filial piety to our mothers, and be busy with housework all day long. Today, the standard of a good woman has certainly changed. A woman can at least be independent and not have to be completely dependent on the family and her husband.
But should a good woman be a successful workaholic like a strong man? It doesn't seem to be. At least in the eyes of men, women like workaholics are not favored.
In the eyes of many men, women must first be "good-looking", one beauty covers all ugliness, as long as they are beautiful, they have at least half of the "good"; Secondly, you have to be gentle and considerate, able to share worries and sorrows for men, and be single-minded and never change your heart.
Such a good woman is naturally hard to find. Besides, is such a woman really the new woman after "liberation"? It doesn't seem to be. Because such a woman still needs to have a certain sense of attachment, she is not a completely independent new woman as advertised.
In this way, there is a hypocritical side to the men, who are clamoring for the complete emancipation of women; On the other hand, they are dismissive of women who have a strong sense of independence after real "liberation", while what they really like is still women with traditional consciousness and call them good women. We often say that men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men. But men don't really give justice to the women of this world, they still put on a masculine style, let women become vases or fine wine around them, and become their physical and mental resting places.
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A woman is not an appendage of her husband. As a wife, she is also an independent woman, and she must know how to enjoy life. Not only should you have your own friends, but also your own living space.
A wife can't just have firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar every day, but also to know what is cappuccino, what is Chanel, what is QQ, and what is ***. Don't let yourself be left behind by the times, let alone indulge yourself and let the years grow old.
A good woman, a good wife, keep yourself young, constantly enrich yourself, and make yourself a book that you can never get tired of reading. As a good wife, you should be gentle and considerate, in fact, it is not difficult to understand, you can think more about each other when you do things, but it is not very easy to really do it, people are selfish, aren't they? When in love, a man can be obedient in every way, and once he gets married and starts a family, many times he needs to be considerate of each other.
Women are water, women should be gentle and considerate, and women should know how to overcome rigidity with softness.
A woman who can respect and maintain the dignity of her family and husband is the loveliest and most distressing.
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I'm a married woman, and my experience is.
1.To marry a person is to marry a life. When you decide to marry him, you have decided to choose a plain, unpretentious life. It is important that you share the taste with him, whether it is sweet or bad.
2.The hearts of the two people are no longer wandering, they rely on each other, and their psychology is solid.
3.A good marriage is a school where you can grow and mature quickly.
4.The moral responsibility of society, legal cohabitation is to receive a marriage certificate, to complete the glorious continuation of life, to raise children, I wish you a happy life!
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Be filial to a man's parents, accept a man's friends, understand a man's entertainment, stay away from a man's privacy, in a word, believe in him, so that you are at least a good woman in the eyes of your man.
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