Let s talk about what the old people of the 50s and 60s are most worried about now?

I am 50 years old this year, I have been retired for four years, and I have a monthly pension of more than 3,000 yuan, and I am in great health. I can't imagine it, in the blink of an eye, it's more than half a hundred years old, if you want to say that there are two aspects of worry, I will tell you.

Son's marriage. <>

He is 25 years old and is now going to graduate school abroad. Before leaving, I brought a small object back for us to see, the girl's family is from rural Shandong, and her son is a domestic alumnus, four years younger than her son, and she looks like she can speak well and is more shrewd. The son is just the opposite of her, although he studies well, but people feel a little wooden, and his mother says that he is stupid in learning.

I prepared a house for him in Sanmenxia, and this time I came back to let them see if the house was suitable, and the little object actually said that we would not return to this place after graduation, which made the two of us angry, and I didn't have a good anger to say that I would have to leave a set for you if I didn't come back, and I couldn't come back to live in a hotel. <>

The two of us didn't save any money, looking at the current situation, my son is going to go to a first-tier city when he returns to China, and the first problem he faces is to buy a house, it is estimated that even a down payment is not enough, and he called his son ** and asked him to discuss with the small object to see if her family can pay some money, and his son refused in a word, saying that her family is in the countryside, and she lives by planting some apples, and there is no money at all. If the two of us couldn't discuss it, we would go back to our hometown to live, and sell the two houses in the city for more than 1 million, without telling our son. A few days ago, a house was sold, but fortunately, it is gratifying that the housing prices in the first-tier cities have dropped a little, at least not rising, so that we can also see hope.

The pension problem for the two of us.

The children of our generation are only children, and some common characteristics of this generation of children are selfishness and selfishness, and their self-care ability is not strong. We don't expect them to come to the elderly when we are old in the future, both of them have retirement salaries, medical insurance, and usually take care of each other, but they really can't walk to live in a nursing home, three meals a day are served, and you can chat with other elderly people when you are fine, which is also very good. If you are seriously ill and your life is too painful, give up, everyone must figure this out, people always have to die, it's just a matter of time, it's better to leave this world as soon as possible than to live and suffer.

Sometimes the two of us discuss this issue together, and the more we talk about it, the more problems we have, and in the end we always say that we don't think about it anymore, and the more we think about it, the more uncomfortable it becomes, and let's live a happy day.

It's not a way to worry about these two things every day, saying that I don't think about it anymore but I will still think about it when I calm down, watching some old people happily go to the park for a walk and do tai chi, without a little sorrow, I still envy them.

Now many people born in their 50s and 60s should be most worried about their own pension problems. Because many elderly people nowadays, their children are very busy with work and do not have much time to take care of them. Therefore, the elderly do not know how to provide for their old age.

Let's talk about the elderly after 50-60 who are most worried about their own pension problems. Because my children are very busy, why no one cares about me.

The issue of marriage for children. Because many people now remain single and do not choose to get married, this problem has become a heart disease for parents between the ages of 50 and 60.

The problem of worrying should be about getting along with children, mainly because people in that era have experienced hardships, and there are some views that are quite different from those of children, so in old age, there will be a big generation gap with themselves.

After the old people, now it is already fifty or sixty years old or even seventy years old, they are now worried about one is the problem of pension, the other is the child's lifelong event, the old man is basically in a lonely state, this is the so-called empty nest elderly.

Let's talk about the old people in the 50-60s who are most worried about their sons facing marriage, which is bound to make them feel unprecedented pressure, because marriage requires a lot of money.

Born in the imperial capital in 1971, it is a pig, and the headlines say that the 71-year-old pig is a golden pig, which should be a good life. It is true that my parents were university teachers, and I went to elementary school in 1978, when the Cultural Revolution ended and education returned to normal. When I was in elementary school, I still studied very hard, and I did well in the junior high school exam, and I went to a key middle school.

The high school entrance examination was sent to the school, and the college entrance examination played normally, and I took the 211 major in industrial automation, and at the same time took the English major, and obtained a double bachelor's degree in English and electronic engineering when I graduated.

After graduation, I caught up with the era when the country opened up to the outside world and there were many opportunities in all aspects. At first, he worked in a foreign company, then he taught in a large English training institution, and then opened his own English training class. Getting married when it's time to get married, buying a house when it's time to buy a house, having a baby when it's time to have a baby, and now the family is financially free, but I still insist on teaching and hope that I can keep my job going.

I started learning Japanese a few years ago, and I was going to live in Japan for a while when my child was admitted to university, simply because I liked the food and the clean environment.

In addition, since I opened my own ** in Toutiao, through my friends on Toutiao, I learned that in many remote and underdeveloped areas in China, the strength and level of English teaching are still unsatisfactory, and I also hope to provide help to people who have the desire to learn on a voluntary basis (purely voluntarily) and share teaching experience with teachers in these places. I believe that the sense of accomplishment I get from helping others will make me more fulfilled and realize my own value.

Now the family is happy, the children are healthy and happy, self-motivated, and the parents are healthy. Half of our lives have passed, and the previous days were also suffering, but fortunately, we all survived together. The biggest wish is that the people around me are healthy and there are fewer natural and man-made disasters.

After living for half a lifetime, it is still relatively transparent.

I'm still glad that I worked hard when I was young, and I have to treat myself well in the days to come.

Life is very hard, although the life has changed for the better, but they are still very frugal, never waste, never allow their relatives to spend money indiscriminately.

This is to be judged according to one's own situation, some people are doing well, and some people are not having a good time, because everyone's area and living environment are different, and the work is different.

Most of the post-70s generations are still living relatively well, and they all have families, and their lives are still relatively nourishing. It makes people feel that the years are quiet.

People born in the 70s live very well, because their daily routine is to go out for a walk or square dance on the street, and their life is still very leisurely.

Life is very good, I have entered my old age, I live a very nourishing life, I live the small life I want, and it looks very ordinary.

Everyone's life is generally better, and they all grew up from snacks, and now through their own struggles, they are living their own happy and beautiful life.

Everyone's life is very leisurely, and they understand that at this age, they no longer have the strength to jump, so they are very comfortable and casual.

It is not easy to live a very hard life, and you also have to work, and you also need to take care of your family, and you also need to maintain the relationship between family members.

Many post-70s generations have indeed entered their 50s, but they are still working, because most of their children are post-90s, so the pressure on the post-90s is particularly great.

Everyone's life is still very good, because the post-70s people don't have much pressure now, so the old age life is still very pleasant.

Everyone's life is relatively simple, and at this age, they are pursuing a more relaxed and leisurely life, and they will do some more self-cultivation work.

Everyone's life is very good, because this generation has not suffered much, and their descendants are also very filial.

The elderly born in the 60s should be most worried about their children now. Although they are not currently thinking about taking care of the elderly, there are two things that the 60-year-old rural elderly may have to worry about.

1. Don't get sick

Although it is said that the new rural cooperative medical system purchased by farmers can solve some medical problems, reimbursement is only a part, and some of the reimbursement needs to be borne by farmers themselves, and there is still room for reimbursement. Many essential medicines are not covered by reimbursement, which also leaves many farmers unable to afford to get sick.

After the age of 50, the human body begins to decline, and various diseases appear, especially some chronic diseases, and even some diseases need to be taken for many years, and the new rural cooperative medical system can only reimburse hospitalization expenses, which cannot be reimbursed in normal times, and it is not very good to find a job at that age. Now farmers do not make money in agriculture, because of environmental protection, farmers raise pigs and chickens. There really is nowhere to make money to go to the doctor.

Therefore, the number one heart disease faced by seniors in their 50s and 60s is that they can't get sick.

Second, the son cannot afford to marry a daughter-in-law

At present, people in their fifties and sixties are in their thirties. It's time to talk about marriage. However, the cost of marrying a daughter-in-law for a son in the countryside is staggering. Not only is it a question of financial resources, but the cost of buying a house, a car and a wedding reception is not small.

According to many old rural peasants, after many efforts, his son's marriage was finally completed, but after getting married, he went straight "back to the pre-liberation period at night", not only losing his hard-working savings, but also carrying a lot of debts. Today's young people like to enjoy, regardless of their parents' foreign debts, and only older couples can tighten their belts and slowly pay off these debts.

There are also some old farmers who have more headaches, that is, their sons are the oldest, and there is no daughter-in-law in their 30s. By current standards, they are even single. This is a matter of ancestral fame in the peasant conception.

Many families are now only children. If their sons can't get married, they can't marry their daughters-in-law, then they can't "continue the family bloodline." The old peasants said they were not even afraid of debt, as long as their sons could find a daughter-in-law.

Some even spend a lot of money to buy a daughter-in-law for their son to come home to.

I guess I'm more worried about my children now, so I'm worried about these now.

I think the most worrying thing is that I have less and less company with my children in my later years.

I think it should be their pension problem, because life is also very stressful now.

Generally speaking, the most worrying thing for the old man after six is when he will be able to report his grandson, because now people's minds have changed, so it is very late to have children.

The so-called "gnawing the old people" is that they have no ability to support themselves, stay at home all day, live by eating their parents' old bottoms, and the gnawing of the old people is the embodiment of the failure of education at home, regardless of the era, every era has gnawed the old people, but to say that the first batch of gnawing old people should be the post-70s.

Many post-70s generations have their own families and children, they still need the help of their parents, and now most of the post-70s have entered the 50-year-old mark, their parents have long been sixtieth, and even have passed away.

The post-70s college students are now 50 years old, and after the death of their parents, they have "no old age to gnaw", and now they live by scavenging.

In our small county, there is a post-70s college student, he is one of the few college students in that era, he was smart and studious when he was a child, he was called "someone else's child" by the neighborhood, and his family background is also very good, his parents are primary school teachers in that era, pure intellectual family.

After graduating from college, he started a business with many classmates, and his parents were very happy, and gave him a business **, but it is difficult to start a business, business is not something that everyone can do, and the money is lost when the business fails, and since then he has been in a slump, and he began to rely on his parents to support him at home, he found that it was too comfortable to eat, drink and have fun from home without working, so he lived a life at home with clothes to reach out and eat to open his mouth, and his parents looked forward to the day when the child could stand up, but they were not willing to let the child go out to suffer, so he has been raising his son.

The neighbors around them were also full of emotion when they saw that they were rare college students in Shili and Eight Villages, and they became "students squatting at home in college", and gave them the nickname "Lazy Root", which is really lazy, even if there is no support from parents, they don't want to work.

There are unforeseen circumstances, in a car accident, Lazy Gen's parents died, leaving Lazy Gen alone, Lazy Gen was already a handful of old at that time, no work and social experience, could not find a job, and had no choice but to live by picking up garbage.

Most of the first batch of gnawing old people after the 70s have nothing to gnaw on, either their parents have been "gnawed away", or their family has been "gnawed", and most people's lives are no different from the old roots, and they live in poverty and live at the bottom of society, which is embarrassing.

The pace of life is getting faster and faster, and most people are still at work. But there are also some people who have learned to enjoy life and live a more comfortable life.

Everyone has their own colorful life, some people live well, some people are running for life, they are all people who love life.