What s unreasonable about the phrase filial piety under the stick?

I don't think the two are directly related, because filial piety is a person's beautiful character, and it may be such a character since childhood. And if the more you beat the child, the more rebellious the child becomes, and it will not be a filial child.

1 If you often beat and scold your child, your child will become cowardly, timid and afraid. 2 Stick education will only make children more rebellious, disobedient to discipline, and want to escape from the home early. It is necessary to use love to influence children, so that education is the mainstay, and punishment is supplemented.

The unreasonableness of the sentence filial piety under the stick is that the child is not sincere filial piety, but out of coercion, the child can only give in, to make it clear, the child is more afraid, so I think it is more unreasonable.

The next sentence of "filial piety comes out of the stick" is "good people come out of the yellow wattle strips".

"Filial piety under the stick" is a separate folk saying, and there is no fixed next sentence. However, it is common for people to juxtapose two foreign words with similar meanings to strengthen the tone. Commonly used are "filial piety under the stick, no success if you don't fight", "filial piety under the stick, good people under the yellow wattle".

**。Confucius was worried not about Zeng Shen being beaten, but about the consequences after Zeng Shen was beaten. The so-called knowing the son is better than the father, and knowing the apprentice is better than the teacher.

Confucius even ordered this two hundred and five tempers to come up, and he didn't know how serious he was, in case Zeng Shen was beaten to death. Then Zeng Shen is not filial piety, but let his father have a reputation for killing his son, which is a great rebellion.

Confucius's original words were: "Today, I will devote myself to being angry, so as to trap my father in injustice, and be filial!" When Zeng Shen heard the teacher's explanation, he knew that he was really guilty. Therefore, Zeng Shen is the most filial person in Confucianism, and later generations have summed up the fallacy of "filial piety under the stick" that poisons China's children and grandchildren for thousands of years according to these historical facts.

Preface: When many children make mistakes, parents may beat and scold the children, hoping to make the children realize their mistakes in this way. The concept of filial piety under the stick is outdated, and we must correct it in time.

Only by patiently reasoning with children can we cultivate a good parent-child relationship, and I will share it with you below.

For parents, when we educate our children, we must correct our own educational concepts in time. When we make mistakes, we must not yell at children, this kind of education will leave a very big shadow on children's psychology. When children are young, they don't show it and immediately correct their mistakes.

But when the child grows up, he will become very rebellious. By that time, if the parents regret it, it will be too late. Therefore, it is suggested that we must keep up with the pace of the times and correct our incorrect educational concepts.

Parents must be patient when educating their children, some parents are very short-tempered. When they make mistakes, they let them know the severity of their mistakes in a simple way. Then parents must correct their wrong ideas, and when we educate our children, we must remain patient and guide our children step by step.

When children are young, it is very normal to make mistakes. Parents must learn to look at it reasonably.

When parents educate their children, they should adopt the right way of education. We need to let our children experience the love and hardships of their parents, and only in this way can children realize the seriousness of their mistakes. It is suggested that when we educate our children, we should encourage them more, so that they can establish a certain degree of self-confidence.

When we treat our children when they make mistakes, we can first calm ourselves down and control our temper, so that we can adopt the right way of education. Don't get angry with your child, it will cause great harm to your child.

Such a statement is not correct, it may cause psychological pressure on the child, but also make the child rebellious, often blame the child, or beat and scold the child, which will make the child very fragile and the child's psychological development will have problems.

I don't think this sentence is right, it doesn't fit into the current society, and hitting children now will make children more rebellious, and there is no way to make children obedient, but it will make the relationship between children and their parents worse.

I think this sentence is very wrong, there is no filial piety under the stick, and if the child is beaten, the child will have a sense of resistance, which is not conducive to the growth of the child and the parent-child relationship.

I don't agree with this statement, feelings need to get along, and if you want your child to be truly filial to yourself, it is impossible to do so, so that feelings are hurt.

There is no universal truth.

1. Some filial sons have been beaten with sticks when they were young;

2. Some facts are that there is a rebel under the stick.