What is filial piety under the stick

This is the ideology of Chinese feudal society, and it has no scientific basis. This sentence can be understood as to teach children with a correct outlook on life, "loving mother and strict father" is the best proof, have time to communicate with the child, understand what he is thinking, nothing more empathy to think, rather than relying on violence to solve, learn more about some of the habits of contemporary children, the most important thing is communication, a day with ten minutes to communicate is not long, otherwise a week can be, because only by understanding the child's inner world, can we develop a suitable education method for children.

It refers to educating children not to spoil.

Strict discipline can make children understand filial piety. --Biased, but there is some truth.

Filial sons are all played from a young age.

Oh no, parents shouldn't hit and scold their children.

Is there a filial son under the stick?

It means that children can only play filial piety with sticks, so that children can understand what it means to abide by their duties, what is to be polite to their elders, what is filial piety first, and what is not to make friends with outsiders.

The original meaning of "filial piety under the stick" is to ask adults to discipline children strictly. This sentence has always been used as a mantra for adults to educate their children, but in fact, this sentence is actually wrong, and this kind of education is an irreparable harm to children.

The original meaning of "filial piety under the stick" is to ask adults to discipline children strictly. This sentence has always been used as a mantra for adults to educate their children, but in fact, this sentence is actually wrong, and this kind of education is an irreparable harm to children. In fact, even in ancient times, there were a series of family laws for parents to educate their children, and children would only be educated with sticks after they violated the family law.

But now with the progress of society, there is no such thing as family law at all, and it is entirely because of the support of parents to educate children, which is actually very unfair to children. In educating children, it does not mean that you can't beat or scold, but you should use the right method, not blindly beat and scold.

The filial piety under the stick reflects the stick type of tutoring, which is a way to educate children by means of violent corporal punishment, which is the opposite of the honey type tutoring. In some families, parents' arrogance towards their children leads to their children's weak psychological tolerance, and some even lose their basic ability to survive. In this context, the traditional "stick education" has risen, and the strict education model of "wolf parents and tiger mothers" has been sought after.

In China, this is a relatively common and recognized way of education in both urban and rural areas.

The survey shows that on the question of how to view the phenomenon of parents hitting their children, some people think that it is necessary to punish and scare them slightly, and some people think that they should hit when they should be beaten to make children remember for a long time. Only more parents believe that corporal punishment should vary from person to person, from matter to matter, and from age to age, and advocate that punishment should be appropriate, and that it should not harm the child's physical health as the premise, and that labor should replace beating and scolding as a more acceptable punishment for children.

Problems under stick education:

1. It is a kind of severe punishment education, which often causes children's timidity, cowardice, withdrawal, and inferiority complex psychological behavior, so that children become listless, uncertain, inferior and autistic, dare not interact with others, and still lose self-confidence and self-motivation.

2. This kind of severe punishment education often makes children influenced by their parents, forming a rough, barbaric, arrogant and unreasonable personality, and even violent behavior towards others, which affects the development of children's good character.

3. In this kind of severe and punitive education, in order to avoid violent beatings, children use hostile and lying behaviors to deal with and deceive their parents, resulting in the breeding of children's bad character.

4. In this harsh and punitive environment, children feel indifferent, lonely, helpless, without warmth, and without a sense of security, which makes children psychologically depressed and distorted. This kind of melancholy can lead to children's crime and suicide, and produce social and family tragedies.

That's right. There is nothing wrong with the ancient precepts! What is wrong is the perception of this sentence by some people now!

Their analysis is ridiculous! Simply interpret this ancient adage as rudeness, not discipline! Discipline has a severe component (corporal punishment) in itself.

The current educational philosophy is to a certain extent pampered or doted!

All the ancient teachings of modern people should not be simply and rudely criticized and discarded! Otherwise, there will be undesirable consequences! There are too many such cases in society.

For boys, there are some serious mistakes that must be made with a stick to cultivate morality and a sense of responsibility. For example, those who do not change their teachings do not pay attention to hygiene, do not pay attention to politeness, destroy things, and become addicted to playing with mobile phones.

It depends on the specific situation, and generally big mistakes can be beaten, and parents should control the strength.

The way the filial son behaves under the stick is incorrect, from"Sticks"In two words, such an act actually contains an element of violence.

For teenagers, such behaviors can easily lead to psychological problems in adolescents. Behavioral medicine experts have found through surveys that long-term parents"Stick education"When children grow up, there are many people whose marriage and family life are not harmonious, and they cannot educate their children well, and even completely ignore the healthy growth of their own children. Such a disgusting cycle shows that the theory of filial piety under the stick is actually incorrect.

As a parent, when educating your child, you should fully consider your child's psychological condition, and at the same time, you should also reflect on whether your behavior will have a negative impact on your child. In order to educate a child to become a talent with good quality, as a parent, you should first let yourself play a good role model in front of your child.

1. The meaning of the phrase filial piety under the stick is actually that filial piety is beaten.

3. Stick tutoring is the opposite of honey tutoring. In some families, the arrogance of the head of the family to the child leads to the child's weak psychological tolerance, and some even lose their basic survival ability.

4. In this situation, the traditional "stick education" has risen, and the strict education model of "wolf parents and tiger mothers" has been sought after. As the saying goes, "filial piety comes from under the stick", and in ancient China, Qinshou did use this educational method to educate some so-called "filial sons". In China, this is a relatively common and recognized way of teaching and balconing jujube cultivation in both urban and rural areas.

The filial son under the stick is to treat the child strictly, the child is disobedient, does something wrong, or does not do a good job, the light is yelling, and the heavy is treated with a stick. However, this will also cause the child to be cowardly and introverted, dare not say anything, and even make the child have a rebellious mentality, and do everything against the parents.

Here's a real-life example from my side.

Hao Hao is the child of my cousin's family, Hao Hao has a very flexible brain and many ideas, and the children in the bay like to play with him. Haohao's father, that is, my cousin, has very high expectations for Haohao, hoping that he can be admitted to a good university, so he has been very strict with Haohao since he was a child, afraid that Haohao will learn badly, and Haohao is not allowed to play with us since he was a child, but Haohao will secretly run out when he is empty. At that time, I heard Haohao's father often say a sentence "Haohao, if you don't come back, I will break your bones", and the children who played together often laughed at Haohao with this sentence.

I remember once Hao Hao was playing in a neighbor's house, after Hao Hao's father looked for him, he dragged him out by the ears of Hao Hao, and then I heard my aunt say that Hao Hao's ears were pulled and bled out, and Hao Hao became a lot more introverted in the back, and generally only played in front of his house and behind the house. After graduating from high school, he was admitted to a key university in the province, and he was the first college student in our bay to take the undergraduate exam. After college, Haohao became more and more introverted, and when he saw people in the bay, he would consciously avoid them.

Although Haohao was finally admitted to the university under the high pressure of his cousin and glorified the lintel, Haohao's personality has also undergone a major change, becoming introverted and not talking, and I don't know if this will be good or bad for Haohao in the future.

Ladies and gentlemen, do you agree that "filial piety comes from under the stick"?