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Maybe some parents don't understand their children very much, but I think my parents are very open-minded.
In fact, everything our parents do is for our good. We are in the adolescent stage, we have a bad temper, and it is easy to get into arguments with our parents. And my parents are very understanding, and they will fight for my will in everything they do.
I remember my sister and I said, "Your 'aunt' is very annoying, always nagging, I know that she is for my good, but as soon as she nags, it will be endless, so I think she is very annoying." "At the time, I didn't think I would be like my sister.
But now I think I might be a little irritable. My parents were annoyed by anything, but we never argued, because my parents knew that I didn't mean to say that, and they were always backing down. I also know that my parents have good intentions, but when I speak, my father will jokingly say:
So loud for what? "Am I loud? "I shouted.
Cut, ignore you! Dad jokingly said ......And so the quarrel between us turned into laughter. If every parent is like this, there will still be quarrels, and we often chat, interesting things at school, troubles with old classmates, criticism from teachers, praise from classmates, are all our topics.
I didn't feel anything before, but now I feel like my parents are friends, friends who always support you. They will never leave you, friends who will always be by your side. Understand more and communicate more, so that you and your parents can become good friends who talk about everything!
So that there are no quarrels in the house! One of my netizens said it rightly: "There is a degree of freedom, because you are still underage."
Maybe it's because he's already a parent that he understands so deeply!
We are still minors, freedom is still just an illusion, don't ruin our love for our parents because of "freedom"!
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Adolescence should be relaxed, let go, don't be depressed physically or psychologically, everyone will experience "puberty", which is very, let cheerful, optimistic and lively, give a little self-confidence. Go to visit relatives on holidays, ask classmates to play ball, or go to the bookstore to see your favorite books, communicate more with classmates and teachers, and communicate with parents who are unhappy in life or study, and ask for help to solve problems. Reading more popular science books on psychology, scientific knowledge of psychological development will help you learn to regulate your psychological state as soon as possible, and help your healthy mental development.
Reading more about human physiology and development is a popular science book on human sexual physiology and sexual psychology during adolescence, which helps to understand and treat one's own physiology, unnecessary misunderstandings, worries and doubts Participate in group activities and social practice more, recognize things in practice, and analyze, judge and solve problems.
A colorful period of adolescence. Let's enjoy his beauty, its diversity, its infinite happiness. But the earth is facing adolescence in order to make adolescence the embodiment of happiness, golden years.
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Guilt I don't think I'm an obedient child, all the rebellious restlessness of adolescence is in full play in me, but I regret it, I feel guilty, I'm more difficult than all the wayward actions I've ever done to you, Mom. A few weeks ago was the last Children's Day in my life, and it was supposed to be a beautiful day full of joy, but it was like being on the beautiful sea.
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Learn to communicate with your parents.
As children, we clinged to our parents. Adore. After entering adolescence, we have our own minds, begin to act independently, longing to receive a "certificate of liberation" from our parents, longing for our parents to treat us like adults, and even challenging our parents' authority.
In the eyes of our parents, we are always children who do not grow up, have no life experience, do not have rich experience, but have our own ideas. Our parents blamed us for becoming more and more disobedient and ignorant, and missed the way we behaved when we were young. Their love for us has not changed, but they are more demanding, and they inevitably give us a few more words, and when we don't listen, we feel that our parents are nagging.
Wordy. As a result, there is a conflict between us and our parents.
Expect one’s son to be talented. Wishing for a daughter to become a trend is the common wish of parents all over the world. Our conflicts with our parents are often based on their high expectations of us.
Strict requirements. This kind of "strictness" that seems to us to be a bit demanding reflects the love of our parents for us. We want to understand.
Be considerate of your parents' hard work.
Conflict with parents, if you take a tough attitude, resist with a rough demeanor, or ignore them. It is wrong to be indifferent, or to move from a disagreement about something to a bad feeling towards the parents themselves, or even to deal with it in an extreme way, and it will cause great harm.
At home, there are conflicts and generation gaps between parents and us, which cannot be denied or ignored, but also cannot be exaggerated. The positive approach is to build bridges of communication from within. Communication is a two-way business.
As children, we must get close to our parents, get close to our parents, strive to cross the generation gap, and walk hand in hand with our parents.
In family interactions, you don't have to worry too much about your parents. Even if your parents are wrong, you should forgive them more, and don't have to fight with your parents. Sometimes, even if you win, it doesn't necessarily bring happiness to yourself and happiness to your family; If we admit our mistakes, we will not lose face, but let us lose our burdens and get more love and happiness.
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1 From ancient times to the present, how many questions are about parents and children? But instead of solving it, we have increased it. Especially children like us, who are in adolescence, often bring harm to their parents and also to ourselves.
Disagreeable. But why don't we want to talk to our parents? It is because we often think that we have grown up and can do something on our own, but when we encounter problems, we realize that we are so ignorant and think about how correct our parents' words are.
However, in the past, human beings did not understand their responsibilities to their children, thinking that it was the role of elves, and later, human beings gradually understood that it was not magic, but it was still not clear whether they were responsible.
Boys are considered to be useful only to boys, and girls can only stay at home, or be sold as maids, slaves, and prostitutes. This is a serious discrimination against girls, and until now there are still some feudal places that discriminate against girls, which is very unfair to girls.
Flat. Some families are very good to their sons and spoil them everywhere, but they beat and scold their daughters, making us suffer a lot of grievances. Therefore, girls often want to talk to their parents, but they are afraid that their parents will be unhappy, so they make their hearts with their parents more and more.
far, the gap in the middle is getting bigger and bigger.
What exactly are the responsibilities of parents? Is it nurturing? Educate? Indulge? Or is it regulated everywhere? What do children want their parents to do? I'm the eldest in the family, but I'm the older sister, so I'm often treated better than my younger brother in some ways.
Different, sometimes really sad but I believe that my parents will not be so dismissive of my feelings this is what I found from life I used to be very rebellious and rarely listened to my parents and always felt that my parents didn't care about me, so I.
I didn't tell them anything, my grades began to decline, and the teacher talked to my mother, and I didn't think it until one day, I was sick, I had a fever of thirty-nine degrees, and I was very uncomfortable at night, but I didn't want them to know, but I exhaled.
To my surprise, my mother came to my house, she originally wanted to help me cover the quilt, but when she saw that I was different, she knew that I had a fever, so she took me to the hospital desperately At this time, I suddenly found that my mother's hair was much grayer, and I understood.
How ignorant I used to be my mother watched over me all night, sleepless and uninterrupted As I got older, I realized how unfilial I used to be, so, since then, I often talk to my mother, although it was a little unsmooth at first, but after that.
With my efforts, our family is back laughing So, all the barriers between parents and children can be improved through hard work
However, the stigmatization of girls also needs to be eliminated
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This should be the homework assigned by the teacher, right? It's better to do your own research! Hey, hey, hey.
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Write it yourself, the general idea: rebellion against parents in adolescence, quarreling with parents because they don't understand their parents, and ...... angryLater, because our parents did some small things for us, we were moved and understood ......
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As children, we clinged to our parents. Adore. After entering adolescence, we have a mind of our own, begin to act independently, and crave it from our parents.
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Learning to communicate with parents is a difficult one for most people.
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