Just after breaking up for less than a week, how does it feel to learn that your ex has a new love?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-01
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What does it feel, I feel like I'm green, and this is how I feel when I feel heartache and hatred.

    Just broke up less than a week, the person you love, people have a new girlfriend, you tell me what you think in your heart, will you think that the two of them have already secretly Chen Cang, and will you think that your ex is still very sought-after, otherwise you won't be booked by other girls just after breaking up, and such an excellent boy, now it doesn't belong to you, at this time you are very painful, you love him so much, you can't let go of him, but he has to break up with you, Within a week of the breakup, they fell in love again.

    You said how sad you are, when the other party hasn't found a new love, you think there is still hope for the two of you, but now that people have a new love, you understand that your old love has no advantage at all, you really become an old love, you are sad, you are painful, you are particularly unwilling, but what can you do, it is impossible for him to come back, you understand it too well, and because you understand, you hate each other and love each other, but the final result is that you can only bite and endure it yourself.

    But to be honest, leaving such a man, I think it may be a timely stop loss, because he empathizes and doesn't fall in love too quickly, even if he really doesn't love and breaks up, it is impossible to find a new partner so quickly, such a boy can only say that when he is with me, he has already begun to look for a new target, if we don't break up, and I haven't found his true face, if he is like this after marriage, I really don't know how to end up at that time, this is not as simple as breaking up, When the time comes, I will divorce, divide the property, or have children.

    So when my ex fell in love after two days after I broke up, I was sad, but I also felt so risky, thanks to the fact that we were not married yet, otherwise I really don't know what to do. And such a boy, I believe that his new love should soon become an old love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    At this time, I will feel very depressed in my heart, I will feel that I am a little depressed, and I will feel that in the process of falling in love, the other party is not so sincere to me, and I will be very sad.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It should be a very sad feeling because I feel that my ex didn't really love me at all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This feeling is that the feelings and time I paid before were all in vain, and I feel that my heart is missing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What are you doing, a week, seven days! Isn't it long enough? It's time to change the tires and continue on the road the next day, isn't it a night of sadness for you?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After breaking up for half a year, your ex already has a new love, and you feel uncomfortable may be that you still care about him, but since the other party already has a new love and started a new relationship, it means that he has let go of the entanglement with you, then, you also try to forget it slowly, after all, people have begun a new life without you, then you should also put it down to find your new life, and you have broken up for half a year without saying reconciliation, and there is already a transition in the middle, I believe you can also do the last meeting without sadness.

    Many men and women, after breaking up, will have a trace of regret and want to redeem the lost relationship. When trying to salvage the relationship, it is found that the other person has a new love. So how do you get back together?

    Straighten out your thoughts, control your emotions, let yourself think calmly, and come up with good plans. When you know your ex has found a new partner, calm down and don't start questioning. It is not arbitrary to question it after a breakup.

    You need to calm down and figure out if your ex is just trying to you off or if there is already someone new, and when. Can the relationship be salvaged? These need to be carefully considered.

    If your ex-boyfriend is a nymphomaniac lover and has no feelings for you, you don't need to get back together with him. If your ex is deliberately angry with you, you can change your situation and get back together with him.

    Work hard to improve your abilities, make yourself look new in front of your ex, and participate in the fair play for your ex's new love. If you want to get back together with your ex, you need to improve. You need to change yourself and change to a look that suits you and let your ex see a whole new you.

    Self-improvement is not only about improving your appearance, but also about improving your inner self. Read more, study more, and let your ex see a mature and attractive you. Capable of competing with his ex's new lover.

    Don't interfere with your ex's new relationship. Know that the more the couple is stopped on the sidelines, the stronger their relationship will be. If you want to be with your ex, you need to know how to get his attention to you, but remember not to let your ex think that you are a "bad clown" and that his life cannot be without your ex.

    Not only will he not return to your ex with you, he will be more grateful for his decision, and leaving you is the best decision.

    The above is a detailed interpretation of the problem, I hope it will help you, if you have any questions, you can leave me a message in the comment area, you can comment with me more, if there is something wrong, you can also interact with me more, if you like the author, you can also follow me, your like is the biggest help to me, thank you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you encounter such a situation, you should bless the other party, since the other party has found the person you love, it means that the other party is also very happy, so I don't think there is any need to pester the other party.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should let go, let go of this relationship, work hard to adjust your state, constantly improve yourself, strengthen yourself, and then find a suitable other half for yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can forget about the relationship completely, because it doesn't mean anything to you anymore, and the two of you won't get back together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Introduction: The ex has a new love for more than half a year after the breakup, at this time, you must continue to make yourself excellent and make yourself more attractive, so that you will feel that it is very necessary for this relationship to end, and thank you for your breakup, he has a new love, and you have nothing to do with it, because you have separated, only by making yourself more attractive, then you will attract more excellent people, in order to find a very happy relationship.

    The expressions of boys and girls are different after breaking up, girls are more emotional, boys are more rational, and they will be very happy, feeling that they finally have no one to care, and they will quickly devote themselves to the life of the next relationship, but women are different, for a long time after the breakup, they have no way to get out of the shadow of the breakup, and they are secretly sad every day, and they are very embarrassed for themselves, but when the girls finally adjust, the boys begin to be sad again, I started to feel reluctant again, this actually makes some sense, as a woman, don't look at the previous relationship after the breakup, now that it's over, then you have to look at the life below. To develop his hobbies, or do something he likes, and keep making himself better, so that he will regret it even more.

    I have always felt that since I have separated, there is no need to worry too much, if he really loves you, he will come back to you, and you will not break up, after breaking up, you have to think about how to develop yourself, how to make yourself excellent, how to become an attractive person, will make yourself the kind of person that others can't climb, only if you love yourself first, then others will love you, for women must be self-respecting and self-loving, don't hang yourself on that crooked neck tree, There are many good men in the world, but the premise of attracting good men is to constantly make yourself better, so that you will have more choices.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't do anything, you've broken up, it doesn't matter who he continues to be with you, don't worry too much about this issue, you should also look forward and find someone you like.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In such a situation, I think you should learn to let go, and then you should also live your own life, don't always think about what happened to you before, and don't always think about your ex.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    At this time, you should wish each other happiness, you already have a new other half, and you should not pester each other anymore.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    yes, I also feel like this relationship is a failure, and I feel like you're not worth it.

    There will be a new love in just one month, which can only show that he doesn't have deep feelings for you at all and doesn't care about you at all.

    Such a man, what do you remember about him? He plays with his, then we will also go out to find our youth!

    Isn't it good for us to go out and travel? What do you do with a scumbag? There is no pain, time cannot be solved, and after a long time, you will naturally forget about him. There's still a big forest waiting for you to pick from.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since it is a failed relationship, the sooner it ends, the better, don't waste time on it, and hurry up to find a new relationship. broke up with you for a month and had a new love, which means that he quickly walked out of this relationship, or that he didn't care about you at all and didn't really give. Why don't you keep such an ex, wouldn't it be nice to recognize your ex?

    Although the outcome of this relationship is not satisfactory, it is not necessarily a failure for you, because you don't have to waste time on an ex who doesn't care about you, you should be glad that he turned out to be such a person, and you broke up, which is your luck. He let you go, didn't drag you along.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you and your ex have just broken up for more than a month, he himself now has a new partner and a new love. So I think it's actually quite a failure for this relationship, in fact, to put it bluntly, it may be green. How can anyone have a new partner in just a month of breaking up?

    It is very likely that the other party has known each other for a long time, and it is very likely that the relationship has already been established. And then when I break up with you, the two of them are already on good terms, in fact, I think you should be glad about it. Because for such a person, it is really not worth it, and you can imagine how terrible it would be if you got married in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's really a failure, so when it comes to falling in love, it pays attention to character, because the injured party must be the one who pays more feelings. There is a new relationship in a month, and on the surface he doesn't spend much emotion with you, the kind that comes and goes as soon as he calls. Under normal circumstances, if he has a good relationship with you, he will be very sad and have a period of reprie.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Before the age of 20: depends on the appearance of the predecessor Before the age of 30: depends on the tenderness of the predecessor After the age of 40: depends on the amount of property of the predecessor.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Although you have failed, don't be discouraged! Because your happiness has not yet come, don't blindly pursue love in the vast sea of people, but be optimistic to find her in your dreams! Love must be consensual and take care of each other!

    Carefully observe the couple, measure the excellence of each other, and choose true love!!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Admit failure, learn from the pain, learn lessons, and don't give up on hard work.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There's nothing to be sorry for, you're just unwilling! After a month of separation, there is a new love, maybe he and she knew each other before they broke up with you, or it's better to break up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What are you hesitating about with such feelings, it's right to separate! Even if it's a little later, wait until the right person!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No one can say anything about feelings, but you can only say that your love is in a hurry

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Uh-huh. You don't have a new love, you feel like you're at a loss.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    How will people who are trying to recover after a breakup feel when they learn that their ex has a new love?

    Thank you for my personal feelings, I finally have a pick-up man, and I won't come to pit me anymore.

    But according to the usual manifestation of two emotions, unconvinced, unwilling.

    What is unconvincing is that the new love looks inferior to herself, she can't see how she started, and she looks like a loser.

    Unwillingly, although he started a new relationship, he still looks forward to finding out how good he finds after comparison, and breaks up and gets back together with himself as soon as possible.

    As long as you want to redeem it, you can't escape these two thoughts. Even if you silently tell yourself that you have another reason to let go, you will inevitably feel that you can't accept the reality.

    However, although it is understandable to bury the locust in the mood, in fact, both of these emotions are useless and meaningless.

    First of all, let's talk about unconvinced.

    Don't they all say that to redeem themselves, they must first change themselves and enhance their value, but in the end, the other party finds a new love who looks inferior to him, what is the matter? Is it really incomprehensible and illogical about emotional things?

    There are two possibilities here.

    1.You see things too superficial. The other party is not necessarily inferior to you, but you need to understand deeply to find the charm.

    2.It is true that the conditions of the tenant are not as good as you in many aspects, but at a certain point, there are qualities that can impress your predecessor.

    You have to understand one thing, whether your ex wants to get back together with you depends on his thoughts and moods, whether you are good or not, it is important to judge the comparison by objective standards, but more importantly, in the eyes of him, how you are.

    As your former partner, he has a ruler in his heart, and the criterion for evaluation is how much happiness he can see in the future when he gets back together with you, as long as he feels that he will not be happy, how good you are in the eyes of bystanders does not constitute a reason for him to reunite.

    But this does not mean that it is useless for you to change your behavior, because even if it is less, you are accumulating bargaining chips to recover, and those changes will become new attraction points, and secondly, usually I personally do not recommend that promotion be regarded as a way to bend friends and friends, at least not just to change for the sake of recovery, you always have to put yourself first.

    It's just that, at the same time, you have to look at your new love, analyze what is good about the other party, where you lose, and admit that others are indeed better than you, so that you can see the wisdom and adjust the direction in a targeted manner.

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