There are two people living in my heart at the same time. I don t know what to do.

Updated on psychology 2024-03-22
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How to say, I think it's better to be practical than feelings and life. You like both parties now, but one party can see and touch it, so it feels down-to-earth; On the other hand, I can't see or touch it, but I can't let go of my feelings for so many years. It's really hard to choose.

    It's just that long-distance relationships, like you said, are painful and tiring, and not everyone can afford a long-distance relationship. I'm sure your boyfriend feels the same way.

    Time is an invisible double-sided knife, and long-term non-contact may make the relationship stronger, because longing is crazy; It may also make love go up in smoke, because lovesickness becomes a disease.

    I think, when this is the case, just follow your heart, I have always believed that in love, there is no one right or wrong, only love or no love. However, if you are going to break up with your boyfriend, then, before that, you better make sure that the junior you like now is not with you because he is lonely and lonely. If he's a freshman [I don't know how old you are, so I can only choose a grade first], then, at this time, you'd better check for yourself that he really likes you.

    Because, many freshmen will feel lonely and helpless when they enter the school, and the relationship at this time is very unreliable, because it is not based on trust and love.

    And you, you also need to make sure that your heart is not because of the loneliness of no one to accompany you, so you chose him. You have to be sure that you love him from the bottom of your heart, and that's why you're with him. You believe in Him, you depend on Him, and your affection for Him is strong.

    Instead, think about your boyfriend. Make an assumption that if your boyfriend can be with you right now and stay by your side, he can be with you every day like that junior. So, who will you choose at this time?

    I think that under this assumption, you can find the person you really love.

    The above is just my personal opinion, if there is anything that makes you feel that the words are inappropriate, please bear with me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You like A,,, A, and you're in jail. I know B, and B doesn't like you, why do you bother pursuing it, B has other things to hide. Although A said that he was in prison, he still had to start from the actual situation, and if you are ignorant, I just want to say that it is time to wake up from the dream.

    Ideas will come faster than reality, just like you. Why not? A and you are in love, and you must know that she will go to jail, this brain hole can...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It can hold a hundred and eleven people at the same time, but in the end one must be chosen as a permanent home. Under.

    And in the heart of the individual can only accommodate the fact that the individual is immutableIf you really want to accommodate individuals. It means that this person is an irresponsible person.!...

    Don't care about other people's feelings. That's why people have to be mindfulSo that you and your loved ones are not harmed.!!

    Wish. Yes, this is the individual's will, how to look at the emotion.

    Yes, even the third person, some people think that is very sweet, and affection does not mean flowery!

    Hehe! It is impossible for a person to live in two people, and there is only one person in each person's heart, which is absolutely impossible to live two people in his heart, which will only make him feel so contradictory!

    As you want, you can fit a lot of people, not to mention two.

    That's a drop of selfishness! I'd rather not have such love! When you are with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you can only love each other, and if you still love another person in your heart, you must not be together, which will hurt people!

    Also, you can't have relationship problems with any other person before you break up with your lover! You can break up as you like!

    There's a lot to pack, but you're only going to have one person in the end. It's a must, otherwise there is nothing.

    Yes, you can love many people in your life, but you can love only one person at the same time, you can fall in love with two people at the same time, but if you find the person you love the most, you can't fit other people in your heart.

    Trouble, thanks!

    Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

    On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Hello dear, if there are two people living in each room of the rental house and I only have one person, I can find other friends or family members to rent together, so that I can share the burden of rent. Another way is to ask a friend or family member to help find a roommate, they just live together, not to live together every day, which can reduce the cost of rent.

    In addition, if you want to rent alone, you can find some second-hand houses, which are much cheaper than newly built houses, but pay attention to the condition of the house. Finally, you can also find some cheaper homestays, such as hotel rooms without sound insulation, which are cheap and safe.

    Hello dear, if there are two people living in each room of the rental house and I only have one person, I can find other friends or family members to rent together, so that I can share the burden of rent. Another way is to ask a friend or family member to help find a roommate, they just live together, not to live together every day, which can reduce the cost of rent. In addition, if you want to rent alone, you can find some second-hand houses, which are much cheaper than newly built houses, but pay attention to the condition of the house.

    Finally, you can also find some cheaper homestays, such as hotel rooms without sound insulation, which are cheap and safe.

    I told the landlord that he would not take my deposit if he only paid half of the water and electricity.

    No, dear.

    The deposit is pressed on him, and it's still your money, dear.

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