What should I do if I m always worried about not being able to find a girlfriend, and I m always afr

Updated on psychology 2024-03-12
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Oh, actually, you don't have to worry, if you're worried that you can't find a girlfriend yourself, then it's definitely different, you can do this, that is, you can make more money, as long as you make money, you will definitely have a girlfriend in the future, as long as you have money, it's no problem, so don't worry, who can't find you? You should worry about making money on your own, and that's the main thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The reason why you are worried comes from your low self-esteem, and secondly, it is directly related to the fact that you have never experienced an emotional relationship at all.

    Don't be cranky all day long, whether you can find a girlfriend in the future depends essentially on how strong you are. Although some people's own conditions are not good, but he is very good at making girls happy, there are a lot of female friends around him, naturally the probability of this kind of person finding a girlfriend is particularly high, some people although their own ability is particularly strong, but there are no half women around him, so of course he can't find a girlfriend.

    Secondly, what kind of things should you do at what age, and when you really want to get married, you can participate in blind dates and participate in some local sororities.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't have to think too much about it, just go with the flow. Worrying is not something that can be solved

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think there's any need to worry, rhinitis changes to this thing, even if you can't get up, you always have to go through it. Don't worry, the most can't find will always be found.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Two thoughts that you can't have.

    There will always be one of her. It is true that in our lives, there will be one or more such shes, but not all of us will be so lucky. Sometimes, this can be a kind of self-comfort, when you are still single, you must go through your own efforts, do not fantasize that it will appear one day, after all, people's youth is limited.

    I was destined to be single.

    This sentence is terrible, once you have this thought, it means that you have a negative attitude towards life, in case there is really a girl who makes your heart appear, you may not have the courage to chase it. So, be sure to get rid of that thought and maintain an optimistic attitude.

    How can I get rid of it?

    Work on your personal image. Boys, you must have some basic images of boys, you can't take care of your beard, don't get dirty on the collar of your shirt, change your socks frequently, keep your shoes clean, be sure to oil your shoes when you wear them, don't have a peculiar smell on your body, don't say that others will be attracted by your external image, at least others won't hate it!

    Change the working environment. Different work environments bring different social circles, and the people you know are also different. Sometimes it's better to try to slow down the work environment, and as the environment changes, maybe some miracles will happen?

    Don't be afraid of rejection.

    On the way to find their own goddess, who hasn't been hit by a girl and refused, but so what? Who can guarantee that if you chase a girl, you will be able to catch it? If you don't have the courage to say no, you'll lose a lot of opportunities.

    Career to work hard. After all, feelings need to be based on material things. Especially for those who do not have the support of family background, they should work harder.

    Isn't the ultimate goal of many people looking for a girlfriend marriage? It is difficult to be happy without a material marriage. So, boys must work hard in their work or career!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It shows that you are very unconfident in your own conditions, improve your own conditions to regain your self-confidence.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Hello, for your question "Why can't I find my girlfriend all the time", the answer to this question is as follows. Reasons why I can't find a girlfriend:

    1, the economic conditions are too poor 2, the emotional intelligence is too low, can't speak, can't coax girls 3, the ability is too low, no self-motivation, can't see the future 4, looks too ugly, really can't look at that kind 5, has a very bad bad problem, <>

    Why can't I find a girlfriend all the time.

    Hello, for your question "Why can't I find my girlfriend all the time", the answer to this question is as follows. Reasons why I can't find a girlfriend: 1, the economic conditions are too poor 2, the emotional intelligence is too low, I can't speak, I can't coax girls 3, my ability is too low, I am not self-motivated, I can't see the future 4, I look too ugly, I really can't look at that kind 5, I have a very bad bad problem, <>

    Reasons why I can't find a girlfriend: 1. No money, no house, no car. 2. Not handsome and not confident. 3. The mouth is relatively stupid, and it can't speak and coax people. 4. Too dedicated and can't let go of the ex. 5. Too picky. <>

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