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If you want to change your personality and become a more cheerful person, you must first make more friends. Get to know more people, make your life richer, have a lot to do every day, meet different people, and do different things. You will encounter different occasions, and in the process, you will learn a lot of skills and ways to interact with people, improve your communication skills, and make yourself more outgoing and cheerful.
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I think you can communicate more with people with more cheerful and lively personalities, let him drive your emotions, and slowly, your personality will change slightly, and you can often contact some new friends to make yourself extroverted, so that you will subtly change your personality in life.
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If you want to change your personality, then you should socialize more with those who are optimistic and cheerful, so that in the process of interacting with them, you will become more talkative, or participate in some debate clubs, and then some club activities can also become cheerful.
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Of course, the most important thing is that you have the idea of changing your personality, if someone talks to you, then you should respond to people very happily, and then when you usually see people, you should also actively say hello, in the usual, with the mentality of making more friends, so that you will slowly become cheerful.
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Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. If you want to change your personality and be an extrovert and cheerful person, you can choose more extroverted and cheerful people to be friends. In this way, under their guidance, your personality will change.
Sometimes a cheerful personality helps you to mix well in society.
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Because I used to be very introverted and didn't like to talk to others, then I made more friends, they are all extroverted and cheerful, and after a long time of contact with them, my heart has gradually become cheerful, and I feel that it is very helpful to make more friends.
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Change your attitude first, be kind to others, and over time you will get used to it.
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Socialize more. Many introverted people are very talkative and not good at expressing themselves, but they are very good at talking in front of their familiar relatives and friends, and they can't see a little introverted personality, which is the reason why they rarely interact with people. You should have more contact with people and things, don't blindly choose people who match your personality, try to get along with some characters who are obviously in contrast to your personality, and break through your single way of life and thinking.
Overcome timidity. I don't dare to speak out loud in front of people, and I don't dare to confess and express many doubts and thoughts in my heart because of my inferiority complex and lack of self-confidence. Most of the psychology of inferiority and lack of self-confidence comes from caring too much about others' evaluation of themselves, taking their self-esteem too seriously, and using grievances to maintain their dignity.
Therefore, don't pay too much attention to other people's evaluation of yourself, everyone looks at the problem from a different angle, a person's evaluation does not mean anything, not to mention that in fact, there are not too many people pay attention to you, but you are too nervous in your heart and formed by your self.
Cultivate a variety of interests. Different interests will diversify one's personality, and at the same time, different interests will also make oneself socialize with more people, because common interests will make people become like-minded.
Enrich your knowledge. Through their own hard work, they will acquire all aspects of knowledge and functions. Abundant knowledge and experience will make people strong in their hearts, straight-waisted in front of others, hard-spoken, and full of confidence.
Self-confidence is the only way to give yourself confidence, a positive heart, and an attitude of enjoying life to the fullest.
Participate in social activities. Whether it is outdoor tourism, fitness sports, or interpersonal communication, public welfare activities. Participating in more similar activities will make your mind relaxed, your mind active, and your introverted personality will gradually turn into an extroverted personality.
Cultivate and train yourself. To change your working environment, you can consider allowing yourself to engage in a job that deals with people, such as salesmen, customer service personnel, ** staff, etc., to change and exercise yourself through the nature of your work.
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In fact, most of the cheerful personalities are innate, if you want to drink a sunny person long ago, and you have to have a lively team, so that you can integrate into it, and the natural personality will become cheerful.
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My approach is to let myself go out and meet more people, and then read more good books, which will be of great help to myself.
Spend more time with people with cheerful personalities. Just like "cautious and stupid close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black", the environment has a relatively large impact on a person's personality, and more contact with a cheerful personality, they can influence you, so that you can't help but communicate with you, and slowly your personality will become much more cheerful.
Reading more positive, positive books, reading more positive, positive books and learning about current events can not only accumulate knowledge and give you something to talk about, but also cultivate positive views and thoughts.
Go out and participate in more physical activities. If you want to become cheerful, you can't stuff yourself in a closed space, you should go out, participate in more physical activities, try to communicate with other people, maybe a certain topic can open your chatterbox.
Learn to pour out your thoughts and feelings. Introverts tend to hide their worries, pains, dissatisfactions, sadness and other emotions in their hearts and do not confide in others, which not only damages physical and mental health, but also makes their personalities more introverted. Therefore, when you are not happy, you must learn to confide in your relatives or friends, so that your personality can gradually become cheerful.
Do more outdoor activities, such as running, hiking, traveling, etc. Nesting in a small space for a long time will make people become depressed, do not like to talk, and get used to a person and don't want to contact with others, so if you want to make your personality cheerful, you should get out of the small space, and go to an open and bright place with Kuanbo, so that your mind will become open-minded, and your personality will naturally be no longer so restrained and introverted.
Observing the rules of etiquette: rampage on the road, noisy public speech, and pointing at others are enough to blacken a person from the word "fashionable" and turn him into a fashionable insulator, even if he is dressed brightly, but it is not enough to hide the rudeness of his heart, and the elegant person can wash and sleep except for a hundred thousand urgent things.
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