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Of course it's not good. It's okay to want face, but there are two situations for people who want face too much: 1. Vanity.
Strong and mentally endurable.
No, (once you don't give him face, then he can remember it for a lifetime) 2 is self-righteous (a person who thinks that others must give him face).
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It's okay to want face, but it's not good to want face too much, it will make you hypocritical, vain, and inconsistent.
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Face is given by others, not by oneself. People who are too face-saving are often self-righteous and self-centered, so they will have few friends, and friends are the most valuable wealth in a person's life. In this sense, people who want to save face too much lose their precious wealth in vain.
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The problems are two-sided, there is no good or bad, it is all discussed by the person, but it is not advisable if the couple is too face-saving. This can make it hard for the other person to get along with.
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- The face of the person is definitely wanted.
It's not right to be too face-conscious.
Not to mention that it is a kind of pressure on yourself.
It also has a great impact on the people around you.
It can be said that it is very bad to save face too much.
Hehe, the way to change is to have the courage to do something that doesn't save face -- it's a bit silly, but it's going to be put down over time.
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Okay, why do you ask, I'm depressed to death today.
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People who want to save face don't want face, who has more eyes? But people who don't want to lose face, have more eyes, people who want to save face, you play some eyes, let people see it in the future, let people know, isn't it even more shameful in the future?
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Generally speaking, people who don't want face are more open-minded, because a person who wants face will think about everything he does, while a person who doesn't want face will try his best to achieve his goals. So in comparison, there are more faceless people's eyes.
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People who want to save face are more open-minded, and if they don't have face, they may be more sincere, have something to say, and be more straightforward. If you want to save face, it means that others have to take care of his face, and if others don't take care of his face, he is likely to hold a grudge.
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People who want to save face have more eyes, because people who want face are more thoughtful, and they will weigh the pros and cons of various problems they encounter in life.
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In fact, there is no essential connection and relationship between having more eyes and wanting to save face.
Some people who love face, they care about this kind of self-esteem very much. So this kind of person is very rational and very mature. This kind of scheming is also very heavy at times. That's why I have a lot of eyes.
People who don't want to lose face, they generally live more happily and more self-consciously. They will feel that there is no such thing as face. In fact, this kind of human eye is sometimes relatively rare. He is still a very kind kind person.
It mainly depends on the situation and divides people. You need to get to know the person thoroughly before you can decide.
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There will be slightly more eyes for people who want to save face.
Because people who want to save face tend to worry a lot and often start from their own side, they will have more eyes and know how to make other people's loopholes.
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It should be that there are more people who don't want to face people, because a person who doesn't want face means that he can afford to put it down, have a plan to do things, and think comprehensively.
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People who want to save face have a lot of eyes, he thinks more, he is a person who does things in a good way, a scheming person, a person who doesn't want to save face, and he doesn't want to hurt people easily.
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I think it's probably more likely that people who don't want to save face will have more eyes, why? Because most people want to save face, and even a little vain, and those who are willing to lose face, they have a stronger psychology, and they will think more.
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There are more people who want to save face. Because there are more things to consider, and you have to take care of your own face in everything you do, you will naturally have more eyes.
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I think it should be that people who want to save face have more eyes, and they will do everything to achieve their goals for the sake of their own face, and people who don't want face will not think about it so much.
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It must be a faceless person, and he has a lot of eyes. If he wants to save face, he dares to do something that makes others unhappy and annoying, so his heart and eyes are generally better.
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It must be a faceless person, who has more eyes, because if a person doesn't want face, he will care about you everywhere, well, a person who wants face, he doesn't like to worry about you on the surface, but he loves to care about you in his heart, but he won't do it.
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Generally speaking, people who want to save face do not have as many people who don't want to save face.
To die is to save face and to suffer sin. When a person attaches too much importance to his own face, then his way of doing things is to be more principled and rigid, rather than using his brain to think of ways and be flexible.
And a person who doesn't want face can use his own eyes to make himself successful in order to achieve some personal goals, regardless of face, and in his opinion, success is more important than face.
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Generally, people who don't want to save face must have a lot of eyes. Because of face, it's really not worth a few dollars. People who don't want to lose face, he will almost go through a lot of that kind of means. Earn his face back. If you want to save face, he won't do something to lose face.
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There are more people who want to save face, because he wants face in all aspects of life, so he will naturally keep a lot of eyes, and like those who don't want to save face, he doesn't pay so much attention to face, so he won't have so many eyes.
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There will be more eyes for people who want to save face, and of course there are many people who don't want to save face, but if you add face, the eyes of the heart will become complicated.
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Of course, it is a person who does not want face, he has a lot of eyes, because he does not want face, so he will try his best to resist the rules of society, and people who want face only know how to save face, so they have no heart to think about anything.
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I think people who want to save face are more open-minded, because they usually love face, so there will be more things they want to hide, and people who don't love face won't care so much, they will be more casual, and they will do what they like.
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Relatively speaking, people who want to face more people have more eyes, because they care more about what others think of him, so they usually always have such and such careful thoughts, well, people who don't pay much attention to face, are generally the kind of people who are very arrogant, no matter what others think of themselves, as long as they do their best, so they basically don't have any careful thoughts.
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Of course, there are many people who don't want to face, and face is a mirror of self-identity, a kind of external recognition obtained through external show-offs, displays, and even wronged ones.
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Compared with these two types of people, they must be more face-loving. If a person loves face very much, then he thinks a lot, he always tries his best to protect his face, and will make some special moves, because this kind of person is for his own interests and can do whatever it takes.
A person who doesn't want to save face, then his personality is better, and he is more easy-going, and he gets along well with others.
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People who don't want face are more open-minded, because people who don't want face can do a lot of things, people who want face, sometimes they will take care of their face, some things, especially some bad things, he won't do, he is afraid of affecting his face, and people who don't want face have no bottom line.
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To save face and not to have face and more eyes, this person who does not have more eyes just said that he likes to calculate a lot of things in his heart, to save face and not to have face, this is the character of this person relatively speaking.
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People who want face and people who don't want face are of course people who don't want face, people with many eyes, people with thick skin, he has a lot of eyes, he thinks what's the use of saving face, as long as he can achieve his goal, people who want face, he is more small-faced, others say a word, he will retreat, and he will do what he wants to do.
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Summary. A person with a "good face" will naturally describe his personal image in an excellent direction and elevate his social status. They are always enthusiastic about shaping the image, and then try their best to get closer to that direction, which can be regarded as a kind of "reverse spur" to promote behavior with results.
A person with a "good face" will naturally describe his personal image in an excellent direction and elevate his social status. They are always enthusiastic about shaping the image, and then try their best to get closer to that direction, which can be regarded as a kind of "reverse spur" to promote behavior with results.
A tree lives a skin, and a man lives a face." It's not that some people want face, it's that most people want face, it's human nature. The human psyche goes through the stages of "id, ego and superego".
The "self" of man is born with it, and it is ultimately a need for security. Machismo men tend to be more face-conscious and have a strong sense of self-esteem. Of course, the love of face mentioned here is very serious, such as:
It was obviously his mistake, but he didn't admit it; In front of outsiders, you can only say that he is good, and you are not allowed to talk about any of his shortcomings, and so on.
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First of all, China has been centered on the family since ancient times, which determines the mentality that the collective of the Chinese people is higher than the individual, so a person's honor and disgrace are also closely linked to the family. For example, the champions and queens of the past generations had to routinely return to their hometowns and sacrifice their ancestors, so that the whole family would have face. According to the research of Yang Zhongfang, a professor of psychology at the University of Hong Kong, the concept of "big self" and "small self" was proposed, in which "big self" is the individual's definition of the group self, which is the prominent manifestation of face, and "small self" is the definition of self.
Secondly, Chinese culture has long been influenced by Confucian culture, and the core concept of Confucianism is that "harmony is precious" and pays attention to "being able to forgive and forgive others" in order to maintain interpersonal harmony. Confucianism also advocates symbiosis and co-prosperity between friends, even if friends are at fault, they will not expose their shortcomings to their faces. Huang Guangguo, a professor of psychology at National Taiwan University, pointed out that behind face is the law of human affection, the mutual maintenance and use of interpersonal relationships, and the most fundamental thing is the exchange and satisfaction of mutual interests.
Therefore, the good face of the Chinese people is a manifestation of dignity and face. What are the outstanding needs of face psychology to satisfy? The first is the desire for personal dignity and resources.
According to the Chinese psychologist Huang Guangguo, the psychological feeling of "face" and "face" in Chinese characters is different.
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Freud, a famous psychologist, believed that a person's childhood determines a person's life. The lack of childhood will inevitably manifest itself in adulthood. For example, 0-3 years old is the establishment period of a child's sense of security, if the child is not with his mother all the year round, after adulthood, he may have been looking for intimacy and security!
3-6 years old is the first personality growth period, during this period, the child's personality is developing, like to make his own opinions, often easy to do wrong things, if blindly criticized, the child will become a good baby. 6-11 years old, is the child's self-esteem growth period, if our parents are too strict, children's self-esteem is easily frustrated, resulting in low self-esteem. 12-18 years old belongs to the second personality growth period, slowly beginning to move towards an independent personality, this thing, it is easier to rebel, in fact, it is to be the master of oneself, self-development.
In adulthood, if there are no major setbacks, the personality of ordinary people is deeply affected by childhood. Childhood hobbies and childhood shortcomings will develop and transform in adulthood.
Loving face belongs to strong self-esteem. It is the development of self-esteem, from the perspective of early development, either pampered childhood, or too strict childhood.
Pampered, parents blindly praise, children feel that they are right about everything. Once he leaves his parents' environment, others will not think that he can do anything, and will affirm or deny him according to the facts, and when others deny him, it will be difficult to accept.
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People who love face have a stronger sense of vanity, and they are also relatively strong people, but they don't live transparently enough, and they are quite tired.
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Face is actually self-esteem, or a kind of psychological satisfaction of a person, so face and many people themselves are very important people, all of whom have face and self-esteem, so they will create a very face-loving person.
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I'll just say this, first of all, the management style of this team leader is definitely lacking, and it's not clear why he can be a team leader. It is impossible for the front-line employees in the factory not to be angry, and it is impossible for the working environment to be smooth to their hearts, so you can either resign and change one, or endure it. But you can secretly collect evidence, violate the company's regulations or labor law regulations, save it, wait for the opportunity to report, and you can drive him out.
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Because some people's self-esteem is very strong, or they feel that they can have a better prestige by having face, or they want to leave a good impression on others, so they especially like face.
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Because they have low self-esteem and want everyone to recognize themselves, they will be particularly face-saving. In particular, the characteristic of saving face is that he wants to be held high by others, and he is unwilling to listen to others say a little bad about himself.
5,000 years of traditional Chinese virtues.
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