Why do Chinese want face, and why is face so important?

5,000 years of traditional Chinese virtues.

Wrong, some people are shameless.

I hope to be affirmed by others.

Because face is the embodiment of a person's self-esteem and dignity, face is a person's self-image, and face is a representation of moral and utilitarian ethical tastes.

Face is the self-worth and corresponding experience that emerge in an individual's heart when he or she shows his or her self-worth through behavior or social resources, seeks the confirmation of others and receives unexpected recognition.

The conflict between the identity appeal of self-worth and the response, i.e., the evaluation conflict, is the direct cause of face, and the basic way to win face is to show "matching behavior" or allow others to use their social resources in communication.

If you're too face-conscious, you're never going to take the first step, and you're going to make 10,000 excuses to cover up your cowardice, and in the end, congratulations, you've finally turned yourself into something that people look down upon.

Face is needed, and innocent face is beautiful and fascinating. Just like people's dress and grooming, moderate grooming, good at embellishment, long spirit, raise ambition, can put the finishing touch, benefit people, give people enjoyment. Like"Combat heroes"、"Model worker"、"Activists"The face of so on is to be respected and to be created.

The face is nothing more than vanity playing tricks, nothing remarkable! Save more face for others, give others the stage, and prove that you are sociable. If you are a unique person, you can't get used to and don't care about other people's face-saving efforts.

Of course, it is very important, because face represents a person's self-esteem and represents dignity. Face is the most fragile place in people's souls, and some people are particularly good at face and love face. If you don't give him face, he will feel very hurt in his heart.

He will suffer in his heart, and then he will feel hatred. This is the normal reaction of the average person.

Therefore, the more face-saving the person, the more face he should give. Don't ask him to look there, he can't get off the stage. So, face is very important. If you have face, you will feel dignified, and if you have face, you will feel good, and when you usually interact, you should pay more attention.

Face is the image, that is, other people's evaluation of you, all say no face, as big as the country's image project, as small as personal gifts, you can see the influence of face everywhere, and face is divided into two aspects: 1. The ability to deal with people. 2. Swing broadly and show that you have the ability.

Because people feel that face is equal to their dignity, so he regards face as more important than anything else, but sometimes it is necessary to put down his face properly, because face will also make you lose what you shouldn't lose.

Sometimes you have to fight for face, sometimes you have to put down your face, it depends on what the situation is, fighting for face is for self-esteem, and putting down your face is for better integration and better development. Sometimes face is precious, and sometimes it is not worth anything, just as death is to suffer face and sin. Face is always wanted, who doesn't like to be respected and loved, having face means that there is weight in speaking.

But it's not good to pay too much attention to face and pomp!

Face satisfies people's vanity and makes them feel like they're being noticed.

In the real society, face is an aspect that measures the value of people in society. As the saying goes, a person lives a face, and a tree lives a skin.

Face is like our face, no one wants to let the ugly side be discovered by others, and everyone wants to leave a good impression on others. But the face is like our clothes, and the outside looks good and generous, and at the same time, the plums must also choose a good fabric to wear before they fit closely. Therefore, we cannot just save face without considering objective factors, nor can we lose face.

Face is for ghosts, and only those who have no ability care about face everywhere.

If you die to save face, if you live to suffer, you always have to save face and lose a lot of money. Specifically looking for face, suffering a big loss, removing face, and being pragmatic.

What is the purpose of saving face? It's just that you care too much about what others think of you, and if you don't care what others think of you, you don't have to save face.

When you can put down your money to make money, it means that you are sensible. When you exchange money for your face, it means that you have succeeded. When you can make money with your face, it means that you are already very social.

When you are still standing there and bragging, you only love the so-called face, it means that you will be like this for the rest of your life.

Look at who you are! If you are a person who cares, you must pay attention to face and make a good impression. If it's unrecognized.

It doesn't matter if you lose face. After three days, the stranger will forget. I'm also a face-loving person.

However, too much love for face may turn the pros into disadvantages. It's good to love face, but in moderation.

It depends on the individual's mentality, successful people always don't value face. It is difficult for people who value face to succeed.

Vanity plays the hawk. Everyone wants to be superior to others. It's all false. Hate people who want to die.

Because they don't want to be embarrassed in front of others, so that later others will look at him with colored glasses.

People have to live for themselves, and their faces are both empty and real. You have to save face in China, but you can't just look at face!

Sometimes you can put down your face appropriately, and it is not good if your self-esteem is too strong, as the saying goes: you have to save face when you die, and you have to suffer from sin.

People want faces, trees want bark. If you have face, you will have self-confidence.

Chinese have a very good face, probably because of the influence of ancient customs, and have strong self-esteem and are more competitive. But I think that some things are not just strong, they need ability, they need capital, if they can't, they can admit it frankly, and it's better, so it's good for themselves, and they don't have to pretend to be tired. This is the Chinese tradition, the Chinese are very important to face, these are the gap between Chinese and foreigners, for face, Chinese must be reflected in the open, because Chinese are also afraid that others will look down on themselves, so they must put on their own shelves and show their face.

I think this is a very bad mentality, because a good face will actually cause a lot of pressure on yourself, for example, when you are outside, you don't actually have a lot of money, but you always pretend to be a lot of money for a good face, pretending to be very rich, which is actually very uncomfortable for you, because you don't actually have that much money.

Chinese have a lot of performance in the love of face, such as eating to pay attention to a ranking to wear clothes to condition a brand, as well as the problem of paying first, and the seniority of the elderly in this part of the speech is relatively high, and then they generally speak first, and so on.

Influenced by Confucianism, Chinese people have many ideas that they don't like to show, they don't show when they're happy, and they don't show when they're angry. This is also a relatively prominent phenomenon in Chinese culture, "good face".

Men have a better face than women, especially when there are many people outside.

Some people try to save face by saying nasty things to hurt the other person when they are angry, and when they calm down and think about their actions and words, they are often annoyed.

For the sake of face, some people obviously don't have so much money, and they still have to spend a lot of money to do things that "want to save face".

Because establishing and maintaining good interpersonal relationships is very important for a person's survival and development, people will pay attention to others' views and feelings about themselves in their interactions, and in order to maintain their "face", they will leave a good impression on others through various methods.

Some people not only obtain, maintain and improve their face through favors and various means of social exchange, but also confirm and consolidate their face through power.

Human affection and face are the core interpersonal norms of the Chinese.

Face is a product of a person's socialization and is an important aspect that distinguishes people from animals.

Whether it is an Oriental or a Westerner, it is a common and natural need to make a good impression on others and "have face" in front of others. The problem is not to be too "good-looking".

Because too "good face" will make one's behavior too dependent on others, lack one's own internal standards, and ultimately be detrimental to personal growth.

They believe that their true self may not be popular with others and the public, and in order to make others have a good impression of themselves and establish good interpersonal relationships, they often hide their true self as if they were wearing a "mask". At the same time, through various methods to elevate oneself, let others feel that they are excellent in general or special aspects, and can also leave a good impression on others.

Therefore, he always has the image of a "good old man" in front of outsiders.

In order to leave a good impression, there is also a kind of person who often adopts self-exposure, accommodation, flattery, favors and other means to do what he likes.

The more you lack something, the more you show it, and only people with low self-esteem will save face in everything.

There is no such absolute, and it is not a major characteristic of the Chinese that they want to die to save face, and we have never had such statistics in Chinese history.

Love face, some people in our country are like this, but not all, and other countries also have people who want to save face.

This is a traditional Chinese custom, everyone is like this, if you can't hang your face, you feel that it is difficult to live, because many people will also talk about others, if you have no face, it will be difficult to live in the crowd.

Not only Chinese value face very seriously, foreign friends are still like this, but relatively thick-skinned.

Because this is something that has been handed down from China for thousands of years, this may also be China's characteristics and China's characteristics.

It's very unpleasant to have no face.

Because Chinese people are usually more righteous, they know acquaintances, they are human society, and in front of acquaintances or relatives and friends, they are willing to show that they are capable, and they are most afraid of being looked down upon. In particular, you have to be strong in self-esteem, so sometimes you will die and lose face, for fear that others will snub you, look down on yourself, reject yourself, and want to elevate yourself.

Hello, thank you for your patience, this is a traditional Chinese virtue, because the words of the Chinese, there is a face, because they think that face is more important than anything, which is left over from ancient times.