Now in my junior year, I m very confused, what should I do in the future?

<>Actually, from my point of view, I appreciate you very much, maybe I'm your serious group of people, only know how to eat, only know relationships, but I deeply understand in my heart that such people are useless, but I just can't study hard like the landlord, think seriously. In view of your situation, as a completely different type of person from you, I will give you a few suggestions (although I am different from you on the surface, but I believe that I am the same person as you in my bones) The suggestions are as follows: First of all, interpersonal relationships are absolutely important, do not want you to have a good relationship with everyone, but to be helpful, if others are looking for you to copy your homework, if it is not an acquaintance, he wants to copy you to give it, if it is a friend, tell him your thoughts, if you still want to follow it, after all, not everyone has to do it.

Second, you are a boy, you are still a civil engineering boy, you want to be confident that your job is easy to find, what about second-class colleges, your professional knowledge is definitely beyond the reach of many people, but don't become a nerd, the actual operation should also be strong, I believe you are not a nerd person, but you are too good, and you are more strict with others; Third, although the family is very poor, but to find a way to earn money by yourself, you have to open your mouth outside, sometimes it is inevitable that your mouth is exaggerated in society, but many people like that, not to mention that you still have real skills, you have money, you should still invite you to dinner, at least the friends you think are worth making. You are very good, but it is sad to be alone and good, you have to be more gregarious.

<>Like you, I never seem to have asked others to help me do anything, even if I have no money, in fact, I don't have enough moral education, even if it's a small thing, I do it myself. I don't understand what I can do, why let others do it, I have nothing to do. Seeing people who want to compete for scholarships so much, I have to express my puzzlement.

Is it worth offending so many people for a little money? In the world, everything is insufficient, and we must know how to make trade-offs. In short, if you have the ability, someone has to use you, and someone has to give you a chance, just lower your posture outside, but that's not inferiority.

Speaking of inferiority, in fact, I can understand you, just like I always feel that I don't know anything, and I am very sensitive to the words of contempt for others to joke, but because I am born with a good personality, I will quickly self-regulate, so I don't care what others say, but in fact, some words really have to be listened to, and I will correct them when I feel ashamed. In fact, I have always longed to have a friend like you around me to influence me, and I am a person who is easily affected by the environment. Also, it is a matter of asking for others.