How to deal with accusations or criticisms from colleagues teachers .

If there is a change, if there is none, it will be crowned.

In school, the teacher will also criticize the student's behavior to a certain extent, when we are distracted in class, or when we regress in the grades, in fact, we will be criticized by the teacher, then we must learn to look at the teacher's criticism correctly.

When Pei Hui is criticized by the teacher, we must stay calm first, because some students will feel incomprehensible when they are criticized by the teacher, and this incomprehension is some mistakes in their own behavior and learning. At this time, some students may immediately refute the teacher, but this is very unfavorable for building a good teacher-student relationship. So be sure to stay calm and listen to the teacher before responding accordingly.

In fact, we can also listen to the teacher's words, train or answer, so we still have to treat these criticisms in combination with our own situation, rather than feeling angry and angry at the first time when we hear criticism.

When the teacher criticizes, in fact, we can also seek help from friends, because sometimes we may not be able to figure it out ourselves, but from the perspective of others, there is a certain truth, so we should not hold everything in our hearts, when we feel unhappy, or when we are criticized and feel angry, we should find friends to communicate, but also listen to the different opinions of others.

And when the teacher's words are very correct, in fact, we can also use her words to motivate ourselves and encourage ourselves to work harder, because sometimes we can't see our own mistakes, and only through others pointing out that it is possible to change. Then the teacher is also like this, able to point out our mistakes, maybe what he says, may not be listened to, but it is indeed helpful for our growth and learning.

I think that the criticism of the teacher really shows that Wu Heng and I have problems in some aspects, and the teacher is for my good, so he will criticize me, and I feel that I have to look at this matter correctly.

Of course, you have to accept the teacher's criticism, because the teacher can't criticize you for no reason. Only when you make a mistake will the teacher criticize you, and the teacher criticizes and educates you so that you can do better.

The reason why we have done something wrong is that we should calm our dissatisfaction. Only by patiently obeying and correcting one's bad behavior and habits can one understand the teacher's good intentions.

I think it is important to look at it rationally, some teachers' criticisms are good, but some are bad.

1. Keep a cool head. When criticized, blamed, or even misunderstood by a teacher, you must keep a cool head and try to restrain yourself. If it is indeed your own fault, you should accept criticism sincerely, have the courage to take responsibility, and promise to correct it in the future.

If the teacher doesn't understand the situation and blames me for the wrong thing, then, according to the environment and atmosphere at the time, the necessary explanation should be given in the case that Sakura is short of code to explain.

2. Be considerate of the teacher. When the teacher criticizes, we should understand that the teacher is motivated by the motive of "hating iron but not steel", not malice, and not "deliberately asking us for trouble". In this way, hostility towards the teacher will be eliminated psychologically.

If you can empathize with the teacher in this way, you will not have any confrontation or resistance with the teacher.

3. Take the initiative to communicate with teachers. When the teacher makes a mistake, you can take different methods depending on the situation, sometimes you may wish to temporarily aggrieved and give the teacher a step down, which will not only not show your weakness, but will show your calmness and rationality. Sometimes you need to find a spine at the right time, and if the two sides are angry, they are bound to go-for-tat and mess things up.

When everyone is calm and finds an opportunity to explain things clearly, the teacher will easily accept it.

1. Be sure to listen patiently. Regardless of whether you accept the teacher's criticism from the heart, or whether you are convinced by the teacher's criticism, you must listen to the teacher patiently. Of course, there may be cases where the teacher is biased, misjudged, etc., but first of all, you have to listen patiently.

2. If you have any questions, be polite and ask them. If the teacher is angry and doesn't want to talk to you, you can be silent and ask the teacher your questions later. This will not make the teacher feel that you are disobedient and difficult to teach, and you can also talk about the doubts in your heart.

3. After the teacher "calms down", find the teacher to take the initiative to talk. Regardless of whether the teacher's criticism has wronged you, after the criticism, after the teacher's emotions have calmed down, you take the initiative to talk to the teacher, say it if you have grievances, and say that you will be obedient in the future if you are not wronged.

4. Don't show disdain for the teacher. If you think that the teacher criticizes you, you can think about it, why doesn't the teacher criticize the students who study hard? Don't feel that the teacher's criticism is wrong, the teacher is loving to every student.

5. If you want to defend yourself, after the teacher has criticized you. If you are really wronged, you can explain the truth of the matter to the teacher later, I believe that the facts are there, and the teacher should not make up Nenguss to wronged a student.

6. Reflect on your own shortcomings. If the teacher blindly indulges you, you will get a lot of bad habits. So you have to learn to be grateful to the teacher, reflect on your behavior through the teacher's criticism, and work harder to be a good student.

7. Use humorous words to "comfort" the teacher. There is a type of child who is very lively and naughty, and immediately jokes with the teacher with a hippie smile after being criticized, or the teacher you are so good-looking, or some words that care about the teacher, in the face of such students, the teacher is really reluctant to criticize, and will be very patient and gentle to advise, which you can also learn from.

8. Strive to improve your grades and be a good student. Even if the teacher doesn't pay much attention to you, criticize you again and again, don't be discouraged and don't complain about the teacher, just use it as a motivation for yourself to work harder, when you do everything well, your teacher will definitely care about you and respect you very much.