Why is it that sincere efforts are exchanged for harm?

Some people say: When drinking, six points of drunkenness is the most comfortable. When eating, the satisfaction of seven points full is the most comfortable.

If you continue to eat, you are likely to have an upset stomach and completely lose the pleasure of eating. When you love someone, it's definitely just right to love to eight points. All the expectations and hopes are only seven or eight points, and the remaining two or three points are used to love yourself.

If you continue to love more, it is likely to put heavy pressure on the other person, leaving each other breathless, and completely losing the joy of love. That day, my friend asked me: What should I do to love someone?

I smiled and said to him: In fact, everyone's view of love is different, and if you say it right, it is called enlightenment, but I am afraid that if you say it wrong, it will become misleading! If you are also confused about love, perhaps the following passage can give you some inspiration:

To love someone, to understand, but also to understand; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept, not to endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence, not a question; It is to confide, not to accuse; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other party, not to ask for many of them; It can be romantic, but don't waste it; You can hold hands at any time. But don't break up casually If you do it all, even if you don't love someone anymore, there is nostalgia and not a grudge If you can, breaking up is not necessarily a bad thing....In short, I wish you happiness!

That's because he doesn't love you and doesn't care about you... You also love him too much, care too much about him, that's why you get hurt, if you don't love him, no matter what he says, you don't feel it, it's because you care about her too much.

Caring too much will hurt you even more, but love can't not care, paying too much for a relationship will put too much pressure on the other party, don't turn your sincerity into pressure on the other party, so that even if you pay more sincerity, it will always be that ruthless injury.

Maybe it's because the falling flowers are intentional and the flowing water is ruthless.

Maybe it's because he doesn't need or care about your sincerity.

Maybe it's because all he likes is the one who really works with him.

When the effort is not proportional to the return.

Of course, the only one who is injured is himself.

Either you really pay or you are rewarded, because other people's hearts do not grow in you, you can't force others, you can only control yourself, control yourself with less sincerity, control yourself with the wrong heart.

Because, the object of your giving, no longer needs your sincerity. Or, it's not that he doesn't want a true heart, he just doesn't want yours.

Sometimes that's it.

Because this world is too realistic.

Some people have to make realistic choices.

Even if there is sincerity, there is nothing that the other party wants to have.

or in relation to interests.

will all be harmed.

Of course, unilateral efforts will be hurt, and they all say that they don't want anything in return, but who can do it, and valuable pay is what everyone wants.

Sometimes the effort doesn't always pay off! It can only be said that some people don't know how to cherish! A lesson was also given! Next time, I want to look at it in pay!

There is no way, this world is like this, people's hearts are too cold, friendship. Love, whoever is sincere, is destined to be hurt.

It varies from person to person, and you have chosen the wrong person. Love yourself well, no one can love you more.

Be. What you pay for.

And what he needs.

There is no intersection. Love that does not expect anything in return.

Too tired. But.

Frequently. The greater the expectation.

The more it turns out. Hurting people.

He (she) doesn't love you, doesn't know how to cherish it, and it's not a pity to end it.

The other party is not worth your sincerity.

So you can only hurt yourself.

The other party doesn't have you in their hearts.

Paying a lot. It doesn't mean that you get more.

Pay attention to yourself, often don't give so much.

Look at how he and she drips to you.

I care too much, maybe I need to change it.

Choosing the wrong object to pay for is generally the result.

That's the wrong person, fate has not arrived.

Because you take love seriously.

Love others. It's your right, and it's someone else's right to be hurt by someone else

Because he regards our love for Him as a cheap capital.

There is his ruthlessness and your innocence.

It's normal. If you hurt, you won't be afraid.

It's not straightforward to take too much responsibility for someone who doesn't love you.

Your sincerity is too annoying for her.

The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, make friends first to understand his personality.

The deeper the love, the deeper the hurt.

What this means is: I'm still as sincere with people as I was before, but I've been hurt in the past, so I don't expect anything from them.

Similar sentences are as follows:

1. I think that being sincere to others can also be exchanged for being treated with sincerity by others.

2. With a willing attitude, live a life of peace with encounters.

3. A sincere and kind heart, although it is not as dazzling as a diamond and a mystery as an opal, it is as pure and thorough as a pearl, like a cup of fragrant and delicious hot milk tea, which warms people's hearts.

4. The result of being friendly and sincere is a win-win situation. Profound truths are often simple; And the simple truth, but it is not simple.

5. Be sincere, be able to gain people's trust, find an open heart, and win a friend who helps you with all your body and mind.

Sincere dedication in exchange for a chill, have you ever encountered such a sad time in your life? In exchange for endless pain, let's take a look at these sad classic sentences.

First, sincere efforts are exchanged for chills1.Apathy can drain all of one's enthusiasm.

2.You are the best medicine and the ultimate pain.

3.You're going to lie to me about why you're leaving, right?

4.As you can see, there is no room for deception in front of the eyes.

5.Your deception has made me have no faith in love.

6.The footsteps of sincerity can never catch up with the wings of deception.

7.In front of every fool there will be a **.

8.The past no longer returns, and what comes back is no longer perfect.

9.Your name will be broken in my heart.

10.When you hurt someone, don't forget that you can hurt too.

Second, sincerity in exchange for sad classic sentences1.Is it that I like you too much, or do I love myself too much?

2.The word deception may end up among us.

3.If it weren't for the depth of love, how could thoughts be flooded.

4.They are all pretending to be tender by me, but in fact, I am mature and not obvious.

5.Fooled fools for a lifetime. It's just playing.

6.We look at the world wrong, but we say that the world has deceived us.

7.The most forgotten thing in the world is love.

8.Good morning, I saw you for the third time today, the first two times, in a dream.

9.Anyone can be endlessly good to a person, provided that it is worth it.

10.The person I miss is too far away, so I can only meet you in a dream.

3. Giving too much only in exchange for pain1.Everyone else has ADHD, as if their mouth is constantly moving.

2.In this false love, my happiness will come to naught in the end.

3.The most principled person, my principle is to look at the mood.

4.When you left, I was left with the load-bearing wall at home.

5.Time is always staggered, so why can't it be a little bit more compatible.

6.Whether the future of you and me is still there, why did you promise me, but deceive me.

7.Don't deceive others, because the people you can deceive are the ones who believe in you.

8.I love you, I say it one last time. The heartache is so clear, the deceptive promise, please go!

9.I wish someone else had said to me, you don't have to change yourself, I can get used to you.

10.You're lying, you're lying to me, my IQ is refined by your deception again and again.

First of all, there is a certain problem with this view of emotion. If a person reciprocates feelings only because the other person loves them, rather than resonating with them based on real emotions, then the relationship may be based on hypocrisy and disregard for the other person's inner feelings. If the situation worsens, such a person may turn off the emotional output like a machine, or even find another person who loves him.

Secondly, people's psychological states and emotions are very complex and cannot be determined simply by who loves me and who I love. When we want to build a long-term stable relationship, we should base ourselves on genuine emotions and communicate with each other and share our own lives and futures.

Therefore, we should maintain an objective and rational attitude towards this emotional outlook, and try to understand and respect the inner feelings of others, rather than actively seeking to be loved and reciprocated.

In this life, people are always busy.

When I was young, I didn't know why I lived.

When I have a family, I am finally no longer confused.

Live for the sake of children.

Live for the love of others.

Live for your parents.

I've been busy like a spinning top for most of my life.

The children have grown up, and the parents have grown old.

Suddenly I found that I had been living for others.

I'm in ** again?

When you're alone, ask yourself.

For the sake of children, willingly.

For parents, it is a matter of course.

For the sake of love, it is right.

Because as long as there is love in the heart.

Pay without asking for something in return.

I only wish someone would understand and cherish it.

A little bitter, a little tired.

It doesn't really matter.

If you are afraid, you will be afraid, and you will pay sincerely.

In exchange for the other party's indifference.

If you are afraid, you will be afraid, and you will dig out your heart and lungs.

In exchange for a white-eyed wolf with no conscience.

The most chilling thing in the world.

It is no more than the complete disappointment after paying.

The tea is cold and can be continued.

My heart is cold, and I can't relive it.

I always understand it after my heart is cold.

Don't expect others to love you.

For the rest of your life, take care of yourself.

Stop being stupid and blindly paying.

Stop being obsessed with pleasing people.

For the rest of your life, don't be so stupid.

Cherish those who are worth cherishing.

Caring about the people you should care about.

Don't be angry with unworthy people.

Don't wait for people who are not considerate of you.

People are tired, don't hold on.

If your heart is cold, don't give in.

Be yourself and have a clear conscience.

Please yourself so that you don't regret it.