Now that my relatives are holding a wedding wine, do I go or not?

Every year on May Day.

During the period, it is the best season to get married, because the weather in our north is neither hot nor cold in this season, and the spring is a good time of the year. This year, we received a total of three invitations on May Day.

It can be said that there is a wedding almost every week in May, but in this case, most of these wedding receptions have been cancelled! And these relatives all told "everything is simple" and wait until the epidemic is over to get together with everyone. Now that my relatives are holding a wedding wine, do I go or not?

This is indeed a headache, because the relationship between relatives mainly depends on walking, especially the top priority in life, such as marriage, as a relative, if you don't show up, you will be criticized. I think this matter should be looked at like this: the distance from relatives, if it is a blood relationship.

Very close relatives, then can not be in place. For example, if your nephew, nephew, or niece get married, then as an uncle or uncle or aunt or aunt, if you don't get it, will you be laughed at? If it's a distant relative, and the relationship is not so close, then it's okay to be courteous, but if you live very close, I think you should still go to the party.

It also depends on the scale of the wine, if it is like a family dinner, the third or fifth table are all close relatives and friends, and they are all people who know the roots, so why not go? If there are a lot of guests, there are people from all over the world, and there are many banquets. This needs to be considered, but in this case, I don't think there should be a big banquet.

According to the actual situation in the local area, if there are no cases in the local area, and the hotel also allows large dinner events, then this person should be in place. Or they are all closed people from the village, there are no outsiders to participate, and it is also allowed to be held, then there should be no problem in participating.

I think that the wedding banquet held by relatives is also a major event in a family's life, and this is the time when the neighbors and relatives and friends are most needed. However, under this special circumstance this year, many people who know the truth have canceled the wedding banquet! Or switch to a small family dinner.

It's up to you to decide whether to go or not, but whether you go or not, the gift money must be in place, after all, we are talking about "gift exchanges". In this way, relatives will not be picky, what do you think?

I still have to go, because there is usually less contact with relatives, and I can only meet during the New Year's holidays or when there are happy events.

I think I can go to participate, after all, it is my own relative's house, so it is very necessary to hold a wedding wine, so it is necessary to hold a personal party, which can also promote the relationship between each other.

Go when you have time. I am usually busy with work, so I take advantage of the time to exchange feelings and make family ties closer.

How to invite relatives and friends to drink and invite:

1. How to write an invitation to invite relatives to a wedding [newlyweds version of the invitation].

1. We are getting married, and the good date has been set (the xth day of the lunar calendar), and we sincerely invite all relatives to witness our wedding. xx (groom), xx (bride) invited!

2. XX (called by relatives), our happiness needs your blessing and witness: I sincerely invite you to participate in my wedding with XX, X year, X month, X day, X hotel, X hall, looking forward to you and your family!

3. XX (relatives) Hello, the wedding ceremony is scheduled to be held at the X Hotel X banquet hall at X o'clock on X year, X month, X month, X time, and we sincerely invite everyone to come to the scene! Share this joy with us!

4. Dear relatives and friends, XX and I will hold a wedding on the xth day of the xth month, on this sacred moment, we specially prepare a banquet, respectfully invite all relatives and friends to attend, witness our happiness together! We look forward to seeing you there!

5. Xi · (Groom) xx & (bride) xx · Xi Liangchen has been set, and the auspicious day is to be visited; I have a thin wine, to thank Liangyou; Prepare for the feast of hunger and wait. We invite you to witness our happiness! Time:

2022x (Lunar Month Day) x Time Location: City Road XX Hotel [Parents' Invitation].

6. I would like to hold a wedding ceremony for my little daughter XX and son-in-law and daughter-in-law XX at X Hotel XX on XX (Week X) XX on XX (Sunday X) on XX 20XX, and we sincerely invite you to come. 7. I will tell you a good news, my son and daughter-in-law (daughter and son-in-law) are about to hold a wedding, the wedding time is 20xx year xx month xx (week x) x o'clock, xx hotel, you are specially invited to participate, witness the happy moment together, waiting for your visit!

8. My son and daughter-in-law (daughter and son-in-law) will complete the wedding ceremony on xx month xx (week x), and I respectfully invite all relatives and friends to witness this happy moment for my son and daughter-in-law (daughter and son-in-law). The seat is set up at the XX Hotel, and the afternoon is xx:xx, please come and visit.

2. How to invite relatives to participate in marriageInvite relatives to participate in the wedding, relatives of different ages can be invited in different ways.

1. Regarding the elders among the relatives, you can ask the parents to invite, because the relationship between the parents and the elders is better, so they can also talk more about the notification, and let the parents notify, the parents will also be very happy. When notifying the elders, because the elders are not very familiar with the network, it is better to make ** notifications or face-to-face notifications.

2. Peers among relatives, it's good for you to notify yourself, you can call**, you can also send an electronic invitation, and you can also say a few words to them when you send an invitation letter to show your concern. 3. The title of the elder in the wedding invitation is Mother's brother - Uncle Tai's mother's brother-in-law - Uncle Tai's mother's brother-in-law - Aunt's father's brother-in-law - Aunt's father's cousin - Cousin's cousin - Cousin's cousin - Mother's cousin - Cousin's uncle's brother Cousin Zheng Rang's brother - Elder brother Virtuous cousin - Cousin Cousin.

How to invite relatives and friends to drink wine, invitation words: rent a ship.

1. Elders, relatives and friends. 1. Our happiness needs your blessing and witness: we sincerely invite you to attend the wedding of so-and-so.

2. Hello, I am hereby scheduled to hold a wedding ceremony with XX at 11 noon on a certain day in 2013, at a certain floor of a hotel, I sincerely hope that you and your family will participate, thank you for your blessings. 3. It is hereby scheduled to hold a wedding ceremony for a certain time (day of the week) for a certain time and a certain time (day of the week), prepare a wedding feast, and respectfully invite you to come, and a certain and a certain are invited.

If you want to kiss you, invite your relatives to drink wine, you can bring fiber socks to invite you in the circle of friends or **, you just say well, how many numbers? Then come to drink, or if there is something in your own house that you can notify, if it is a human condition, it will come with hailstones, if there is no emotion, or do you go again?

In fact, if you drink sake, of course, it is very good. Because there is an invitation.

If you want to let your relatives participate, you can just ask your relatives to participate, and you can take Weiru to say that there is someone in my family who is going to get married, or what is the happy event? Please be sure to come, these are all very good foolish words.

Just explain what the happy event is, and then send out an invitation, don't have any worries.

Please sign how you want to say what you want to say when you want to drink the wedding wine, and you can say what you want to say about the reason.

The boss's family has a happy event. I wasn't invited, should I attend?

Hello, happy with your question. I think that happy events are like good luck and fruits, and others have not risen to invite us, so we have to not go. The reason why I say this is because if there is a happy event, everyone must know about it.

If he hadn't invited you, it would have been embarrassing for me to go out of my way. Maybe he didn't intend to let you go in the first place. Why doesn't the boss invite you, there must be his reasons, the boss is an obedient subordinate, and he doesn't like employees who call the shots on their own, if you don't invite you, you still go to drink wine, then the boss must have an opinion on you.

It's possible to meet familiar relatives to talk to, or it's possible to be bored not to know someone. Go and have a good time, and if you have time, take a stroll. If you don't go, others can understand.

After all, you don't have much to do with them. Nowadays, many young people are estranged from their relatives of the older generation, and there are very few real relatives.

According to the way of the world, since others have invited you, they still treat you as a relative, at least respect you first. So it's better to go anyway, so as not to be embarrassed to meet later. Although you now think that they are distant relatives who have not been in touch for many years, it is possible that they are very close relatives of your grandparents.

I haven't contacted relatives for a long time. I contacted them out of the blue and invited them to dinner. Personally, I don't think it's necessary to go.

Relatives are related by blood, and relatives need to move around a lot to kiss and have feelings. Relatives who have not been in touch for a long time are no longer close relatives, let alone distant relatives. This kind of relatives never contact when they have nothing to do, and start to contact when they have something, and their behavior gives people a sense of snobbery.

If you can, don't contact.

There is a saying that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and relatives who often do not move and do not contact are not necessary at all. If you have a relationship with yourself, you won't ask for help from distant relatives you haven't been in touch with for a long time. Most of them are friends around you.

So often there is no contact, no feelings, distant relatives who are related to each other, they will only add up. If you can't get in touch, you won't be contacted, and if you can, you can leave. Treat yourself to a meal and share the joy of your loved ones.

You may see more relatives and friends on the spot, showing your face and taking care of some things at home. But look at your psychology, a look of disdain, a face full of unhappiness, this is a manifestation of low status, immature thinking, selfishness and stinginess.

Reciprocity, people call you to a banquet, saying that your two families are not far away, maybe you are studying or other reasons, leaving home early, just starting from your lack of contact!. What's the point of inviting someone to a wedding without even years of contact? If you don't like it, don't get close, there's not much overlap, you really don't have to go!

This kind of wronged but almost ineffective society belongs to money! This kind of socialization is a waste of time! The point is to waste time and money, but you can't change happiness!

Isn't that depressing? So, it's still a choice.

If there is nothing to do on the day, you can go, after all, it is a happy event, and you can go to add joy and excitement. But the simplest thing is that relatives want red envelopes.

If you are invited, then you can go, even if people don't go to the courtesy, you have to send it, because the relatives open their mouths, and it is easy to fall into the mouth if they don't follow the courtesy, so it is recommended that you go with people and money, and just eat well when you arrive.

I don't think you should go to the fun if your relatives who don't often contact you invite you to have a wedding drink, because most of the people there are not familiar to you, and it will be even more embarrassing for you to go.

I think you should go, no matter how you don't contact you, it's a relative, and it's a wedding wine that he came to invite you to drink, you can go.

Actually, you shouldn't go to join in the fun, because if you go to such a party, it won't actually do you any good.

First of all, this relative is not a common meeting, if they meet often, then they should go to the hotel If it is far away, they usually do not come and go, and there is no gift exchange. Then it doesn't matter if you go or not.

People invite you to look up to you, and now you are losing money by holding a banquet, and you will lose money if you go to one more person. Relatives are meant to come and go because of important events.

Summary. Hello, dear! If your relatives are not there, you can go to the wedding wine, and my understanding is that your relatives are not there when you go, which means that you can go to the wedding banquet?

Hello, dear! If your relatives are not there, you can go to the wedding wine, my understanding is that your relatives are not there when you go, which means that you can go to the wedding banquet with the banquet orange? Of course, this is possible, if you have a deeper meaning, please give more known conditions, I will analyze you more deeply.

If relatives are not there, they can drink wedding wine.

Is it okay to go? I would venture to ask, do you mean that your relatives are no longer there, or what do you mean?

If your relatives have passed away and are no longer alive, it is a bit inappropriate to drink wedding wine, but after they tell you, your Lijin will still collapse. Ask a friend to pick it up or give it a red envelope. But going to drink the wine has a stall that does not conform to the tradition of folk customs, since you asked in Tongzhou, you may also have such a saying, right?

If the other party's celebration doesn't tell you, you don't have to participate, because they also have taboos, I don't know, is it right that my relatives are not there?

He told me if I could get involved in the marriage.

According to the customs of your region, if the other party doesn't care, since he told you, I think you can participate, after all, there are many people and the scene is big.

You can participate in this matter, now it is a new society and a new era, Qi Zheng, many bad habits and high regrets also need to be changed, and young people don't need to worry so much.

Since he told you about the wedding hall, it shows that he has sincerely invited you to go, you can go, if you have any words about friendship over there, they are all old customs and bad habits, you can follow them, or you can ignore them. Of course, they are also willing to have more people at the wedding, and be more lively.

I also have to tell you that when you participate, you must not show signs of the absence of relatives on your body, such as wearing white shoes. Yan Chun or with filial piety on his arm or something. This stuffy uproar is very taboo under the wedding.

Take off everything that has to do with laughter. There is no problem with ginseng.

I did not tell him about the death of a relative or relative yesterday, and also my loved one son got married on March 12.

Is the death of a loved one you are talking about your immediate relative? Who did you die?

If your parents don't believe in the stove and were not there yesterday, I don't think you should attend this wedding. It belongs to the heavy xiao, and it is during the period of the loved ones guoshi. Even if you don't tell him now, it's not good to let him know later.

You can bring the gift with you and explain why you can't go. This is still more reasonable. After this time, if the relatives say that you come over for a meal again, hey, then you can rent it back and you can go to participate.