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Anonymous users2024-02-06Recently, I saw a sentence that was quite interesting:
If I can be very independent and live well alone, then what do I need a boyfriend for? ”
Have you noticed that the female friends around you have become more and more independent, eating alone, traveling alone, watching movies alone, or making appointments with girlfriends and good friends?
They don't seem to need a boyfriend and can live just fine on their own.
From the analysis of the living situation of this part of women, we can know the individual reasons why boys do not chase girls: such girls are very independent financially and spiritually, and they don't seem to need boyfriends, so when a boy pursues her, she doesn't care, and she one-sidedly comes to the point that "boys basically don't chase girls now".
And you, are you this kind of girl?
Obviously, the above is just an individual reason and does not hold water. Let's look at it from a male perspective (in fact, it also applies from a female perspective).
Let's take a look at a set of mobile phone Internet access data. According to the statistical report released by the China Internet Network Information Center (CNNIC), as of December 2016, the scale of mobile Internet users in China reached 100 million, with a growth rate of more than 10% for three consecutive years.
The proportion of Internet users using mobile phones to access the Internet has increased from the end of 2015, and mobile phones dominate the Internet access devices.
Pay attention to the quote: "Mobile phones dominate among internet-connected devices." "We have entered the era of mobile Internet, time is completely fragmented, and this fragmented time, we are almost all holding mobile phones, it is distracting our attention, we don't need to be in love, it can give us spiritual sustenance.
Even in love, look around us, everyone is holding their phones, they are more like they are in love with their phones. From this, a ridiculous conclusion is drawn: we can live without lovers, but we can't do without mobile phones.
Of course, these are also some of the reasons, as well as the high cost of living, the high requirements of girls, and so on.
In fact, this is indeed a problem, the number of people who are not in love is increasing, and the corresponding number of unmarried people is also increasing. Let's take a look at the data from the 2016 Statistical Communiqué on the Development of Social Services released by the Ministry of Civil Affairs in 2016.
The data shows that in 2016, 10,000 couples were registered for marriage, a decrease from the previous year, and the marriage rate was. At present, the number of marriages in China has been declining for three consecutive years.
In 2016, a total of 10,000 divorce cases were handled, an increase over the previous year, and the divorce rate increased by 1,000 points over the previous year.
In the ten years from 2007 to 2016, the cumulative number of divorces in China reached 10,000 couples, with a cumulative growth rate.
This data tells us that the marriage rate is declining and the divorce rate is rising.
Our standard of living has improved, but the happiness index has declined, which has to be worth pondering.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Boyfriend is spiritual, you can be coaxed to be happy when you are unhappy, give you warmth, and you can also do things with you, marriage is for a more stable life, and life has goals.
In addition, it has strong survivability.
That's it. Your requirements are really low.
There is a warm family, someone takes care of each other when you are old, there is spiritual sustenance, you are young now, you can eat, drink and have fun, do not feel lonely, imagine the life scene of you when you are older, eat alone, sleep alone, see a doctor and play alone, there is no one who pours a glass of water when you are sick, friends, brothers and sisters have their own lives, the time to get together is limited, and the number of times you help is also limited, yes Obviously, a person can live better, why get married and have children? In the past, maybe it was because of the inheritance, but now I don't know the way.
One person is quite happy, but two people are life.
My dad is like that, why did he marry my mom.
It is possible to live a good life, live a very free and easy life, but it is also ruthless and selfish, and a person does not have a family, what will parents think....
Oh. I think it's better to live with two people, of course one person can live well, but I will feel lonely and helpless.
Human sandbags. When you are in a bad mood, you can use him to practice boxing and dripping wax.
Powerful corkscrew.
The caps that couldn't be opened were all handed over to him.
Natural heater finger Zen.
In winter, it is cold, so you can use him to keep warm.
Small cranes.
When moving, use him to move everything you can't move.
Value-added machines. Super trash can.
You don't eat anything and what is leftover, but give it all to him.
Value-added machines. This month's salary is spent, use him to temporarily increase the value of your purse.
Delivery drivers.
If you eat something and don't want to move, you can ask him to buy it.
Fluffy pillows.
On a long-haul bus or plane, he can use his shoulder as a pillow.
Glued stamps. Say to your man:"Kiss me! "When he sticks out his tongue, you put a stamp on his tongue and dip it, and.
You can take it and stick it on the envelope.
He accompanies you when you are happy;
He helps you when you are wronged;
I will pass you a note when you will not be able to take the exam;
When you make a dish that might be poisonous, he tests it;
I want to eat delicious food but I don't want to buy it, a **, people get things;
Suddenly want to play high-altitude jumping, it's no problem to find him to accompany you;
I want to be a gentle lady, hehehe, cheap him;
It's so tiring to go upstairs! Come on! What are you waiting for, my dear;
What should I do if my clothes are dirty? Husband, it's time for you to exercise, do your laundry;
There are a lot, some are true and some are joking, it is impossible to only think about yourself, your boyfriend's motivation comes from you, you have to give him motivation, you also have to understand his difficulties, help him do something within his ability, although the two people together can not be equal, but pay some, what you get will be happiness.
Emotional dependence on each other.
Life is like a bubble.
Spiritual sustenance.
A boyfriend is a dependent, one you have to rely on for the rest of your life. It is the one that can give you a sense of security, it can give you everything. Do you understand.
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Anonymous users2024-02-041.Support and understanding.
A qualified boyfriend should support each other's dreams and goals and understand each other's needs and difficulties. Support in difficult times and face challenges and grow together with each other.
2.Communicate and listen.
Good communication is the key to a healthy relationship. A good boyfriend should be a good listener, respect each other's opinions, express their opinions, and seek solutions to problems together. Active communication strengthens understanding and creates closer connections.
3.Loyalty and trust.
Loyalty is a core value for building strong relationships. A qualified boyfriend should be loyal, single-minded and honest about the relationship. At the same time, it is very important to build mutual trust, which can enhance the security and stability of the relationship.
4.Caring and considerate.
Be considerate of each other's emotions and needs, and be considerate of each other's feelings and health. A qualified boyfriend should show care and consideration in daily life, pay attention to each other's preferences and interests, and create a happy and warm atmosphere together.
5.Respect.
Respect is the foundation for building a mutually beneficial relationship. A qualified boyfriend should respect their girlfriend, their feelings and opinions, as well as their privacy and space. Always take their feelings into account when making decisions and taking action, and do not make their own decisions lightly.
6.Mature:
In terms of personal qualities, a qualified boyfriend should be a mature, stable, and responsible person. They should have a certain career development plan and put it into practice, as well as good lifestyle habits, such as adhering to a healthy lifestyle and cultivating good interpersonal relationships.
7.Be honest and candid.
Honesty is the key to building trust. A qualified boyfriend should be honest and upfront, whether it's about feelings, past experiences, or problems in the relationship. Honest communication can help build a stable and healthy foundation.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03It's not too cool to be right to focus on yourself and live your life the way you like. What do you want your boyfriend to do.
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