Why don t any boys like me, why don t men like me?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-08
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not that people don't like you, maybe you don't know how to be tempted, you don't know how to determine the relationship, you don't know if people like you or not, but you can't say that people don't necessarily like you, as long as you don't look particularly ugly, so that everyone won't like you, you have to learn to confirm twice and learn to talk.

    One, you can chat with him.

    By talking, it is easy to tell whether a person likes you or not. You can use WeChat, QQ, **, SMS and other ways to chat with him. If the guy is interested in you, he will reply to your message quickly.

    Even if the topic you talk about is boring, he is willing to continue to talk to you, and even knows how to start the topic. If it wasn't for something very important, he wouldn't end the topic until you fell asleep, or you ended it on your own initiative.

    There is also a detail, when you flirt with him to speak, his sentences are relatively long, and the tone is very gentle......These are all manifestations of a guy liking a girl. On the other hand, if he is ignorant, short-lived, and slow to reply, this is a sign that he only treats you as a regular friend.

    Second, ask him for help if you have something.

    Boys almost respond to the requests of the girls they like. No matter how difficult the request is, he will readily agree and help you solve it immediately. If he's not interested in you, he'll make all sorts of excuses to push.

    Even though he is a very enthusiastic person, he promises to help, but he will only help if he takes care of his own affairs.

    3. Deliberately getting very close to other members of the opposite sex.

    In fact, this is one of the ways to retreat, and it is very effective for shy wooden boys. Shy boys are not very good at expressing themselves in ordinary interactions, but when they encounter a situation of urgency, they will show it.

    Therefore, if you are in an ambiguous situation, you can deliberately distance yourself from him, deliberately get closer to other boys in front of him, and observe his facial expressions and behavioral reactions. If he likes you, his facial expression behavior will definitely be different than before.

    Fourth, when you doubt whether the other person likes you, most of them don't like you that much.

    Likes are a powerful energy. One person likes the other, and the other must be able to feel it. If the feeling is vague and not strong enough, there is no clear answer in mind.

    Prove that the other party doesn't like you that much, maybe it's just a shallow liking, or it only stays in the moment of heartbeat. A guy is deeply in love with you, and he will definitely make you feel it clearly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you like a man, you start giving him all kinds of little hints, but you just don't know why, you don't respond to your affection. Every man is different, and there are many reasons why you are not interested, and there are four of the most common reasons.

    The first reason is that you are not his dish! As the saying goes, "turnips and cabbage have their own love". Some like to be gentle, some like to be coquettish and cute, some like to be enthusiastic and unrestrained, and so on. So if he really doesn't like you, you might as well give up, the twisted melon is not sweet!

    The second reason is that you are not challenging. We all know that we will pay special attention to hard-won things. In the same way, if he thinks that it will be easy to chase you, he will not be interested, of course, the challenge should be appropriate!

    Otherwise, it makes the man feel that you are not interested in him, and the result is that he stops pursuing, which is counterproductive. The third reason is that there are no hormones between men and women.

    reactions. You don't fully show your woman's ** side in front of him and make him feel like a brother or a good friend.

    The last reason is that he already has a place in his heart. Even if you feel that you have common topics and interests, he has long liked others, you just don't know it. Either way, don't keep speculating about why he doesn't like you, you'll go crazy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe you lack femininity, because most men prefer small women, if you are tougher than men, no femininity, men who like you will be a little less.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not that all men don't like you, but it means that the person who really likes you hasn't shown it, and it is also possible that the person who really likes you hasn't been found, because everyone has their own advantages, don't care too much about what others think of you, if you have a man or boy you like, take the initiative to chase it, don't always passively bear the love of others.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A man doesn't like you, sometimes it's not because you're not good enough, but because you unknowingly make a lot of mistakes and touch a man's bottom line.

    Men are also human beings, and they also have emotions and tempers, and when they feel uncomfortable, they will also leave ruthlessly. Therefore, if a woman wants to go on with a man for a long time, she must strive to make it easy for two people to get along without getting tired.

    Feelings are a process of running in with each other, it is normal to have some mistakes, the key is to find mistakes and work hard to correct them. The above three mistakes are important factors that make men no longer like you, and I hope that if you have them, you will be encouraged to change them. Emotion

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In the relationship, it is normal to love but not to love, the relationship is a two-way effort between two people, and the effort will be rewarded, you are not the type that people like, and it may be because you are not good.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    For personality reasons, talk to people more, communicate, and popularity will naturally get better. It's not that guys don't like you, it's just that they can't find topics with you. There are also boys who don't like girls who are selfish. Kindness, generosity, plus good looks.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why don't men like you, then you must have done something wrong. Personally, I think you must be a strong woman, so some men can't yell at you, so they don't like you, they don't dare to confess to you, so in your heart they say that people don't like you. Listen to your topic as if you were a boy character.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It may be that you yourself are too unconfident, others like you, but you don't know, everyone has their own charm, I believe you also have your own unique charm, in fact, it doesn't matter if a man likes you or not, as long as you like yourself. If there is really no man who likes you now, maybe the person you are destined to have not appeared, don't worry, that person will definitely appear, maybe it's just that fate hasn't arrived now.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're just a man you like, he doesn't like you, and he's not a man? I don't like you, you can just find a boyfriend you like to marry. That may be that the man knows better, and generally the more men want the better.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can evaluate yourself from these four aspects. First appearance. The first impression a person gives is their appearance.

    Second voice. Ability to communicate in a third language. Fourth, deal with people.

    A guy likes a person from these aspects, of course, it may be that you are too good, and no boy dares to chase you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If others don't like you, there is something wrong with your personality. Or maybe you don't have a lot of contact with people, are introverted or are not confident, so that others don't want to be with you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The fact that the man you like doesn't like you means that you have a problem with your vision, and that your environment and work factors cause them to have no interest in you at all.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Men don't like you, normal, not all men don't like you, it's just that you haven't met a man who doesn't like you.

    There are many men, but there are very few who love you, as long as there is one, you love very little, but fate separates you and me. Find what loves you, you find what you love to be happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The men you like don't like you, I think the first aspect is that your own vision is too high, and the men you fancy may be of a higher grade, so they don't look down on you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Emotional things themselves need to be happy, maybe the boy you like, he doesn't like your type of girl, but it can't prove that you can't meet the boy you like in the future, improve yourself, make yourself good enough, the more likely you are to meet the boy you like, and like yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Men don't like themselves, mainly because they haven't found the type of man who likes them. Because men with different personalities like different types of women. Therefore, this needs to depend on fate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Men don't like you may be that you haven't grown up to their aesthetic point, so it's not your fault, you just have to be yourself, enrich yourself, and there will be men who like you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think if men don't like you, this is probably because of some of your personality, then you improve your personality, there may be men who like you, don't have low self-esteem all the time, or some other bad emotions, affect you to be more confident, there may be men who like you, or maybe you just didn't meet the right person.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If men don't like you, you have to start from your own reasons, are you too arrogant? Or the vision is too high, so it will cause boys to dare not pursue you, so you must re-examine yourself, improve your temperament and image, and believe that there will be boys who appreciate you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    They don't like you, maybe they haven't seen your shining point yet, and turnip greens have their own loves, so you don't care too much about it, after all, everyone's vision is different, and the angle of looking at things is different.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Why don't men like me and you? Because you don't look good, because you have a bad temperament, men don't like your character, so men don't like you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The reason why many men don't like you may be your appearance, including personality, for a certain reason.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Why don't men like you? Sometimes it may not be because you are not beautiful enough, gentle enough, or considerate enough, but in you, you always make some mistakes invisibly, and these mistakes touch the bottom line of men.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Actually, it's not like that, it may be that you haven't met a boy who likes you, so they haven't found your shining point.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Men don't like you, you must find problems from yourself, it must be your personality problems, which will cause many people to dislike you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, everyone has his own favorite person or thing, if the other party doesn't like you, it may be that some of your advantages are not noticed by the other party, so you must show your excellent place to others, so that the man can like you more, so as long as you don't give up, respect each other well, believe in each other, one day will like you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The man you like doesn't like you, and it seems that you have a certain personality problem, so you must change yourself.

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