What are the problems that arise from being a stay at home wife?

1. There is no economic autonomy.

Once a woman becomes a full-time wife, it means that all the family expenses have to rely on the man, not to mention whether the man is generous or not, at least the woman will feel useless if she asks for money too many times. Secondly, the economy determines social status, but also determines family status, and everyone understands the truth of eating people and taking people short, because stay-at-home wives are too dependent on men financially, and it is easy to breed men's machismo.

2. Lost the opportunity to contact with the outside world.

Many people don't feel that they have gained anything from working hard outside every day, in fact, the accumulation of knowledge by human beings is imperceptible, for the full-time wives who stay at home all the year round, they basically lose the opportunity to contact with the outside world, as a frog at the bottom of the well, even if they want to return to the workplace one day, only to find that they have been out of touch with society.

3. Bury your own surplus value.

Although housework is tedious, it has little to do with the knowledge learned during school, in other words, women read books in vain during school, when self-worth can not be reflected, there will be inexplicable sadness, plus being a full-time wife for too long, will lose a lot of friends, even if there are former friends calling for a party, I will feel that I have no common language with those friends, invisibly, I will let myself be infected with autism.

4. It's easy to turn yourself into a yellow-faced woman.

Stay-at-home wives because they worry about the meals of their husbands and children every day, and worry about their children's academic problems, for this reason, they basically live a life of vegetable market, children's school, and home every day. When you don't trim yourself for a long time, you will naturally become a yellow-faced woman.

5. If you can't keep up with your husband's footsteps, you will be easily disliked.

The most feared thing between husband and wife is the generation gap, the distance between a successful career and a full-time wife who has nothing to do will widen, when there is no common language between husband and wife, only many years of husband and wife love to maintain the marriage, so that both parties have no happiness at all. Once the husband dislikes him, he will end up in divorce, and the negative man will never remember the many years that the full-time wife has paid for the family, because in their eyes, the beautiful young junior is enough to make them want to stop.

6. Children will be inexplicably empty after going to college.

If the greatest joy of a stay-at-home wife at home is watching her husband's career flourish and her son chatting with her children after school, then after the children go to college in other places, the stay-at-home wife will suddenly feel that she is extremely bored at home, and that she will not only be cranky but also exacerbate aging after being idle for a long time. In this state, playing mahjong will become the first choice for full-time wives to entertain and relax, however, playing mahjong is actually playing money, and you can't afford to hurt the generals who are often defeated on the mahjong field.

I don't know which article I saw under the article before, that is, the difference between a stay-at-home wife and a housewife. In fact, before reading this article, I subconsciously felt that the last two were the same, because they both chose not to work at home, but then I realized that housewives really need to do housework and take care of children at home; And full-time wives they just don't work, the housework at home has a special person to do, even if they take care of the children, they don't need to do it all the time, they may just go shopping every day, afternoon tea with friends. To be honest, I was quite shocked at the time, because the contrast was still quite obvious.

Although the life of a full-time wife is better than that of a housewife, I don't know how many times, but to be honest, I personally don't recommend everyone to do this, I think contemporary women should be more independent, if you choose to become a full-time wife, even if you don't have to do those hard work, every day is leisure and entertainment, but I always feel that this kind of life is not steady, and I have no confidence. Of course, this is just my personal opinion of a stay-at-home wife, and then I will talk about what I think will be the problem of being a stay-at-home wife. <>

If I become a stay-at-home wife, I will feel that I have no status in this family, because in my opinion, the economic foundation will determine a person's confidence, and I don't have any income**, I will panic. And no matter what I buy, I need to ask my partner for money, and I feel like I can't say it. And it's very comfortable to make money and spend it yourself, and you won't be blamed by your other half for buying something expensive.

And I eat and drink each other's, I don't even dare to quarrel with him, and I don't dare to quarrel with him under normal circumstances, so I don't have any right to speak in this family. <>

Of course, there is a disadvantage that if you are like this, you will not be able to achieve your ideals, although I am not a strong woman, and my dedication is not so heavy, but I also want to make a name for myself. But once you choose a family, you can say goodbye to your career, so that there is no way to realize your ideals.

If you are a stay-at-home wife, you will become very depressed, and you will not have your own personality, and you will focus on your family, and it is easy to have family conflicts, and you will feel that you have no confidence in life, and your social circle will become smaller and smaller.

Being a full-time wife is easy to be out of touch with society, and it may be difficult to understand the hardships of her husband's hard work outside the home, causing conflicts between the two; A stay-at-home wife has no income of her own**, and she depends on her husband for everything, and is passive in her economic status.

There will be no income**, which will affect the financial situation of the family, and it will also lead to an economic crisis, which will make you very withdrawn, afraid of communicating with others, and will also make you fall behind.

Nothing is more important to women than having a career of their own. Only by having a career can we be independent, and only then can we maintain our spiritual, ideological, and economic independence. There are 3 benefits of sticking to your business:

1. Identify your own skill positioning, and your career and family are correct.

In the current era of the Internet, work is no longer limited to the 9-to-5 office model, there are too many opportunities and opportunities, leaving people with free time.

2. Stable value-added, cultivate hobbies that are not out of touch with society.

One of the biggest problems for stay-at-home wives is their disconnection from society. This kind of silent consumption of moisturizing things will make you wake up one day and find yourself in a passive situation that is difficult to change, or cannot be changed. Therefore, cultivating one's own interests and hobbies, liberating oneself from the kitchen stove, and maintaining progress with society is the right way to find the meaning of life and a sense of achievement.

3. Financially independent, with a share of your own economy.

Even if you are as close as your parents, brothers, and lovers, you will blindly reach out to ask others for money, rely on others, and after a long time, you will gradually lose the recognition of your self-worth, not to mention, relying on others, there is a great risk. Having your own independent experience**, no matter how much, is also a way to grasp the initiative and make your life more comfortable.

For most women, being a stay-at-home wife is, of course, a costly option. This is because being a stay-at-home wife means first and foremost giving up your career or making significant changes to your future, and the consequences of such a change are largely unknown and can easily lead to a sense of sacrifice. On the other hand, being a stay-at-home wife also means that you will be financially dependent on your husband from now on, which is likely to lead to dependence on your husband.

In most marriages, this means a weakening of the woman's status, which can easily create a sense of insecurity for the woman.

It's really scary, full-time wife, it's really not just talking, you are a full-time wife basically means that you have to be out of touch with this society, not in life, but in communication, as well as in learning, you become a full-time wife, which means that your circle of friends will be smaller and smaller, and the knowledge you learned at that time will gradually be forgotten, and you will slowly not understand the thoughts of your former colleagues and classmates, and when you have a class reunion, you may not understand what they say, and you can't participate in no topic. And you will live for others all your life, even if this person is your closest husband, children, but you will only worry about tea, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in the future, not for yourself.

In marriage, is a stay-at-home wife destined to be disliked by her husband? Here, I want to say to all women, only if you are valuable, your contribution can be valued.