Why do top students always like to lie and say that they didn t review well?

Before the exam, everyone will greet each other and ask how the revision is, and after the exam, everyone will still give another post-exam speech for their results.

Some people will say that they didn't revise well. In the eyes of others, they will mumble in their hearts --- Xueba lies.

This lie depends on whose point of view.

Look at two situations.

1.Xueba is really lying, even if he did well in the exam, he still says that he didn't review well. This is a low-key show-off, and the reason why Xueba doesn't want you to know that he did well in the exam is just because he studied hard.

It's about creating an atmosphere of superiority. This is good because he said that he didn't review well, and the subtext is that if I review the exam well, it will be better than this, and I will throw you a few streets away. This situation is not only seen in some top students, but also in many people who are very bad at the exam

Hi, I didn't even look at the test paper during the exam, I guessed the multiple-choice questions abcd casually, and I went to sleep after choosing" as if he could soar to the top of the class if he wrote carefully. And some top students will even say that they don't review at all, it seems that his IQ is too high and he doesn't need to study at all, he sleeps in class and plays after class, and gets high scores in exams.

Like Stephen Chow's movie "Su Qier", he learned a skill in his sleep by the masters of various subjects, and only needed to despise the people who studied hard during the exam. As far as I know, the reason why Xueba did well in the exam is actually because he not only listens well in class, but also takes the time to read books after class, I remember that when I was in middle school, Xueba shared his exam experience like this: "Before the exam, I have reviewed the subject 9 times."

2.Xueba didn't lie, he thought he could do better.

This is not showing off, the reason why Xueba is a Xueba is because he has higher requirements for himself, he said that he did not review well because he did not meet his own standards, the more advanced people are, the more self-aware they are, and the better they learn, the more they know which ones they have learned and mastered, and which ones they have not learned, blurred, missed, and not well learned. So in his standards, this sentence is not reviewed well, which is a pertinent evaluation of the results of this exam. He understands his shortcomings through exams, and he doesn't easily belittle himself (many students attribute their poor grades to being too stupid to study well).

Rather than thinking about how I could have learned better. ）

So on the surface, it seems that Xueba should be content if he is a Xueba, but these people rely on the belief that I can be better, and the continuous pursuit of excellence makes them top-notch. Don't generalize that they are lying because they already have a height, they can't soar like an eagle if they are so easily self-satisfied.

It may be because Xueba doesn't like to be treated as a Xueba. Everyone has a way of defining themselves: what I'm good at, what I'm passionate about, and what I'm willing to put in for a lifetime.

But others have a way of defining you, and that definition often doesn't care what you think. What they value is usually your outward, visible accomplishments. What if the two conflict?

Some people don't care. But some people will be very unbearable. Although all people have a desire for superiority, many people do not pursue superiority unconditionally, they hope that the things that produce superiority are the things they really care about.

And if someone defines them in terms of something they don't care about and doesn't think is important, it's a very uncomfortable thing. If you ask "how is the revision" has already brought the context of "you are a top student", and this person is unwilling to be defined as a top student, then it is expected to be low-key, prevaricating, and changing the topic. Oh.

I saw an interesting question on a social **: Some students say that they never study, but why are their grades so good? When it comes to Xueba, it always gives people a feeling of looking up, they are always so easy to learn, and the problems that we can't solve, they can blurt out, which makes people have to sigh:

The gap between people is that big.

I regret that I don't have the talent to learn, and no matter how hard I try to catch up, I can only hope for it.

I have to admit that learning does need to have a certain talent, the theory of multiple intelligences believes that everyone has at least verbal intelligence, logical and mathematical intelligence, ** intelligence, spatial intelligence, physical motor intelligence, interpersonal intelligence, introspective intelligence and natural intelligence, different people have different performances of various intelligences, so the talents are also different, there will be some people who are good at singing and dancing, some people are good at learning, and some people are good at communication.

But even if you are talented, you need to work hard, Edison once said: "'Genius' is 1% inspiration and 99% sweat", so why do some students say that they never learn? Obviously, this is a lie.

Why do some top students lie and say that they never study?

Some students lie and say that they never study, but in fact, they work hard behind the scenes, giving people the illusion that they don't have to work so hard and still study well, so why did he do this? There are two main reasons for this.

First, worry that others will surpass you and confuse your opponents.

It's a very hard thing to be a scholar, for ordinary people, it's very good to be admitted to the top few in the class, but Xueba usually has high requirements for themselves, always keep the first, is their pursuit, while enjoying the honor, it is easy to attract the envy and jealousy of others, others will secretly compete with him, in order to confuse their opponents, they often say that they usually don't study, often play games at home.

Don't take the words of the student bully, after the exam, every time the student bully will say that the test is not ideal, put down the transcript, you will find that it is firmly in the first place, what he said is not good and what you understand is not good at all, his goal is to get a full score, otherwise it is not good, and you think that if you can't score 80 points, it is not good.

In short, although Xueba is excellent, he must also work hard behind him, maybe you see that he is not as hard as you, but his learning methods and learning efficiency may be stronger than yours, and it is impossible for anyone to get the first place in the exam all day long.

Second, you want to be perceived as smart.

The first feeling of Xueba is that he is smart, and his head is bright, and every time we praise "other people's children", we will say: "Other people's brains are good." "Praise children for being smart, children love to listen, in contrast, few people will praise children for their efforts, which gives children a misunderstanding:

Smart people learn well, and stupid people work hard.

The most intolerable thing for most students is to be considered not smart enough, especially primary and secondary school students, their self-awareness is still poor, they don't want others to know that they have put in a lot of hard work behind their backs to get the first place, which will make people think that he is not smart enough, so he will tell others that he never studies.

Because these top students have already learned what they need to learn in class, they just need to review it again when they go home. Consolidate it to make the memory clearer.

Some people want to enjoy everyone's adoring eyes because of vanity, and some people are afraid that they will be ridiculed if they don't do well in the exam, so they will tell everyone that they haven't studied.

Because Xueba wants to show off that he is naturally smart, he doesn't need to study at all to get good grades.

In the school stage, although I was not known as a top student, I was also a very good student. And I always like to lie and say that I didn't revise well, which is not very good, and that is not very good. In fact, it is mainly due to the following two psychology.

First, be too demanding of yourself.

It's a lie, but it's not really a lie. Many top students have very high academic requirements for themselves. For example, in the eyes of others, a score of 145 is a high score, but the top students always like to demand themselves with full scores.

When they don't get a perfect score, it's easy to say that they didn't revise well. Usually, top students also like to say this, because they always feel that there are some areas where they are lacking in learning. More efforts should be made.

Second, reduce the pressure of competition.

The reason why the top students are called top students is because they have always occupied the first place in academic performance. The top students definitely don't want to see others surpass themselves. So when I talk to others, I always like to say that I haven't studied well or reviewed well.

In this way, it is possible that others will not be so attentive to compete with him. So as to reduce their competitive pressure, has always been among the best.

In fact, you misunderstood, although Xueba studied well, he also studied deeply, and he would also feel that he would not be able to take the test so easily, of course, he thought that simplicity was difficult for scumbags. He doesn't know what to test, how does he know that he will definitely do it? There is also a kind of meaning, which means to be modest.

Because Xueba is afraid that others will be wary and hostile to them, and at the same time they are afraid that they may fail the test because they are too confident, so sometimes even if they feel that they are doing well in the test, they will never tell others.

I remember that there was a large mock exam before the college entrance examination, some people said that the results of the exam were probably equivalent to the results of the college entrance examination, so everyone paid special attention to it, especially my tablemate, he was a strong learner, I think he would definitely do well in the exam, in the process of waiting for the results, we were all worried and trembling, for fear that our results would not be satisfactory as we expected, and then we analyzed the exam questions together and estimated their results, and then I asked Sun Chao how he did in the exam, He also said very seriously that he did a mess in the exam, and said that he didn't review well, at that time I think everyone didn't believe what he said, but as a classmate, he was embarrassed to expose others.

The results came out, everyone was shocked, because at that time, Sun Chao's grades were already in the top few in the grade, and he was also the first in our class, at that time I really felt that he was not honest at all, at least in front of us, and then I experienced more, and met more people, I found that the more capable people they are, the more they hide themselves, which is their commonality.

Lying is sometimes not deception, it can be well-intentioned, modest or low-key. Different people lie in different situations for their reasons, we just don't understand it.

In their eyes, the obvious is the most real, and your results are the best reflection. What if the two conflict? Some people don't care.

But some people will be very unbearable. Although everyone has a desire for superiority, many people do not pursue superiority unconditionally, they want that the things that produce superiority are the things they really care about.

So don't judge a person casually before you know him.

I think it's okay, except for some people who love to pretend to be 13 and "have a big voice and a little rain", the average student is not lying if he says that he hasn't reviewed well, after all, other people's levels are different, and the requirements for themselves are also different.

I used to have a classmate who studied very hard, and unless he had to go to the toilet or ask questions, he would never leave his seat and read and write all the time. He is also very confident, I will ask him before every exam how he is revising, and he does not hide anything, he says that the review is okay, and there are some areas that are not well reviewed. After the test, when everyone was discussing the test questions, someone asked him how he did in the test, and he said that about eighty and a half of the questions were correct, and the results did not deviate much from his expectations.

Maybe it's because his grades have always been at the top, and when others are playing between classes, he will tell others to move less quietly so as not to disturb his study. After coming and going, everyone had opinions about him, thinking that he thought that his grades were great, and his self-confidence was also misinterpreted into arrogance, and everyone began to slowly alienate him. Later, he also felt everyone's hostility, so he was a lot quieter, and rarely took the initiative to discuss problems with everyone, he felt that he should be humble, and when others asked him how he was reviewing, he said that he hadn't reviewed yet.

As a result, as soon as the results came out, his grades were still very good, and others called him hypocritical.

Actually, it's not that he's hypocritical, he just wants to cater to everyone, and he's also afraid of being isolated. Xueba also has to worry a lot, saying that he is reviewing well, and he will be laughed at if he fails in the exam. It's okay to say that you haven't reviewed, and others say that you are hypocritical.

In fact, everyone has different standards for good or bad grades, and their understanding of the degree of their own review is also different. Don't impose your ideas on the top students, after all, they may not be what you imagined. Don't think of everyone as hypocritical, when you get to that level, you'll know how stupid you were in the first place.

This is not a lie, you must know that the thinking and cognition of ordinary people and top students are different

Maybe to review the same book, for you, all you need to do is understand and memorize the content of the book, but Xueba can see the hidden knowledge points, so the depth of your review is different, and the degree of review you understand is also different.

In the same amount of time, Xueba has learned a lot more content than you, and it is normal for you to feel that you have not reviewed well.

Personally, my English is very good, but learning English is all about accumulating knowledge, and there is never such a thing as "reviewing well" for me.

Every time I take an exam, I will say that I have not studied well, on the one hand, I have high requirements for myself, and what I expect is that I can achieve better results than I am now. On the other hand, after the exam, reflecting on it, I feel that there are some things that I didn't grasp well and could have done better.

Uh, uh, and sometimes I really didn't review at all, naked exams, I said I didn't review well, and I can even say that I can't even pretend to be garlic.

But others will not understand these situations, but will say that I am too fake, and I have not reviewed well and my grades are so high......All I can say is that I blame myself for studying

Of course, it is not excluded that some people are actually really, and there is a situation where they simply don't want others to know their learning progress, don't want to share their learning experience with others, and don't want others to keep asking, so they casually excuse themselves and say that they haven't finished reviewing, and they haven't reviewed well, so you don't want to pay attention to him and let him be quiet.

You'd better go over the review