Do men have extramarital sex Why do men have extramarital affairs?

There will always be people who don't have it, some are unintentional, some are powerless, and some are unconditional.

These women who are unhappy in their marriages have long-term disagreements with their husbands. I always feel that there is a lack of a man around me who can listen to me. So even if she is in marriage, she will inevitably feel lonely and lonely, and the only one who can understand her mood is a married man.

Naturally, men are the same, these wives don't understand the mentality, he will also choose to tell other women, but when the two meet together in daily life, the emotions of warming each other will make them slowly get closer to each other, and they will always inevitably enter each other's lives later.

Middle-aged and elderly men are basically more stable in their jobs, and they also have wives and children, so they will think that their future can go to the next level, and they will not be willing to live in the current situation, and middle-aged men and women have been working in society for many years, and they will also have some network resources and work experience. Middle-aged and elderly men will very much want a woman who can be good for their work, help him release pressure, and help him succeed, and after being with this kind of woman for a long time, it is inevitable to have feelings for her, which may lead to "disloyalty".

This is also in opposition to the old idea, but it has similarities with the electromagnetic field of "opposites attract, and similarities repel". One person loves to quarrel and quarrel, and the other person has always avoided it; With one person who loves to quarrel and quarrel, and the other person keeps arguing until it is more fierce, which of these two couples' love business building is stable and which is unstable.

Many women are empathetic to men when they are not married, but once they are married, they become goddesses and empress dowagers of Cixi, so that men have no status and self-esteem at home, and even cannot find a sense of worth, superiority and pride. In the long run, they will see their home as a prison and a prison cell, from which they may find new emotional sustenance, and infidelity may be inevitable.

A man has an extramarital affair, one is his own lust, and the other is that the marriage is not happy enough or cannot satisfy his desires. Therefore, maintaining marital happiness requires wisdom, and it is very necessary to manage the marriage with heart, and it is very necessary to conduct marriage counseling in a timely manner when there is a problem.

Because you may not be happy in marriage!

A wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as stealing, and stealing is better than stealing. The ancients did not deceive me, just like the toys in my hands are never as good as others.

This question is actually very simple. Nowadays, women ask for more bride price. Isn't it fragrant for a man to want to have this money and spend it himself? Isn't this the same as a woman who thinks about serving a man and giving him a child after marriage? It's a truth.

Besides, the changes in society, if you want to be an uncle at home as before, it is not allowed, and now men must have a sense of responsibility and pay a certain amount of labor. And the man has been used to being an uncle since he was a child, and he wants him to serve others in chaos, dream!

As for whether you have children, alas, there is no succession to the throne in the family, and there is no mine inheritance After a few hundred years, who will know who you are?

Extramarital affairs are also common in today's society.

No matter what happiness it is, love and sex can be separated or unified, feelings do not have to have marriage, Chinese are narrow-minded, but there is no deception.

Whether there is a true feeling for an extramarital affair, although it is not possible to draw an absolute conclusion, it can be said that the things that men and women pursue in extramarital affairs are not the same, and the extramarital affairs of married men are based on extramarital sex, perhaps many women who have experienced this "love" do not admit and are unwilling to admit that the gentle and elegant married man only pursues himself for "sex", but from the rapid development of Chinese society in the past few decades, most of the extramarital affairs are men, from the age of the year, slowly younger, to the present age, It is not uncommon for even newlyweds to have a long-term lover relationship with someone other than their spouse who has always maintained a long-term relationship, so if a few decades ago due to feudal consciousness or special social background, they could not freely choose their spouse and could not get a happy emotional life, and they had extramarital sex "as a last resort" for the sake of their children barely maintaining the integrity of the family, then in the past two decades, Western civilization has brought a fashionable attitude to life and sexual liberation, People no longer talk about sexual perversion, marriage is autonomous, marriage is free, and even divorce is free, extramarital love is increasing, the happiness of marriage is even lower and lower with the improvement of material life, there are very few people who feel happy in life, under the strong pressure of competition, the way people vent and release has also increased, in fact, most of the extramarital affair men have a relatively happy family, the wife is young and beautiful, the children are smart and clever, although the life can not be said to be happy, but there is absolutely no lack of feelings, At least most marriages are developed from vigorous love, what is missing, I think, it should be the freshness of the usual excuse for married men is: the marriage is unhappy, the wife does not understand him, there is no affection between them, and they can't bear to divorce only for the sake of ...... childrenThese married men's understanding of women coupled with the emotional "hunger" can easily stimulate maternal love, men's confiding offensive is regarded by women as confidants of the opposite sex, the difficult grasp of friendship and love scale, under the gentle offensive of men, it does not take too long to capture women's hearts as if they were in their pockets Women wishfully believe that men are unhappy in marriage, selflessly pay their youth, nameless and pointless with the notoriety of "second wife", unable to announce their relationship openly, love secretly and frightened, This kind of wishful thinking is like falling in love with oneself, fantasizing that one day you can put on a wedding dress and grow old, sadly, women are also infatuated that in the hearts of men, the most loved is children, followed by themselves, this man who can't give himself a name is a good man with a sense of responsibility, once discovered, it is likely that the man will not lose anything, continue to go back to be her husband, and finally leave a long memory and regret of retreating for those who choose married women as the goal, it is more obvious that men are irresponsible, is more worry-free than a single woman, aren't you afraid that your husband will split you? Wake up!

Don't regret it, and don't look forward to the peacock grass (declined**).