Talk about your understanding of the Dink family and how you view the Dink family

Seven reasons to choose the Dink family.

The husband and wife put their careers first and do not want their children to affect their work.

To be the representatives of the "new new human race", they have a new outlook on marriage and love, family, and childbirth. So refuse the involvement of a "third party" (child).

Don't let yourself and your children be too tired, thinking that you are bound to work hard for your children's growth, so it's better not to have children.

If you don't have confidence in family life, and you don't have children when you don't have a full grasp of life.

Constrained by economic conditions, he thinks that his current job is not stable enough, and hopes to create better economic conditions so that his children can have a good life after birth.

Relax the conditions for family happiness, believing that you can live a fulfilling life without children.

Believing in the progress of the social security function, these families believe that "preventing old age" does not necessarily have to "raise children", and the family's security function is gradually assumed by the society.

To be honest, I don't want Dink very much, I want to have a child of myself and my lover, and the family of three is happy, but I don't have children, and I can't give birth to my lover, so I have to choose Dink, unless my husband changes his mind or divorces me and finds someone else to marry and have children, my husband and I are ready to adopt a child in our thirties.

Dink is a personal choice, and there is no need to feel better than a normal family.

The Dink family must have an accurate and clear understanding and positioning of themselves, which is a manifestation of responsibility.

As a Dink family, parents may be confused or unhappy with your decision. You may encounter the following challenges:

Stress in expecting grandchildren: Many families want to have grandchildren due to culture and tradition, so it can put pressure on you in this regard.

Financial pressure and responsibility: In China, the concept of family is very important. If you are an only child in your family, you may face a sense of responsibility and pressure to continue the family lineage and provide for your parents.

Miscommunication: If you have poor communication with your parents, it can lead to misunderstandings and arguments. As you may have a very different lifestyle and values from them.

Here are some suggestions to help you communicate with your parents and maintain a good relationship:

1.Respect each other's positions and opinions. Even though your parents may not understand your choice, you also need to respect their pure values and try to understand their thoughts and ways of thinking.

2.Communicate openly and honestly. Have an open and honest conversation with your parents and tell them how you feel and think. This reduces misunderstandings and finds common ground.

3.Provide a reasonable explanation. If you don't want children, explain your reasons to your parents, such as you want to focus on your career, travel, or because you don't want to take on heavy responsibilities and stress, etc.

4.Accept your parents. No matter what they think, you have to accept them and keep the relationship harmonious. You can communicate more, slowly let them understand your ideas, and respect your choice.

5.Look for other support. If you feel the need for support, you can try to find someone who has a similar experience to you, or join a community of like-minded people. These people can understand your choice, support your decision, and advise you.

In short, as a dink, your choices are subject to different perspectives at different levels of society, but you need to be firm in your choices and communicate and understand each other's positions well with your family.

From a moral and ethical point of view, we should respect the choices and decisions of our parents. Parents should have the freedom to decide their own family plans, and reproductive rights are their basic rights. Of course, we can provide them with opinions and suggestions, but the final decision should be made by the parents themselves, not by the children to intervene or prevent it.

At the same time, whether it is fertility or other choices, it should be based on mutual respect and understanding, mutual communication and consultation, and reach a common understanding.

What happened to the Dink family? What do you think of Dink?

There are some Dink families who don't have any burdens in their old age and have more time to enjoy life. There is a part of the Dink family around us, and they hope in their hearts that there is a world that belongs only to two people, and they will not be dragged down by children's affairs. Because when they are young, they put all their energy into their work, so they have a part of their savings, which can make their old age more colorful.

In their later years, they will travel with their other half, enjoy the great rivers and mountains, or play cards and exercise with friends, and live a good life, and those old people who watch children for their children are particularly envious of this kind of life.

There are also some Dink families who regret their original choice, especially envious of families with children, who feel very lonely in their old age when they have no children to serve at the bedside. To choose a Dink family, you must have a strong psychological quality as support, and firmly believe in your choice in order to make your old age happier. But when many couples get old, their health becomes worse and worse, and they can no longer go outside to see the world, and they will regret the choice they made when they were younger.

Looking at other old people's children and grandchildren, they are very happy, but they have no relatives to take care of them in front of their bed, and the loneliness will also linger in their hearts, and they will persuade young people not to go the way they have walked.

In my personal opinion, there is some selfishness in choosing Dink, which is not worth advocating. When I was young, I chose Dink to reduce my burden, thinking that I would save more money and be secure in my old age. However, they did not think about their parents, and the elderly were worried that their children would have no one to take care of them in the future, and they would be alone and would continue to live in such torment.

Therefore, I feel that the person who really chooses Dink is selfish, thinking only about his own life, completely ignoring the inner thoughts of the old man.

The Dink family was very happy in the end, because their economic conditions were very good, so they could enjoy the mountains and rivers when they were old. I think the Dink family is the choice of the husband and wife, and ordinary people should also respect their choice.

The Dink family may have some problems in the end, but in the process, both parties are more trusting and happy. The Dink family is a very good form, and I especially identify with it.

In the end, they were all happy, and I think Dink is a particularly good trend. After all, with children, nothing is very convenient, and it is very stressful.

The recommendations for Dink are as follows:1Understand your parents' expectations.

It is normal for parents to expect their children to start a family and have children, and as a Dink, we must understand this mindset and desire of parents. If you can't fully achieve it, express your understanding of your parents' feelings. This can alleviate the loss of parents and avoid causing family conflicts.

2.Be clear about your choices. While understanding your parents' wishes, you must firmly express to your parents your decision and reasons for choosing Dink.

Communicate openly and honestly so that parents understand that this is a deliberate choice and not a spur of the moment. This helps to gain the understanding and support of parents. 3.

Pay attention to your parents' feelings. Be concerned about your parents' feelings, especially during holidays or when your peers are married. Through ** or visits, the companion code chats with parents and expresses concern, which can soothe parents' emotions and reduce the sadness of being empty nest or childless.

4.Take part in recreational activities together. Regularly invite parents to go out to eat, travel and other activities to enhance the relationship and let parents experience other good things in life.

Indirectly make up for the regret of not being able to play with your grandchildren. 5.Assume part of the financial responsibility.

If possible, consider covering some of your parents' living expenses or medical expenses. This not only reduces the burden on parents, but also makes them feel cared for by their children, which helps to make up for the regret of not being able to rely on their children for their old age. 6.

Give parents certain expectations. If you still have plans to have children, you should give your parents certain expectations, even if it will take a longer time to achieve them. This can make parents feel that their wishes have not been completely disappointed, but have just been postponed.

Moderate expectations can give parents some comfort.