Able to speak and write examples of how to deal with encouragement and criticism

People have different opinions on encouragement and criticism, some people think that criticism can dampen people's enthusiasm, while encouragement can enhance people's self-confidence; Others believe that encouragement makes people proud, while criticism spurs people to work hard. But I think there are two sides to encouragement and criticism, depending on how you treat them.

I remember that on April 3rd, we held a monthly math exam in March, and April 5th was my parents' wedding anniversary, so on April 3rd, I decided to give my parents a good score as a gift, which was only one of them, and the second was that not long ago, my mother beat me up for being sloppy, and criticized me for being stupid and unproductive.

On April 5th, my results came down, and I got the first place in the whole year and the only one hundred, and the reason for the 100 was that I got a question that was easy to get wrong, and I was depressed enough to get 99 points. I got the perfect score, and my mom encouraged me, but I was proud.

The next day, my class took another math paper, I don't know if it was because of pride, or I couldn't help but boast, I only scored 98 points, and I fell third, although this is high enough for others, but I think I should be able to continue to be first - because I got two questions wrong that should not be wrong.

This is a painful lesson, but in any case, we must not lose the self-confidence to move forward bravely and aggressively because of criticism, but we must not be proud because we are encouraged, because there are two sides to things, we should play to our strengths and avoid weaknesses, but we must control reasonably.

"Beautiful" and "terrible" mean completely opposite things, but they can make people improve a little bit. On the road of life, we must learn not to be afraid of criticism, and not to get lost in the praise, if we can't learn to deal with praise and criticism, this person will not be able to become a useful person. Because, if you lose because of criticism.

Criticism and encouragement are two distinct forms of education, and although they both aim to do good things, I prefer encouragement instead.

I love encouragement because I know in my heart that encouragement can be thought-provoking. Looking back on the past year, what an extraordinary year it was, I was late for school more than five times, the total number of excellent tests was less than 10 times, and the performance of the high school entrance examination was seriously hindered. During this year's winter vacation, my dad received a report letter from my final exam last semester, and at that moment I was thinking:

What to do? This exam is definitely bad! How should I explain this to my family so that I am not blamed?

However, my father's performance was not as good as I expected, he just carefully handed me the report card, then pouted, patted me on the heavy shoulder, and said to me kindly, "That's good! You are always successful, and you are finally defeated by your opponent, otherwise, how can we take a breath, do you want to be a winning general?

Oh, don't be afraid, there is still enough time for you to work hard to make your dreams real!

This question is good, it involves both extreme essay topics, and the encouragement type of composition has a bit of romanticism, which can be a reflection of the reed, or a poem or song, as long as you grasp it and don't let you be encouraged to bend and swim disgusted.

Critical essays should be well-founded and convincing, and examples can be used, aphorisms, etc.

Special treatment in special circumstances.