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The reason why women are in a hurry to marry themselves off as soon as they are over the age of thirty is mainly because of the pressures of the world. Many girls of the same age around me are married, and only one of them is still single, so they will feel internally displaced and dare not face life directly.
Another important reason is parental pressure. Some girls are the only children in the family, and their parents have arrangements for their daughter's life. If the daughter is still unmarried when she reaches the marriageable age, or if she is unmarried after the age of 30, the parents will not be able to save face.
Most parents in China revolve around their children. Their amateur spiritual and cultural life is extremely scarce. In addition to interfering in the lives and work of children, even the emotions of children should also be intervened.
In addition to this, women will also feel anxious about the unknown life in their hearts. Life is not more than 100 years old, and 30 years old. If you don't marry yourself off at the age of thirty, a woman will often face a state of collapse in her heart.
She will lose her self-confidence, she will feel that her life is worthless, and she will not find the direction and strength to move forward in life.
Actually, this is completely unnecessary. If you are confident enough to plan for the future, and can follow the rhythm of your heart step by step, then you will usher in a better life.
Don't think you're undermarried after the age of 30. This only shows that you are in a difficult environment. When you properly step out of the environment you are in, get in touch with the wider world, and see the wider world, you will find that in fact, what you are worried about is not worth mentioning in the eyes of others.
You can listen to your parents' opinions and suggestions, but the decision is up to you. You can try to communicate more with your parents and try to make them understand what you really think. If they can't understand your current single status, then you might as well work on improving your abilities.
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Only when you live better and better, and have a qualitative leap in work or life, will your parents feel at ease with you. The reason why parents are worried that you will not be able to get married is because they are worried that you will not be able to take care of yourself, that you will be alone all your life, and that you will not have a partner to take care of you when you are old in the future. When you prove that you can live well even without a partner, then your parents will naturally not worry too much about you.
In any case, women should not use age as an excuse and a shield for getting married and getting married. You know, life is short, and you have to live as fully and comfortably as possible. If you're single, you can do what you really love to do without worrying about your partner's thoughts and feelings.
You can have a lot of time to develop your hobbies. May you always remain curious about life, brave and confident, independent and cheerful.
Each of us will grow old one day. No matter when we encounter love, we must not lose our love for life and our expectation of love.
As you get better and better, you will naturally meet more and more wonderful scenery. If you are in a hurry to marry yourself off because you are over the age of thirty, regardless of whether the other party is suitable or not, then you will definitely not be so happy after marriage. Instead of living with someone you don't love at all, it's better to live freely alone.
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Some people are 30 years old, and their children are running all over the ground, while some people are still single when they reach 30 years old. Happiness has never been about age, but loneliness is always so hard, why can't some women get married when they reach the age of 30? In fact, there are several reasons.
I found that when I was looking for a twenty-five or six-year-old man, the man wouldn't ask me how much money you make each month and how your home is. Many of them still date me with the original intention of falling in love, and they don't give me too much realistic consideration. But by the age of 30, the blind date man is getting more and more demanding.
They will ask me what your height and weight are. Q: How much do I earn? Q: How is my home?
Will give me a comprehensive evaluation as if I was a product for sale. At this time, they began to care about my age, thinking that I was 30 years old and at a disadvantage, so in addition to age, they demanded more and more from me.
Second, it's not that you can't get married, it's that you don't want to get married.
No one can refuse feelings unless they are not what they want. I waited so long for a better encounter, not because I couldn't get married, but because I didn't want to get married, I didn't want to compromise, I didn't want to settle. It's just that someone who can make me feel excited doesn't show up, and waiting and waiting is the hardest choice.
In this world, marrying improvisation is simple, and marrying life is just as simple, except for marrying love. Affection is an ethereal thing. Everyone knows there exists, but no one has ever seen what it looks like.
We all want to marry love, but what is love? Is it the sensation of a heartbeat? True love is not vigorous, but the warmest companionship in ordinary life.
Thirdly, the feelings were hurt and there was a shadow from then on.
Once bitten by a snake for ten years and afraid of the well rope, a woman who has been hurt by her feelings will lose the trust between people and the beautiful expectations of feelings. Even she feels that the whole world is dark, and men all over the world are unreliable. The shadow in her heart will always affect her kindness.
Most importantly, she lost the ability to love and be loved because she was hurt. They are innocent and they don't want to do this, but no matter how hard they try, it's hard to trust someone 100% anymore. Lu Xiaoman said:
Advancing with the day. In this world, there is no one who is not hurt. You have to believe that only you can truly ** yourself at all times.
Don't complain, try to forgive; Don't be afraid of loneliness and try to settle down.
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In fact, it is not that it is difficult for a woman to marry after the age of 30, a woman who has not been married before 30 will have a trace of anxiety and panic in her heart, but once she has passed 30, she will be relieved, and the woman at this time will also be able to think about marriage, and everything will be natural.
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Yes. This is because after the age of 30, the conditions and advantages of women in all aspects are not particularly obvious, so it is difficult to marry, unless the individual is very good.
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No, because whether a woman can marry or not has nothing to do with age, as long as she has a good attitude and looks energetic, she can marry at any time.
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It is relatively difficult for girls to find a partner at the age of thirty, but it is not absolutely impossible to marry.
As long as you have a successful career, have your own stable job, and have a stable income, you can still marry well.
But if you don't have a job yourself, it's a little more difficult if you don't have the ability to support yourself.
In short, seize your fate and don't be discouraged.
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Girls may not be really difficult to marry after the age of 30! Love and marriage need fate, and fate may only be once in a lifetime for everyone! Fate is destined, and when fate does not come, even if you are twenty years old, you may not be able to get married, but when fate comes as scheduled, even if you are forty years old, you can still be happy for a lifetime ......Therefore, no matter how old you are, no matter what gender you are, even if you are 30+, you can easily marry yourself, the key depends on your fate!
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It can be said that this is indeed the case, if the girl is older, some are indeed difficult to find, because at this time it has reached the age of low and high.
Because of the really capable age, most of the men in their 30s are married, and the rest are some people who don't have much ability, so it is indeed very difficult for women at this time to find a better one, and she can't settle for it, so it is said that it is not high or low.
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Relatively speaking, by the age of 30, most of the boys have 10,000 families, so there is a lot less room for girls to choose, and these girls can drag on until so late, the main reason is that they have not met good boys, so it will indeed be more difficult.
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One is a 30-year-old woman. It's hard to marry, you can't marry, it's not in age. It's about fate.
If you can't get married, you still can't get fate. There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to not know each other on the other side. A 30-year-old woman must not panic.
Be patient with that person. He's waiting for you right there.
The second is to do your own thing and do your own work well. Keep improving yourself. Enhance your skills. It is not at all necessary to think about 30 years old, 40 years old.
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Not necessarily. People should indeed fall in love at the age of falling in love, and then get married and start a family, realizing that each stage of life is accompanied by the change of years and the transformation of the role of social life. However, there are many people in life who are busy with their careers and have fulfilled and perfected their academic development.
Ignoring the age of love in love, when the career is small and the academic achievements are made, I look back and see that it is more than 30, and I have passed the best age to fall in love. Then don't be disheartened at this time, rest assured, as long as you have a complete personality and a successful career, there will definitely be good young people as good as you waiting for you there.
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Hello. There is such a trend because, according to the relevant statistics, there are now a lot of cases of old husbands and young wives. The average age of marriage for men in first-tier cities is over 31, while for women under 30.
But it is too absolute to say that it is not easy to marry after the age of 30, after all, there are still more women and men.
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Girls after the age of 30. You can get married, there is no problem, it still depends on whether you can meet the right person? Generally late in marriage. 30 years old is not a very big age for this era.
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Yes, men of the same age, unmarried and single with good conditions, there are basically a few left, and the rest are either very visionary, or they don't want to get married, or they have personality problems. The conditions are generally not even good, if you want to find it, you will not wait until you are 30 years old and have not married.
Those younger than you may not be willing to talk about sister and brother love, and you may not be able to accept it, many of those who are 35 years older than you are divorced, and you may not be willing to want it.
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No one will ask you to marry before the age of 30, no one will ask you to go on more blind dates before the age of 28, and no one will care if you are single, marriage-phobic, dink, feminist, or messy! Except for your parents. Most people just gossip out of boredom and go about their own business!
It doesn't matter if you marry someone or not, at what age do you marry? It's like when you have a wedding, most people just attend a meal, get some money back, or get called. I don't really bless you, it doesn't matter if your wedding is good or not.
Of course, people won't maliciously look at you and laugh at you and curse you or anything like that. After all, it has nothing to do with yourself, and being able to come is already a person who has a good relationship with you. So, the decision is yours.
Moreover, you yourself know why you can't find it, whether it is demanding, or there are no bright spots, or there are major flaws ......Only you know. If you don't even understand this, I suggest you make a post on Zhihu, and we will wake you up for free Now the reality is that it is not easy for a woman to marry when she is old! More than thirty, there is nothing willing to introduce on a blind date.
Don't ask why, there's no why! This is the objective phenomenon of the market. Drag your own time, you think you're happy, you don't have to care about other people's evaluations, just as others never care if you're good or not.
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Girls will not be unable to marry after the age of 30, but they have not met the right person, many people will meet the right person at a certain time, this depends on fate, don't look at how old you are, rather lack than abuse, don't just settle for it.
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The age of 30 is actually a hurdle in life, which means that life has begun to enter middle age. In addition, under the influence of the people around them, most of the men and women in this time have become families, according to incomplete statistics, 25 to 29 years old is the most concentrated age of marriage. After this age, most of the remaining men are divorced men, or they are forced to find a man hastily due to the pressure of their families.
First, you must be looking for a worthy man, otherwise you won't be 30 years old.
The second interaction between men and women is the survival value and reproduction value, and men generally believe that women are about 18-25 when women are the most beautiful and have the best reproductive ability, so every time you are one year older, there will be more girls one year younger than you to compete with you.
Thirdly, 30-year-olds are generally classified as in their thirties, while 29-year-olds are classified as those in their 30s or 20s.
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No, it won't! Since ancient times.
There are men leftover in bai, and there are no leftover women in du. Nowadays, people put their main energy on work, so that they can have better material materials in the future.
It is a living condition and is struggling. Therefore, some girls are not married after thirty, and such girls are either very good, have very high mate selection conditions, or are mediocre. It's still very easy to get married.
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30 years old is not difficult to marry, at this age is not married, most of them are going to work or career first, 30 years old still has the opportunity to choose, but it is best not to exceed 32, when you want to marry, you may not be able to find someone who can match her.
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