What was the most disappointing moment in a relationship?

My boyfriend in college was the most tiring, heartbreaking, and ruinous one I've ever talked about.

He has a confidante with all kinds of inexplicable feelings and ambiguities.

When we watched the movie, the girl beat him and cried, saying that he couldn't find her father anymore and was very sad;

When she was shopping with her boyfriend, she called him in official phone, saying that she was lost with her boyfriend, had no money to eat, and her mobile phone was out of battery, but she only remembered his number and wanted to come to our school to ask him to invite her to dinner;

She came to our school at Christmas to ask my boyfriend to invite her to dinner, to ask him to give her apples, and he gave her ...... the apples I gave him

This kind of bloody thing can't be endured by any of the main rooms: You can't find your father, what are you doing beating my boyfriend? Can you get lost shopping with your boyfriend?

You don't bring money with you when you go out? You got lost with your boyfriend and you don't go to your boyfriend? You take the apple I gave to my boyfriend?

The above things were all done without me, and then I knew, and when I quarreled, I asked him, next time this happens, will he invite her to dinner? He said he would, because his friend asked him for help and he wouldn't refuse.

The green light above my head was so green that I smashed my phone straight away.

The only thing I regret is not smashing his phone at the time.

I think the most disappointing thing about being in a relationship is not being firmly chosen.

It is a very happy thing to be able to be firmly chosen by others, just like the starry sky at night, no matter how many stars there are, there will only be you as the moon in their eyes.

In fact, the likes of most people now are actually just good feelingsThis liking may be lost because of some bad behavior in the crowd, wearing clothes that you don't like, or even putting on makeup that you don't look good at.

It's really taboo in real love"The thunder is loud and the rain is small".acts,It's to say that the favorability of the score is 99 points of love, and I don't even understand it at all, but I just say a few words and I feel that I can talk about it, and I can say that I like it, and I will talk about the so-called love together.

But in fact, many people can talk about it now, not because the three views are very compatible, but because everyone is now very good at doing superficial work, climbing up the ladder given by each other, creating a feeling that we are very suitable.

But this is not the case in real lifeIt takes time to really like and fall in love, and love is to really understand a person and how compatible he is with himself in a defenseless stateYou should even see if you can accept, understand, and return when this person is not as perfect as you imaginedBe able to firmly say that you just like this person and want to be with them.

However, once you lose this firmness in love, there is nothing to expect from this relationship, only disappointment.

Not to be firmly chosenLove is not destined to be happy and beautiful, it is not like other things that may make people regretful, maybe angry, maybe hateIt will only disappoint people, disappointed in this relationship, disappointed in the person they love so much, disappointed in their choice and dedication.

I hope we can all have clear love, sincere like, direct disgust, standing in the sun and being determined.

I think it's the most disappointing thing for both parties to feel bound in their relationship.

Feelings will eventually be flat, feelings are used for self-restraint, there are no two people who are naturally suitable, but two people who accommodate and change each other. A good relationship is both free and constraining.

If a relationship can only be loyal by relying on the constraints of the other party, then there is no need for such a relationship to exist, and a good relationship does not depend on management, but on mutual respect. Instead of being on the alert! The two unanimously resist anxiety and nothingness externally, and have a sparse view of love in this world together.

Propose a trial, instead of messing with each other's mentality in this sparse world.

How can there be only one disappointment in love.

There is no novelty

Freshness is this thing, when you feel that the feelings begin to fade is when love really begins, when you feel that there is no freshness, of course you can choose to give up, you go to find another love that is more fresh for you, but when this love fades again, you will fall into a dead circle.

usYou can't lose the person who has always been with you because of that cheap freshness。Freshness should be experiencing something different from the same person. The person who makes your heart flutter is not the person who makes you feel at ease.

Marriage, that is, you will fall in love with the same person repeatedly, and the novelty will always pass, but the upbringing and sense of responsibility will not.

Insincere

Love is always and only, but when do we have a love concept of "falling in love will break up, and getting married may divorce".

To get close to each other, what skills are there in love, sincerity is nirvana, sincerity is always more important than romance, but unfortunately, people are tempting now, lovely sincerity, warm openness, brave single-mindedness has been rare.

You must fall in love with human nature, and tell the problem if you have it, so that the other party can know what you think, and then the love can flow, just throwing out emotions for him to guess will only make both parties very tired.

After all, everyone is an ordinary person, and ordinary people will have the side that loves themselves more, likes the new and hates the old, and longs for freedom

The end of a relationship must begin with disappointment.

At first, there was a lot of expectation, then there were contradictions, and slowly the contradictions became more and more disappointments accumulatedWhen the rational judgment of the future is hopeless, the breakup will appear.

If you want to say that the most disappointing thing in love, it is often the small details.

However,The difference in the difference between men and women can also lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

The easiest thing to disappoint a guy is the emotionality of a girl, because for a guy,No matter how much he loves such a girl, he will not regard love as all, but will slowly regard feelings as a common thing.

In a girl's relationship, the most accustomed thing is that she is easy to be emotional, and the biggest disappointment of a girl is the future that she can't see.

Especially for the transition from the honey period to the flat period, if the other party is slow to reply to the message or doesn't care enough about himself, he doesn't say some sweetness like before. In short, they will be emotional because the other party does not meet their needs, and they often use the breakup as a test of the other party's feelings. And these are often the processes that disappoint boys, and they are also the processes that consume men's confidence, and they will feel that such girls are not suitable for long-term relationships, so they feel disappointed and want to leave.

In particular, if you don't do what you ask the other person to do for you, you will be disappointed. Secondly, there is also the aspect of material benefitsIf one of the parties in a relationship is more materialistic, they will also feel disappointed in the relationship. In the end, the habitual love of not replying to messages all day is the most disappointingBecause in this way, the two will gradually drift apart, they will not be able to integrate into each other's lives, and all aspects will not be carried out, so that all feelings will become memories.

The biggest dead heart, the most able to make people die should be the three words "I love you!" ”

Speaking of this, everyone must be surprised. Aren't "I love you" the three most beautiful words?

No, I'll let you make up another scene: it's raining heavily, the dim roadside lights are standing quietly, and a woman rushes out of the door crying, and a man catches up behind and grabs her hand. "I love you!

The man cried out heartbreakingly, but the woman slapped the man in the face with a reflexive turn, "But I'm already dead to you!" The woman said sadly, shook off the man's hand, and disappeared into the rain.

When love is full of lies, when some people are deeply hurt again and again, "I love you" becomes ironic!

Make it for you based on common emotional experience. In a relationship, there can be many moments that make people feel lost and sad, such as:

1.The other person does not respect your feelings and needs, and often makes you feel unvalued;

2.The other party does not have common goals and values for their career, life, family and other aspects of planning and pursuit;

3.The other person abandons you at an important moment, such as when you need his support and companionship and he or she is not around;

4.The other party's words and deeds are inconsistent, and many times what they say and do are different, making you feel untrustworthy and dependent;

5.The way and how often the other person communicates with you makes you feel bothered and distant.

Of course, everyone's feelings and reactions are different, and these are just some of the situations that can cause people to feel lost and sad. In a relationship, if a situation arises that makes you feel uncomfortable, it is best to communicate with the other person in time to find a solution to the problem.

When you feel that your own feelings have been deceived, when you feel that the other party is not single-minded towards you, there is a high probability that you will die.

After the yang, the boyfriend didn't care.

The most disappointing behavior in love is that two people always say something hurtful to me when they quarrel, which may make me sad, very sad, and may also touch my bottom line, so I think the most important thing in love is to be afraid of being open-mouthed.

In love, quarrels are inevitable, quarrels are not a bad thing, a conflict that can be handled well, sometimes it will enhance the relationship between you, but many people always can't solve it well when they quarrel, either choose the cold war or choose to separate, and separate to calm down for a while. But when two people quarrel, they are most afraid that one party thinks about how to reconcile, and the other party wants to let go and leave, so no matter how hard one party tries, no matter how much they have the intention to reconcile, it will be useless, quarrel is quarrel, and any quarrel is an irresponsible behavior to break up under the pretext of quarreling.

Disappear for no apparent reason.

He is either busy with work, or his mobile phone is out of battery or his voice is not on, he is not accidentally asleep, or he can't pick up ** in the shower, he is not driving in a meeting, he is in a bad mood and doesn't want to talk, he is not hurt and dare not love anymore, or he says that his parents are against it and cannot continue. The most feared thing in the relationship is this, disappearing for no reason, but you can make up a hundred and eight reasons to say that you are speechless, think about it carefully, why didn't he have these reasons when he was just in love, what were you like when you were just together, he actually has nothing to hide, he just feels tired and doesn't want to continue.

Feelings are not as good as imagined.

Many times we only want to see the side we want to see in our relationship, you see him buy breakfast for you once, but ignore the complaints after he handed you breakfast, you see the gifts he bought you on holidays, but forget the thousands of shoes he gave to his friends, and comfort yourself that your heart is no matter how big or small, sometimes you can always beautify everything he does for you, but ignore the facts. When you find out that he doesn't love you as much as you think, you think you have conquered him, you think you have been favored by him, but in fact, you only live in your own imagination, he can turn down his date with you because of a ball game, and he will also quarrel with you because of a few dollars. This is a mistake that many women make, and when the relationship ends here, the best way is to end it.