If I can t love the person I want to love the most, who can ask me what to do?

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

To make love have a long-term and tenacious vitality, it is indeed necessary for both parties to be careful, patient, and careful to manage. When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as: understanding, understanding and trust.

These three factors are indispensable, is the essence of all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely be a wish. Here's another trick: if you want it to last, you need to keep it fresh all the time, that is, you need to find something to deal with the impatience between each other, long-term sensory numbness, aesthetic fatigue and other fatal ones"Killers", can quickly deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love at the fastest speed, and transform them into the kind of mutual affection and dependence on each other like family affection"Compound"Affection.

Only love with this kind of affection is the strongest and most long-lasting, and it will become more and more durable and unbreakable with the passage of time. When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world. He.

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy. If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you?

Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world. The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you bless him silently, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him.

Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy. It's okay to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

Each person's situation is different, in a word, love with your heart, you think what she thinks, share her worries, rejoice with her, love her, and care for her.

Also, you have to be like a man, decisive and courageous, but not arbitrary. A normal woman would not like a man who is not manly.

Good luck, I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.

Love is consensual, wishful love, will not be happy, that is a kind of unrequited love. So when you are liked by someone you don't like, it's a very disgusting emotion, because you don't like him yourself, and you don't even want to look at him more. Now he likes you in turn, and that boredom really comes from the heart.

I have also had such an experience, in real life, I particularly hate a person, but he is not interesting, from time to time to get close to you, trying to get close to you, want to chat with you, want to help you do anything, the more he is like this, the more disgusted I am. He even sometimes attacked him with ugly words, but he was not angry. This is really a dilemma for you.

It also brought me a very bad feeling.

Sometimes it feels like the other party is like a kraft candy, and you can't get rid of the sedan board if you want to. You show him face, he doesn't care, you say nasty things to him, and he won't get angry. But this kind of person does really like you and really loves you, but it's just his wishful thinking.

He didn't know that his behavior brought others not pleasure, but pain.

Therefore, when you like a person and want to pursue a person, you must think about whether the other party also has a good impression of yourself, if the other party has a good impression of yourself, you can boldly pursue Huai Shu, if the other party not only has no good impression of you, but also hates you very much in this case to give up. Because even if you go to chase after Ming and beg the other party, the other party will not agree, and you can only touch a piece of ash, which will bring embarrassment.

There will always be such an argument in life, that is, if you can't get the person you love, it doesn't matter who you are with in the rest of your life. In my opinion, this is a very incorrect value and a very irresponsible behavior, mainly for the following reasons

It's not like that, if you can't love the person you want to love the most, you may leave good memories in your heart, but the person who is together in the end must be the most suitable.

Yes, if you can't get the person you want to love the most, it doesn't matter who you marry later. Sometimes people are just so headstrong.

That's true. can't wait for the person you love the most, you feel that your feelings don't matter, it's the same as anyone else.

Personally, I don't agree with this idea, although we can't love the person we want to love the most, but we can also choose the most suitable person for ourselves, instead of choosing to give up on ourselves because of love, which is a harm to ourselves and others.

It's definitely not like this, you can't love the person you want to love, and it's very important for the other party to be very good to you.

Love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation.

A kind of happiness for lovers.

Fu strives to build.

A piece of sky, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a process of interdependence and kindness to each other, a heartbeat (thinking.

Reading time), heartbeat (phase.

Feelings of heartache (parting and hurting).

Love someone, to.

Understand and explain, apologize and thank, and admit mistakes.

It is also necessary to correct mistakes, to be considerate and considerate, to accept rather than endure, and to be tolerant.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has one.

Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Loving someone is not something we can control, we can't let you love whoever you love, you will love whom! Maybe the person you fall in love with won't love you, but you have to know that love is about fate, maybe you will feel very cheesy, but it cannot be denied that 2 people with fate fall in love and have feelings, and it is just a matter of an instant. But if you don't have fate, no matter how much you give, you can't be together.

Now you, knowing that he will not fall in love with you, but you still can't let go, because in your heart you always feel that maybe you are working harder, paying a little more, he will fall in love with you, you are wrong, love is relative, just you are a love in the payment is not worth it! We can only give you advice on this question, and the real answer is that only you can be yourself! It's like I'm telling you now, I can't love him, so can you let go of him immediately and don't love him?

The real answer is what you think in your heart! If he is single now, then you have a chance to fight for your love! Although you have a 50% chance of failing, at least you won't regret that you missed your love later!

If he has a girlfriend now, you'd better not be a third party, because such love is shameful! Now only you can help yourself, and I believe you will understand that by putting your love in someone who loves you, you will get more and more precious things!

There are people who love each other but can't. There are each other's ** stored in the mobile phone, but they don't dare to send him a message, and secretly swipe his circle of friends, but they don't dare to like it. In this world, not all true love can be fulfilled.

God, I always arrange for the person I really love to appear, but not together.

There will probably be someone in everyone's heart who wants to love, but can't. Because of the studies, because of the future, because of the economic conditions. For various reasons, we can't be together.

But have you noticed? The feeling of longing but not being able to get it, although it makes us miserable, it also makes us obsessed.

We are willing to immerse ourselves in a love song full of memories and hear tears streaming down our faces. is willing to stay up late chasing a drama, and is so abused by the plot that he can't extricate himself. Especially now, without a bit of sadism, no one wants to watch TV series.

Gu Man once wrote in "Why Sheng Xiaomo": "Sometimes, obsession will make people fall deeper and deeper, and the heart that can't love is very lonely. "In the world of love, there is no one who does not want to be loved deeply, but whether the person you love loves you and whether you can stay together for a long time is an unknown.

Love, fascinating, but also painful. Love, when it is beautiful, it will give you sweetness, and when it is cruel, it will give you sorrow. Perhaps, in everyone's heart, there is a person who can't be loved, and this feeling is irrepressible but deep.

Some people say that love that is neither early nor late is the most beautiful. Indeed, there is a kind of helplessness, called seeing each other and hating each other, wanting to love but not being able to love.

When I fall in love with someone, I often can't help myself, and unconsciously, I have a good impression of each other, and at that moment, I suddenly found that I had fallen in love with each other. This sudden feeling makes you stumble and panic. Deeply in love, but can not be with each other, can not give each other long-term love, this helplessness, often make you feel distressed.