Parents are very picky about their boyfriends and have a headache

Updated on psychology 2024-03-04
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm in the same situation as you now, but your boyfriend has been to your house, and I haven't been there, because her parents think I don't have a stable job and house, and I'm also struggling now, but I'll give you a suggestion, continue to talk with your boyfriend, everything takes time to solve, after a long time, your parents will slowly understand and soften, and then they will agree with you naturally, it's not easy for two people to be together, life is only a few decades in the world, It's not easy to find what you really like in the vast sea of people, don't give up, come on.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To put it bluntly, parents are afraid of losing their daughter's love for them, if you get married, you are someone's daughter-in-law, and the status of your parents will be reduced in your daughter's mind, which is the psychological crux of your parents.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's right to continue to insist, your parents are prejudiced against others.

    Maybe they feel that your boyfriend is not handsome enough and not so worthy of you in appearance, because of this, they can't talk about it, after all, people are constantly good-looking, this is what they know.

    You don't have to worry, you've all been persistent, what can they do.

    You won't find a boyfriend anymore, and over time, they will change their minds, after all, you live with him, not one of them.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This method can only be married, and when you get married, your parents will want to open it! You can also tell them that you are only happy when you are with your boyfriend and that parents want their children to be happy. They'll agree.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    They want you to find a rich man to marry. Of course, it's also for your own good. But on the other hand, he hopes that you can find a happy life that you like.

    Parents ask your boyfriend for this and that, and this is a big part of it to save face. Patience enlightened. It's up to you.

    I think happiness can only be achieved when you are with people you like. If you base your happiness on material things, you will lose badly. Decide for yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You just tell them that you don't marry him, anyway, it's not you who will be in a hurry if it drags on for a few more years, everyone is forced out

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The beginning of a relationship is not smooth, and many times you will go through many tests to get the happiness you want, and such a relationship will make people cherish it more. If I am picked on by my boyfriend's parents in every possible way, I will endure it, after all, it is the other party's parents, there is no need to conflict with them, and I will not live with them in the future, so it is not a very serious problem. Simple.

    It is understandable that the other party is very critical of himself, after all, the son of the side bridge pants no longer only belongs to them, but has the existence of the other half. No matter how the other party treats him, he is the parent of his boyfriend, and as a junior, he should not worry about the other party to reduce the risk of conflict.

    If you want to have a good future and two people want to get married, then you should maintain a good relationship with each other and avoid getting along badly in the future. If two people are knocked unconscious, they will be a family in the future, and it is best to maintain a good relationship between family members, even if they feel uncomfortable, they must have a good grasp of the relationship. If you really love your boyfriend, then don't embarrass the other person, and don't let the other party feel that your girlfriend and parents are irreconcilable explosives.

    If you always make the other person look down on you through your own efforts, then it is good to try to be yourself and not try to please anyone. Many times, as long as you are happy, if you spend a lot of time pleasing the other party, as long as it will only be thankless, it will also affect your mood.

    Every parent loves their own children, the other party's parents are critical of themselves in every possible way, they must not understand themselves, if they still do not recognize themselves through hard work, then accept such a reality, and strive to live their own small life with each other. If you can't get blessings in the relationship, then don't try to please the other party, which will only make the other party hate yourself more, and strive to be an excellent self to get more respect.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't quarrel with him because of his mother, because he is caught between the two of you, and he himself has to fight his minds, and his leather pants will only make him more tired.

    Women have a more or less possessive grip on themselves, and his mother is no exception.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm probably going to give up on this relationship. If your relationship is not blessed by your father and mother, it will not last long, and his unbridled parents are critical of you in every way, which means that they don't like you at all, and your boyfriend doesn't defend you, so you still have to let go of this relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I will talk to my boyfriend about something, hoping that he will mediate some of his parents' emotions, and only if he mediates will our relationship be better.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I will choose to please them, and since he is my boyfriend's parents, I will do a better job to maintain our relationship so that my boyfriend is no longer entangled.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I will break up with each other immediately, this kind of life is not what I want very much, even if two people are together, there will be a lot of estrangement.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Personally, I will communicate more with my parents, or ask my boyfriend to do something in front of his parents to reassure them. 

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I will try to make my parents discover the good in my boyfriend and regulate their relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think I should try to get my boyfriend to correct his bad shortcomings, and also persuade my parents not to be too demanding.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I try to regulate my boyfriend's relationship with my parents, and I also consider my parents' opinions about my boyfriend.

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I suggest that if you really love him, give him some time to develop, don't blame your parents if you are killed, your parents will not harm you, as long as he has a prospect and can give you happiness, your parents will accept him sooner or later, and you don't want to have only love, drink the northwest wind to live. Just fall in love, keep your purity, and if he is really good to you, I believe there will be happiness. Don't pass on all your parents' words to your boyfriend, I'm sure no boy will be grateful to his girlfriend's parents for not liking him.