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Do you know your children, classmates, and parents?This is an inescapable phenomenon of natural energy.
Scientifically speaking, when a child gradually enters society and begins school life, peers are the factor that has the greatest influence on them. This is followed by parents, teachers, relatives, and so on. This conclusion has been confirmed in many studies in the field of education, so I will not repeat it.
In terms of life experience, children and parents lack channels for mutual understanding.
Children study in the closed environment of the school for more than 8 hours a day. They have the most contact with their classmates, and their daily life can be said to be highly homogeneous, naturally understanding each other and cherishing each other.
Parents, on the other hand, spend less than 4 hours a day with their children. And as the child grows, this time gradually decreases. Parents don't have the energy to learn more about school life, and children have only a vague idea of how their parents "go to work".
This lack of communication and understanding is a high wall between the two, and the parent-child relationship is increasingly estranged.
In my opinion, it is still necessary for parents to take the initiative to ignite the desire for communication between the two sides. Talk to your child about your work and life, and make the chat fun and rewarding, just like with your friends. Open your heart first and accept others, and children's attitudes will naturally change.
If you are busy with work, try to arrange parent-child activities on weekends. Exhibitions, shopping, sports, etc., the arrangements are richer, leaving good memories of the family together. The children feel the warmth of the family and are more considerate and understanding of their parents.
Everything about home is based on love! Let children feel love, in order to have the power to give back love!
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Parents and parents who don't know each other with classmates, this kind of depends on the situation.
First of all, it depends on the children, well, they have been going to school together for a few years, if they only go to school for one or two or two or three years, then it is impossible to know all the parents of their classmates. Because in a class, there are usually more than 30 students, and then a classmate has two parents, so that there are more than 60 people together, and the time to meet each other may only be 10 minutes a day. When it is time to pick up children, some parents do not even go to pick up their children, or only one parent picks up their children, so it is very difficult to get to know each other.
Secondly, if the children have been in school together for a long time, such as five or six years, or kindergarten, primary and junior high school together, this kind of parents must know a lot better. So if everyone is going to school together, or in a class, and most of the classmates are promoted together, then at this time the children are in junior high school, and parents and other parents know this possibility.
Again, some schools will have students take the school bus, such a situation. Then the parents of the students who do the school bus often do not go to the school, unless there is an occasional parent-teacher meeting, so in this case, such parents because of the number of meetings with other parents is very rare, other parents are difficult to recognize him. Even if you're in junior high school, you won't necessarily recognize it.
To sum up, most of the words of ordinary parents and parents of their children's classmates cannot be recognized. Especially if the child is younger, then the parents have less contact. If the children are very old, have already reached junior high school, and most of them are directly promoted, then parents may know each other.
There is also a part of the child who has been riding the school bus, and this part of the parents is difficult for others to recognize.
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Parents who do not know their children's classmates and rarely communicate with them, and generally communicate with their children's teachers to understand their children's performance in school.
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How is it possible to know all the parents of the children? Maybe a few parents who are of the same age and live close to each other know each other, most of them don't know each other, but not when they meet, there will be some brief exchanges, but they won't communicate some other information, or don't know too much? There may be some contact in the group, but these contacts can only be at the level, not at the deep level.
It is also not recommended to say that the parents of the students are in close contact, because it is useless, and if you know each other too much, it will also have an impact on the personal space of the individual, so it is better to leave some space for each other, and there is some communication in the group, and there is no need to know each other.
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Summary. Hello, dear, the intimate relationship between the parents of the child and the parents of the classmates is to ask how the parents get along with each other?
Hello, dear, the intimate relationship between the parents of the child and the parents of the classmates is to ask how the parents get along with each other?
Our children are classmates, she is divorced, and I have been emotionally broken for many years, but Dashan Kai has not divorced for the sake of the children. And I have a good impression of each other, in this case, can she and I be the only relatives to develop further? Does it have a good impact on children?
Dear, I think your relationship has been broken for many years, and the sedan chair has not been divorced, and the relationship is not good, and the children will know that your relationship is not good when they grow up! And if you don't divorce, if you get along with her now, will the other party accept it? There is nothing bad about the child!
When the child is slow and cautious, he will hope that his parents will have their own happiness!
The other party also wanted to, but she was worried about the body of this kind of classmate's parents, and she didn't dare to cross the thunder pool.
Identity. If both parties are single, it will have no effect on the children, not to mention that the children can learn from each other and play with each other!
Meaning, she and I can continue to develop?
Yes, let's get along for a while and see what the other party means, after all, this matter is not our side's decision, right? <>
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